if you are 100% straight...

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  1. mplsingleguy

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    Here's a question for you guys that refer to yourselves at 100% straight...

    This is pretty puzzling to me. I think the KINSEY scale said it was a very very small fraction of the human population that was truly at 100%- otherwise most guys are on some sort of continuum, that, by the way, is fluid over time, and rarely fixed.

    So, if that's the case, then are you here to jump in the pool, or what?

    From being on this board for a while, I know that some guys get peeved if you so much as contact them with a friendly message, not to mention if you compliment pictures that they choose to post on a board like this.
    Other guys have told me that they are here to post pictures of themselves, but not look at anyone else on the board. How very unsocial, and perhaps a bit narcissistic.

    I think the most logical thing would be that just like any other social network board, the community of participants might be the draw. So if that's the case- are you here to expand your horizons? Get answers to questions you might have about others who aren't like you? Learn some new techniques? It seems logical to think that it might be one or the other, but both are a very tight fit.

    I don't mean to be inflammatory- instead I just really wanted to hear from guys who have 100% on their profile page- how do you use this board? What brings you here? How frequently? Do you get angry/annoyed by some guys' social behavior? Is there something that you'd change if given the opportunity? Have you changed as a result of being around here?

    I hope this thread stays positive.
     
  2. B_henry miller

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    I read an article a while ago that said the Internet, because it allows for anonymity, is allowing men to explore their sexuality in ways they haven't before. I think this may be the case with straight men on this forum.
     
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    Personally, I go here for what little of the "support" angle still exists - to give (and occasionally receive) advice. Having a large penis isn't exclusive to people of any sexuality!

    I think it's a bit much to call any other user's habits "antisocial and perhaps a bit narcissistic" unless they're outright harrassing other users. I'm fine taking part in the discussions that interest me, just as I would on any of the music, film or TV message boards I use and I doubt everyone indulges in every single aspect of any website evenly.
     
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    How i came to this site was a matter of search engine results bringing me here by chance, i probably was searching something to do with penis or porn....
    Once i started browsing this site, i found most of threads funny because people talks some subjects here that i didn't have much chance to talk about in other circles.

    -Then the ego trip kicks and yes, having your pics praised by men (mostly) as well as women becomes rewarding.

    -100% Straight: for me it means i just love women's bodies and everything. When it comes to men, I am curious to compare or to acknowledge their beauty or perfection.

    - Now: Since this type of sites brings a sense of anything is possible (in sudden thoughts); I have wondered many times lately if i would like to get my pretty ass fucked by a penis, it gets me excited only until the point of sensations, but when I think of another man sexually close to me, my excitement goes away, therefore I think the best would be to ask a Gf to strap-on fuck me, even if i am sure that is not as good as a real one (penis)...but then it would need to be a man (transgenders don't cut it for me, either)

    Conclussion: this site brings out many thoughts about sexuality which i think are healthy to be able to recognize, but in my case it doesn't change my 100% status, even if one period I put my sexuality to 90% straight, due to those thoughts, only.
     
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    I would like to declare myself as 100% straight and that's probably the best way of describing the reality. However life isn't always that simple and perhaps 2% of me is bi so 98% straight would be nearer the mark.
     
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    Keep in mind that most straight men do not want to see other men's cocks or go on a forum for the male body or with tons of bisexual and gay men. I'm sure there are tons of men here who call themselves straight but they are really bisexual or gay.
     
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    Why do I think this question has been asked and answered many, many times on LPSG? I will say again, as I have said in response to prior posts, that some men really are 100% straight. That is, they have no interest, desire or experience in having sex of any kind with another man. I am one of those men. I am here because a former female friend suggested I become a member (after viewing some of the other penises here, I think she was being kind.) And I remain only because there are some very intelligent and thoughtfull people here...oh, and for the women who might consider me, in any way, appropriately membered here. And, yes, I have seen other penises here. One could not be here without bumping into a couple. But I have gotten no sexual thrill whatsoever from that, despite the many comments I expect to the contrary. It has amazed me that there are some members here who find it difficult to believe that some people are truly heterosexual. When I am contacted by another male member here, I am polite, let them know that I am not interested, and wish them the best of luck. Some men accept that in the spirit it is given, and others are unbelievably rude. It has much to do with their own sense of self and sophistication, I believe.

    I hope this in some way answers your question.
     
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    Well.. I consider 100% straight if you had not sexual contact with the person of the same sex. When I was about 13 or so, my friend and I masturbated each other.. or give each other a hand job. Only time I had "sexual contact" with the person of the same sex. So, I am 99%/1%. If it was not for that, the 100%.

    Now, I have been naked in front of 100s of men, had sex in front of others, even masturbated with others (no touch). I do not consider that as being gay. Even body has their own definition.
     
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    100% Straight to me means...I only participate in sexual events with a woman.
    Talking about a penis, Looking at one or commenting on a penis has nothing to do with your sexuality.

    I dont think we look at that portion of our profile and say "Hrrmmmmm what would Kinsey think?"
     
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    I'm only sexually attracted to women. Just like gay men are only into men. Simple as that. I do not desire sex with men and never have just like gay men have never been sexually attracted to women.
     
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    I think it's pretty simple. If you are straight you like girls.
    If ur bi you like both
    if ur gay you like guys.
    now about 2 years ago both my arms were in casts from a snowboarding accident. At that time I didnt have a girlfriend so.. I had my friend jerk me off.
    Did i enjoy it? not a whole lot. It was really weird and I am glad I have a girlfriend to do that if i ever break both my arms again. That really dosnt make me gay. I am in no way attracted to guys, or ever will be.
     
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    My being here is not an expression of my "secretly repressed sexuality". I agree with the idea that you should be social if you're here, but looking at penes and matching up, admiring, or just playing with the idea doesn't make you in the slightest "adventurous" in that function.

    Kinsley, by the way, has had some real problems with being accepted and is challenged on many grounds, particularly thoughts dealing with bromance.
     
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    I think this is an explanation that really speaks for itself when it comes to straight men and their identity. I would consider myself 100% straight because I only engage in sex with women. But the availability of the internet makes it easier to experiment and put yourself in situations you would never normally be able to be in. It allows you actually see another man naked, something I have never really done, compare, understand your body better and your sexuality better. Because I have met with other men and jacked off, I consider myself 10% gay, but really when it comes to what I want, its women.

    i would add to the opinion of many straight men in this post that yes it is possible to be fully straight and find this site interesting for peoples points of views and advice and looking at a penis does not make one less straight. i often encounter commentary on the internet with bi and gay males that deny my sexuality "oh all you want to do is jack off. common just suck it. let me play with your nipples or ass, you'll like it." Its sort of annoying and played out that this seems to be the attitude of a fair number of gay/bi men I have met and it ruins the moment. Really, we as PEOPLE, both men and women, regardless of orientation, need to do a better job of respecting each others sexuality.
     
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    The Kinsey research on homosexuality was flawed because he used a proportion of prison inmates who had recently engaged in homosexual activity, as you would expect. It is also hypothesised that in the late 1940's, men would have had much trouble gaining access to heterosexual sex short of marriage, and were more inclined to engage in same-sex activities as a sexual outlet beyond masturbation. From the late 1960's onward, there has been no issue for men gaining access to heterosexual sex, which has changed things a bit for male sexuality.

    I saw some research where 3% of men identified themselves as exclusively homosexual, another 6% of men identified themselves as bisexual or potentially bisexual, and the balance identified themselves as exclusively heterosexual. The percentages for women were also 3% as homosexual, but 40% for bisexual or potentially bisexual.

    I ADORE WOMEN! I love the beautiful curves of a woman's body, I love her smooth soft skin, I love playing with her soft breasts, I love listening to her soft sweet voice, I love going down on her. Pussy is delightful: amazingly discreet and yet capable of providing immense pleasure to both women and to us men. Pussy makes sex easy even when your hung. You hug her, kiss her, caress her, tell her you love her, you go down on her until she orgasms. She is wet to make sex pleasurable, and she is aroused enough to take all you can give, and before long she'll be arching her back and grabbing at your buttocks to give her more!

    The converse to me is that I don't find the male body or the male genitals attractive. The thought of two men together is a turn-off.

    I come to this site not to view pictures of penises, but to understand how my size affects my sexual drive and performance and perspectives. I also learn from others, and I try to share some of my experience to others. The fact that there are a larger proportion of gay men is neither here nor there.
     
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    I am not one on these types of topics, I like to keep it simple and help out if and when I can. But I found this website, too, by chance and I like to read the explorations of others. I am not gay, though I may have gay tendancies - if that makes sense. I have a girlfriend who I love everything about. Though, I sometimes come onto this website to check out bodies of other people. I believe that it's something within me that strives to have a great body like some of the guys on this website have. I don't drool over their penises, or have fantasies about doing them, it's just that I want to have a nicer body - and the only thing that I imagine about them is what workout regimes they do and what they're eating to maintain themselves. I mostly come to this website for advice and read problems others have. It's tiring to see threads about jacking off and foreskin atleast 300 times a day. There is something more to this website than the usual 'I got the best circumcision ever and you should want it too!' thread. Nah, I like my penis the way it is. 'nough said.

    When it comes down to it, I am straight. I love women. I love my girlfriend. I am interested in the advice people give others, and the advice I can give others. I am not here to show off. I find it fun to take pictures of my dick. So? I send most of them to my girlfriend while she's at work...just because I know she gets excited. This site is great for the anonymity. It's easier to talk to strangers than it is with friends: the judging is less harsh with people you don't know or have no attachment to.

    So, with that said, I am straight. But, if want, you can come up with some percentage that makes you happy. 99% straight... 87%... whichever it may be that lets you to judge. But being a torso in my picture and a few words in my bio -I guess you can't judge what you don't really know, so take my word for it. What do I have to lose?
     
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    I have answered this question so many freaken times, and in one case, with Castello, went off on him harshly, because of the implication that a man cannot possibly be straight and, be a memeber here at the same time.

    So I will answer it for the billionth time, only because I have not seen anyone else answer this way. So, in essence, I am contributing.

    I was looking for info in PE and found this site. I was surprised to see the amount of gay themes here. It makes sense, since this is a big dick watering hole. I stayed because there was a lot more then PE and gay stuff going on here. The women here have certainly made it worth while.

    This site has allowed me to reflect on myself, in a sexual manner and use this as a sounding board. Most of the members here are great and respectful. I have never been harrassed by anyone. The moderators do a good job. I have learned more about gay culture here. Not that I was ever a homophobe, but I have a better understanding of what that is, and in turn, it reaffirms my own sexuality. I am straight. And if I ever had a question about it, I could even ask about that here and get support. So, this site has made me more straight. (if that is possible)

    Most of all, and after 1000 posts which is something I have never done before anywhere, I do enjoy my time here. There is a social atmosphere here. And either you get it, or you dont.
     
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    I say I am bi.

    I love women, and men.
    Both can suck my dick, and I will plow my cock in both.
    But not into a dick near my mouth or ass.
     
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    I agree with you Mpsingleguy...when i think of "100% straight", looking at pictures of big dicks doesn't to mind. i always figured a guy that is truly 100% straight would not want to look at big floppy penises but instead opt for breasts and pussies...just my thoughts.

    does anybody know what 100% straight even is? lol

    i do think there are alot of guys who are just afraid to embrace certain aspects of their own sexuality because they are fearful of being judged by society, etc. FEAR influences human behavior immensely.

    i know when i first registered for this site i was somewhat uncomfortable with certain aspects of my sexuality, but since then i've grown and think that who I am in terms of my sexuality is cool. not ashamed. it's all in how you view it.

    people who repress their sexuality and personalities let others control them and are insecure.
     
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    The only pictures I have looked at have been the heterosexual ones, including the huge man with a beautiful girl, who was another man's wife. All these pictures were hot, and they all had a woman in them.

    I do not repress my sexuality, I am absolutely 100% straight and I just love admiring women and having sex with women. I am not insecure (I wouldn't have 100+ women sex partners and a wonderfully sexy 23 years of marriage if I was).

    The bottom line is that a tiny 3% of men identify themselves as exclusively gay. Beyond that, an almost as tiny 6% of men are bisexual or could be. So thats a lot of straight men, 91% by my counting.
     
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    cbrmale how can you say that you have only looked at heterosexual pictures. If you are on LPSG it is impossible not to see a a picture of a P (on its own)
     
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