if i woke up gay will I still be single?

[B_Marius567]

if i woke up gay will I still be single? I can not find any women that will date me so will the odds of me finding a date go up if i was gay?

 

[macho8]

you'd get more sex for sure... but being with another gay guy also has its challenges!

 

[B_Nick8]

No, but you wouldn't find it any easier because no gay man would want you, so stay where you are. The grass isn't always greener, honey.

 

[BBB2.5]

No, but you wouldn't find it any easier because no gay man would want you, so stay where you are. The grass isn't always greener, honey.

WOW...

 

[Otep]

WOW...

Would you want to date a straight person who claimed they woke up gay because they couldn't find any dates? Sounds like the potential for a very short relationship with very awkward sex.

 

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

Given your name is Shy. I suspect it's not your sexuality that's the problem.

The other day I met this couple. She was model gorgeous. 5'10, blond. Full Cs in a tight tshirt. He was below average.

You know what he probably did though 10 years ago? He probably went up and talked to her.

 

[bi_todd]

Showing your huge dick to the right guys would ensure some hookups. But not sure if that is what you are looking for.

 

[ShannonH]

if i woke up gay will I still be single? I can not find any women that will date me so will the odds of me finding a date go up if i was gay?

Spend less time pitying yourself online, and more time talking to actual women, and you'll do just fine.

 

[CUBE]

One of the above posters was not understanding your question I think. You did not mean to say "would gay guys like me" for any negative reason. You meant would they see something different or of value in me. Well first, guy, you have a huge dick...and ball sack. So know matter what, if alone you won't be lonely. I have to tell you that I think you are kind of a cutie. I think you are indeed on the shy side and I am sure a nice guy so that is a plus plus plus. If I may. I think you need to shake your look up a bit. You need some nice new black shoes. Some dark jeans that have more of a modern edge. (Go to the store...ask the clerk for help if you need it). Plus a fitted shirt with collars to give you more structure...slim guys need this. Next, make sure you are getting out and talking to people. Change up your routine and try new patterns of meeting gals. There is not just one gal out there for you...there are many. So showcase yourself a bit and be your nice self OK. Regards man. Keep us posted on your quest for the ladies. Big hug

 

[Countryguy63]

Would it stop you from making so many homophobic statements?

You might find a date then

 

[houtx48]

Ah stay where you are most gay guys are bigger bitches than the female gender ones and I say it with luv.

 

[martin60018]

self esteem problem combined with looking for dates with women who only want a man for his money. look for a woman who wants YOU

 

[B_Nick8]

WOW...

I don't think you're familiar with the general tenor of the OP's posts.

 

[Rikter8]

Would it stop you from making so many homophobic statements?

You might find a date then

+1

It doesn't matter if your Gay or Straight - your attitude and how you treat other people is the dealbreaker.

FWIW - theres a guy I work with and he is a staunch conservative. "God hates fags, damn liberals, women belong in the kitchen" - the works.

He's in his late 40s and can't get a date to save his life because he treats people as he is king, and that's that.

 

[dylz]

no. gays are picky. you'd probably have an even harder time.

 

[BIGBULL29]

no. gays are picky. you'd probably have an even harder time.

If gay men are looking for a true, lasting relationship, they may have to let go of their "pornstar" ideal, or end up alone. Straight men, in general, learn this lesson much more earlier in life than their gay counterparts (even if they cheat, watch porn, etc).

I don't date and never really have. The monastery may soon be calling (Buddhist, Catholic, Orthodox, etc...:biggrin1

 

[tallandlean]

You may be shy but your huge cock should be an opener
(no pun intended) with any woman.

 

[joaocam]

I'd take you out on a date.

 

[WillyLong]

Regardless of sexuality, if all you have going for you is your dick, you're going to end up being used by the objects of your desire. Work on your mind and body and the relationship you really want will be there waiting for you.

 

[B_enzia35]

Lots of good advice. Get out there! I have the same problem.