If The Majority of Women Can't Cum From Vaginal Sex

helgaleena

Sexy Member
Joined
Sep 8, 2006
Posts
5,475
Media
7
Likes
43
Points
193
Location
Wisconsin USA
Sexuality
50% Straight, 50% Gay
Gender
Female
no, i am not.

i quite clearly stated that i don't, and how dare you tell me otherwise! that's just seriously fucking rude. insulting my intelligence by claiming to know more about how i'm wanking than i do?

i am orgasming from clitoral stimulation.

if i happen to brush my teeth while i'm rubbing my clit, that doesn't mean i'm cumming from gum stimulation. it's incidental.
as it happens, i find penetration makes orgasm more difficult. when i orgasm it's from the clit.

just plain fucking rude.

Then I didn't understand you and I apologize.
 

Phil Ayesho

Superior Member
Joined
Feb 26, 2008
Posts
6,189
Media
0
Likes
2,790
Points
333
Location
San Diego
Sexuality
69% Straight, 31% Gay
Gender
Male
I noticed I used to be, still am sometimes, very concerned with the orgasm of my partner because it brought me so much "validation". Once I figured out that was just silly it became much more about fun and enjoyment than about reaching a finish line. It is easy to get caught up in it, atleast it was how I was raised. The "disease" to please. ugh.

...concerned about your partner's pleasure... you rat bastard, you.
 

Phil Ayesho

Superior Member
Joined
Feb 26, 2008
Posts
6,189
Media
0
Likes
2,790
Points
333
Location
San Diego
Sexuality
69% Straight, 31% Gay
Gender
Male
I have only known one woman who could come from vaginal stimulation, alone.
Out of... 9?
And even that I suspect is just the fortuitous mix of her physiology with mine ( she says it seldom happened with other men )

for a long time I was a doubter that women had vaginal orgasm... or that it differed in any respect to clitoral orgasm, but it definitely exists and lots of women definitely can't regardless of size...

from my experience it seems a rare capability... but that just might be the luck of my particular draw.
 

trooper72

Just Browsing
Joined
Sep 26, 2011
Posts
43
Media
0
Likes
0
Points
41
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
The last time I faked an orgasm, I was 15. He was my first 'proper' sexual boyfriend - I did it once and realised, to my dismay, that he pretty much expected it to happen ever time after that. These days I'm honest. Guys ask what I want, what works for me, they go down on me for (seemingly) hours, they hold back their own orgasms til they're sweating and tense as a neurotic cat, but I still don't fake. I don't want to. Especially with young guys, I found it taught them that all they had to do was stick it in and fuck hard enough or long enough, without the time/experimentation/skill development to actually learn what feels good for his partner. Note that I didn't say learn how to make her cum, because I don't think that should be the goal.

I love sex. I love oral, anal, squirting, deep fucking, DP, hands, tongues and cocks, but I've never cum. It's not his fault any more than it's my fault. My goal is not to cum. My goal is to have awesome sex and have a great time with a friend. That bit, you'd think, would be easy.


If I fuck long and hard enough it always does the trick. All my past g.f's had orgasms from vaginal sex....ALL of them!
 

VernalTiger

Sexy Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Jun 9, 2010
Posts
533
Media
2
Likes
81
Points
373
Location
Melbourne City (Victoria, Australia)
Verification
View
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Female
If I fuck long and hard enough it always does the trick. All my past g.f's had orgasms from vaginal sex....ALL of them!

Thank you for your valued contribution to the discussion.

And for the record, just because a woman cums during vaginal sex, doesn't necessarily mean it was a vaginal orgasm.
 

ManlyBanisters

Sexy Member
Joined
Mar 19, 2007
Posts
12,253
Media
0
Likes
58
Points
183
If I fuck long and hard enough it always does the trick. All my past g.f's had orgasms from vaginal sex....ALL of them!

In the past, as a young woman, when confronted with a guy who would fuck long and hard to 'make' me cum I would fake to get him to stop. Plenty of other women here have said similar.

Just sayin'.
 

Luvs2Squirt

Expert Member
Joined
Feb 26, 2011
Posts
198
Media
60
Likes
138
Points
128
Location
Central Iowa
Sexuality
50% Straight, 50% Gay
Gender
Female
I'm not going to say I have never faked, but for the most part I usually do orgasm from just fucking.
My current lover has a cock that curves upward a lot more than some do and the way it hits my g spot is divine!!!
 

MickeyLee

Mythical Member
Staff
Moderator
Gold
Platinum Gold
Joined
Nov 3, 2008
Posts
33,739
Media
7
Likes
49,861
Points
618
Location
neverhood
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
so the Pelvic Toner is what makes ladies orgasm?
*snicker*

*orders a dozen*


unofficial whore-bag survey - clit is a pretty solid fall back for orgasm.. seems to me, women prefer an orgasm achieved by stimulating all of their happy bits :smile: rather than just bagging away at one happy part "all night"

for the ladies who prefer orgasms.
 
Last edited:

MickeyLee

Mythical Member
Staff
Moderator
Gold
Platinum Gold
Joined
Nov 3, 2008
Posts
33,739
Media
7
Likes
49,861
Points
618
Location
neverhood
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
I don't know a lot about women, but I'm fairly sure that you only need one. :biggrin1:

Unless you break them :eek:

I've heard the gyne flex (not sure of the spelling) recommended here.


is important to have enough to share with friends.

breaking... a spare is always a good idea *orders 2 dozen*
 
Last edited: