if vaginal sex is the objectively better than anal, why have anal sex with males?

[Smallteaplant]

Why not have sex with FTM? This thread is not to bash any group. I was just wondering. I was following this one guy that recently been intimate with a trans man. He said that he prefers vaginal sex to anal sex. It makes objective sense due to fact that the vagina was made to interact with the penis in such a way. I guess this is part of a series of questions that I have been asking myself. Is this one of the cases, where human sexuality doesn't make any sense? It is the opposite of all order and reason?

 

[Almost40]

Vagina is ok, this is the only part of the female body that is interesting to me.... men who can become women for a few hours, who love to take a cock up their asses, or feel like in heaven when they suck a cock, who live to serve another man's cock, are more fun, both mentally and physically. But in terms of what the actual part of the body, vaginas vs male asses, feels like, it has to do with the specific individual each time. Let's say an FTM combines both so one can enjoy both at the same time. Just My opinion , no need to force this idea on others.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

since no one has sai much about your question--i will say this---you asked a question about how vaginas feel better than ass then why screw a mans ass---that isnt a question needing to be in ask a gay man--if he loves pussy more than a mans ass then he isnt exacly gay--

i prefer a mans ass and his cock that i can reach around and stroke as my dick is inside him--i dont prefer a vagina over a mans ass let alone his dick--a mans ass isnt his sex organ--his dick is--just like a womans ass isnt her sex organ but her vagina is

 

[malakos]

It is the opposite of all order and reason?

For starters, yes, the passions definitely are very different in nature from reason. And reason isn't very good at putting the passions in the order it deems best. That's just how the two are. Part of what defines the passions is that they are shaped by the influences of instincts, impulses, pleasure, and pain, rather than reason.

As for why most gay men prefer to have sex with other male humans as opposed to man-identifying females... it shouldn't be that difficult to figure out. Conventionally, being gay essentially involves being homosexual, i.e. strongly preferentially attracted to the features of the same sex. So gay men generally prefer to have sex with other male humans because gay men are homosexual.

 

[Andrej_u]

Why not have sex with FTM? This thread is not to bash any group. I was just wondering. I was following this one guy that recently been intimate with a trans man. He said that he prefers vaginal sex to anal sex. It makes objective sense due to fact that the vagina was made to interact with the penis in such a way. I guess this is part of a series of questions that I have been asking myself. Is this one of the cases, where human sexuality doesn't make any sense? It is the opposite of all order and reason?

No, nothing was "made". Unless you believe that some god created us.
We were not designed, we evolved to be like this. Apparently, having 2 holes that are both suitable for sex and immense pleasure gave us an evolutionary advantage of some kind!

Sex is a lot about fantasies, otherwise I'm sure we're at a level of technology where we can design a robot pussy that feels even better than a woman or a man's hole(s). No one chooses a carved watermelon over a person, even though I'm sure it's not too bad!
Some people prefer pussy, some people prefer ass, some people like both similarly. When I've been with FTM men, I've managed to convince them to let me be inside both holes. And I don't mind pussy, but I still prefer ass.

 

[Brodie888]

Most gay men have a preference for cis men. I don't think many would have an interest in using a vagina regardless of what the person looks like.

 

[Topher the Gopher]

I've never interacted with a vagina, so I wouldn't know. I've always been mostly a bottom, and when a guy is fucking me, we both have a great time, that's all I can say. Every time I've asked a man who's been with both, he says ass and pussy are more or less the same, only asses are usually tighter.

All that said, I consider myself 100% gay, although I find many transmen alluring, pussy and all. I don't consider what someone has between their legs necessarily definitive of their gender. If it looks like a man but has a pussy, that's fine by me.

 

[JacobSlader]

I take issue with your claim. Vaginal sex is not “objectively” better than anal. This is an absurd thing to even state. By what are you measuring and comparing the two? I think you mean subjectively better; in which case you are free to have any opinion you’d like (as is everyone else). Vanilla ice cream is just as objectively better than strawberry as vaginal sex is better than anal. For gay men, however, you could argue that anal sex is objectively better since men do not have vaginas and therefore gay men cannot have vaginal sex with each other. Thus anal is “objectively” better if the other option is a kind of male-male intercourse that is impossible.

 

[core2020]

Vagina is ok, this is the only part of the female body that is interesting to me.... men who can become women for a few hours, who love to take a cock up their asses, or feel like in heaven when they suck a cock, who live to serve another man's cock, are more fun, both mentally and physically. But in terms of what the actual part of the body, vaginas vs male asses, feels like, it has to do with the specific individual each time. Let's say an FTM combines both so one can enjoy both at the same time. Just My opinion , no need to force this idea on others.

Act like women. This isn’t bashing anyone but you can’t “become” the opposite sex for a few hours. You can act like or pretend to be but not become it.

 

[NotAfraidofHeights]

Because men are stronger than a woman. Who wouldnt want a partner of equal strength? What kind of man wouldnt want that?

lol... straights are hilarious with how effeminate they fundamentally are. Ive never met a straight man who didn't have the mind of a woman. Its because straight men will do anything for Vagina including debase themselves. Then they end up bitter and blaming their "bitch" wife...

Being gay is reserved exclusviely for the most masculine men who dont have time for that

Ive never met a straight man who was in a healthy relationship with a woman. Most sob about how contorlling and domineering their women are. Whats the point of having a woman if she acts like a poor imitation of a man?

 

[curtain_swoosh]

for me personally, its about the readiness.
you can always fuck a pussy without much preparations, not so much an ass.

but, i enjoy both. sex with men is in my opinion more intense on a primal level.
sex with girls is great, but its more gentle.

 

[winesthel945]

"vaginal sex is the objectively better than anal" is in no way an objective statement. All discussion flowing therefrom is opinion.

Also, this discussion presumes everything is reduced to comparing different types of holes.

If you want an objective statement, a fleshlight that you can design to be exactly to your taste is objectively going to give you physical sensations more "perfect" (from your personal perspective) than any human or animal hole.

So why would anyone do anything other than just getting a custom fleshlight? Because sex is more than just about sticking your junk in a hole.

 

[art10]

lol at the one guy who thinks there isn't "some god." I guess he's right, there isn't "some random god" but there is God, and of course are bodies were made by God. (Though they've been tampered with which has given us most of our problems. #Annunaki)

Vagina + penis is only relevant for making children. Gay people are not here to make children.

Furthermore, I love bottoming, and therefore know how great it must feel for another guy.

A vagina has never entered my sexual experience and never will. Human sexuality makes complete sense when you realize some people find men beautiful, and that some of the people who find men beautiful are also men.

Again "organ compatibility" matters only for children, not for love and pleasure.

 

[rubgyshorts]

It's not about the orifice.
It's about the person connected to that.
Just MHO

 

[Kvc13]

It's not about the orifice.
It's about the person connected to that.
Just MHO

Just to clarify,,if the orifices doesn't play any role then why don't you fuck a girl too? They are great persons too,right?!

 

[ArcherShane]

"objectively better" is a bold claim

 

[Smallteaplant]

bumps due to this thread on reddit

https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/comments/16dddqy

 

[chrisrobin]

I know which I prefer. And from guys who have experienced both prefer ass as its tighter.

 

[bigboaster]

As a pansexual. No "hole" is objectively better than the other. I think for some, they will have preferences either 3ay and that's fine for them. But at the end of the day it's all subjective. And like some others said already who the hole is attached to usually makes a huge difference

 

[Andrej_u]

As a pansexual. No "hole" is objectively better than the other. I think for some, they will have preferences either 3ay and that's fine for them. But at the end of the day it's all subjective. And like some others said already who the hole is attached to usually makes a huge difference

Have you had people you loved fucking in the pussy more, and people with who you had more chemistry fucking them in the ass instead? Just curious if you have stories you feel like sharing!
(Of course, referring to when you’re having sex with someone who has both ass and pussy… then there is an active choice).