Idk ... does it count if I find both bi and gay men attractive but more often than not find myselves in relationships/sexual encounters with bi men? I grew up around a TON of bi men and not so many gay men, and I find that I tend to connect more naturally with bi men because of that, even though I'm gay, because of how I grew up. I guess it's more of a situation of circumstances for me that has led me to connect with more bi than gay men, rather than an actual chosen preference.