Interesting that only a few posters on this thread actually answered the OP's question. He didn't ask for a measurement in inches. In fact, he specifically said that is NOT what he is looking for. Try reading the OP next time!
I am happy with what I have, and from experience that falls into the #1 category (a minority say it's too big). So I would choose #1 to continue with the equipment that I already have.
If I wanted to ask the genie for something additional, it would be for my cock to remain at its normal, warm-room soft size, which is around 5". No more embarrassing shrinkage to 3 1/2-4" in cold water!