If I wonder what it's like to give head...

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Does that say anything about my sexuality?

Honestly, this is not a troll or spam. I think about this a lot.

Been hetro all my life; crazy about females ever since I can remember. Had a lot of sex and enjoyed (almost) every minute. I have always been fascinated with oral; giving and receiving. As time has gone on I have wanted to see more of it and found myself wondering "What is that like"? Even gone so far as asking her to explain it to me, but that's gotta be like asking what colors are to the blind since I never got much more than "warm".

Since a lot of women that I have known have been averse to it, the few that really enjoyed giving were of course my favorites :)

This is a question I have wanted to ask for a long time, and having discovered this place and openness here I look forward to your thoughts!
 

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i think you are normal...just speaking it out loud makes us feel odd about ourselves...but you ask it at the right place...should you taste the real thing...well then might be different...only to you...and how you can live with your decision
 

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At this point I don't think it really says a lot about your sexuality besides that you are openminded.

Give it some thought. If you want to try it out, then do so. It might turn out that you really like giving as well as receiving. Maybe not.

When I was 18 I had my first thought about giving head and I gave it a shot. It turned out that I like it, quite a bit. Soon after, after much internal wrangling, I realized that I had a bisexual side. Maybe you do, maybe you don't, only you can find out.

To me, life is a voyage of self discovery. It is interesting, the things we learn about ourselves. If you give it a try you will learn something about yourself, quite possibly that giving head makes you sick :smile:. You never know...
 

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Thanks guys! I knew this was the right place to ask :biggrin1:

Actually, I have tasted it, sort of. Once when I was asking my GF what it tasted like without hesitation she said "I'll show you". I was like :confused:

She said when I was done she would give me a sample. Well, I thought she would swallow and leave a taste for me. She saved it all and came up and kissed me with it...took my be surprise at first but I thought "Hey, if she (and so many others) can do this I am sure it won't kill me.

And you know what... I actually liked it. It was a real turn on for her too.
 

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It seems to be a purely sexual experience for most bi guys - I would say. Little or no emotional connection with your partner. It can be an intense turn on different then hetero sex. If you are curious I would guess you would probably like it. Finding someone to try it with can be tricky so I think many never try who would like to, or do it very infrequently. Give it a try if you get a chance.
 

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Does that say anything about my sexuality?

Honestly, this is not a troll or spam. I think about this a lot.

Been hetro all my life; crazy about females ever since I can remember. Had a lot of sex and enjoyed (almost) every minute. I have always been fascinated with oral; giving and receiving. As time has gone on I have wanted to see more of it and found myself wondering "What is that like"? Even gone so far as asking her to explain it to me, but that's gotta be like asking what colors are to the blind since I never got much more than "warm".

Since a lot of women that I have known have been averse to it, the few that really enjoyed giving were of course my favorites :)

This is a question I have wanted to ask for a long time, and having discovered this place and openness here I look forward to your thoughts!
The answer to this question is not so simple. Just thinking about something means little. If you are truly attracted by another penis to the point of erection or wanting
to achieve orgasm, then you're clearly moving toward being at least bi. What do you think?
 

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Yeah i don't think it means a whole deal about your sexuality....... and if it doese... is it really all that important? I consider myself a gay man......... have given oral to women twice in my life first time hated it (she was unclean) second time had the time of my life loved it had an absolute ball watching her force herself hard onto my face. Am i str8.... doubt it verry much.... to be honest i prefer giving head to men.

What it like giving head to men...... fun with a capitol F....... to this day i seriosly have to say that i dont think anything can beat the feeling of 69ing with another guys feeling your cock slide down his throat as his cock slides down his. Licking his nutsack and seeing it contract with pleasure..... feeling his cock start of soft in your mouth and feeling it grow harder and harder in your mouth........

Seriosly......give it a try..... you'll love it .......
 

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Nice thread. I don't think it says anything about your sexuality. I've had the same thoughts. I like to try to imagine how things are for other people from their perspective, so naturally I have imagined what it must be like to give head. I don't get turned on by the thoughts, so I don't consider myself bisexual or curious even.
 

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You've heard the old saying "better to give than receive?"
The act itself is okay, but the good part is watching the look of amazement and pleasure on your partner's face. It's hard to beat a good blow job, and it's hot for me to know that I can work magic with my mouth.
 

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Hire a male escort. That way you don't have to risk word of you doing so being leaked to other people. Also, you can hire an escort with the attributes that most turn you on.
 

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I think it is just an honest question on your part. It all depends on the other guy too. It isn't the cock in your mouth as much as knowing what you are doing to him. The cock then in turn becomes more of a turn on. Your fine
 

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I dunno, I don't think I could do it. I used to do myself and it wasn't all that. Just never had an interest to do it to a guy.

I am certified in oral satisfaction but only with the opposite sex.
Hire a male escort. That way you don't have to risk word of you doing so being leaked to other people. Also, you can hire an escort with the attributes that most turn you on.
The OP didn't say he wanted to try it. He just asked if anyone has wondered what it was like and if that said anything about their sexuality.

It's kind of like saying I've wondered what it would be like to be in combat. It doesn't make me pro-war and doesn't make me want to join the military to find out. It just means I have a good imagination.
 

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I have never had a cock in my mouth, but over the last 4-5 years, I jerk off all the time thinking how good it might be, But I have never acted on it worrying that I may not like it. I even joke with a guy at work (Much younger, I'm 49, he is 23!) He says things like he'd love to feel my juice blast his mouth. and return the favor. And it really gets my blood flowin'
Maybe one of these days!
 

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The OP didn't say he wanted to try it. He just asked if anyone has wondered what it was like and if that said anything about their sexuality.

It's kind of like saying I've wondered what it would be like to be in combat. It doesn't make me pro-war and doesn't make me want to join the military to find out. It just means I have a good imagination.

Well, sort of. I mean I think I would like to try it...I know I didnt come (hehe) out and say it but I really would. Just not sure how to go about it. :frown1: It's a bit of a double edged sword, with the risk of disease I would not want to be with a stranger, but being with someone I know would change things between us.

So I sit and wonder...
 

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think long think wrong....nah maybe that analgy does not apply here...might i suggest to sit and think a bit longer...
 

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It's a bit of a double edged sword, with the risk of disease I would not want to be with a stranger, but being with someone I know would change things between us.

So I sit and wonder...

Hey, strangers aren't so bad. You do get to judge what they're like before you get your cocks out, let alone start sucking. It's unprotected fucking that could kill you. And that's more likely to happen with someone you know and trust. Sadly.
 

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Hey, strangers aren't so bad. You do get to judge what they're like before you get your cocks out, let alone start sucking. It's unprotected fucking that could kill you. And that's more likely to happen with someone you know and trust. Sadly.

So, are you saying you can't get hiv from oral?