If you did porn, whether straight or gay porn, how do you think your family/parents would react?
If You Did Porn, How Do You Think Your Family Would React?
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My dad would be just fine with it. Considering in our home porn was playing just as often as Disney movies, there is no doubt that he would care. To be honest, he would probably buy it just to show his friends. “I’m so proud of my son”
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My WWII era parents are long gone but would have flipped had I done porn when young. Lots of moralizing, guilting and head shaking would have happened. If I did porn today my sibs would probably say ridiculous! you're too old to do such a thing. The younger generation of nieces and nephews--all in their 20s & 30s--would probably say ewwwwwww!
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That is like the total opposite of my home, porn was like forbidden and was never discussed. Can you talk about that more? Was it your dads stuff, an adult channel or something else? And you were totally allowed to watch it?
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My parents are probably at an age where they wouldn’t care if I did it now. My siblings would be the same. My close friends have always expected it of me. The only issue any of them would have would be the health risk. I’m actually considering trying it out in the future.
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Yea, I was allowed to watch. I’m not gonna talk too much about it here but feel free to ask any questions in a chat.
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I think it would be a mixed reaction I'm pretty sure my step dad would be proud with all the girls I could work with my mom probably would eventually accept it with help from my steo dad. I feel like my aunt would have the most problem with it. Most of my family is pretty religious with my aunt being like the religious centre but I'm sure that they would be ok in the long run with it as long as I was safe and didn't do drugs and any other stuff while working. My grandparents are the only ones I couldn't predict how they would react
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In many ways, the sex is safer as they performers are tested regularly. Do some background work, find 'behind the scenes' 'making of ' type of things...so you are better prepared for it.
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I think my parents (RIP) would’ve been horrified. However, my dad would probably have said nothing to me directly, however. My mom might have said something directly, along the lines of “you’re an adult and you have to make your own decision, but don’t expect me to approve, and oh, how could you do that?” and just let it drop.
My siblings would be upset but they’d put it aside and still love me as a brother.
My kids would be disgusted. My wife would be disgusted and divorce me.
My siblings would be upset but they’d put it aside and still love me as a brother.
My kids would be disgusted. My wife would be disgusted and divorce me.
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My parents on top of being totally against it, would say something like " why did we spend a fortune on your education , if this is what you wanted to do "
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Reminds me of the farmer's daughter who came home from college. "Pa, I ain't a good girl no more."
"Tarnation! I spend all that money to send her to college and they still can't teach her to talk right."
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That’s how it’s supposed to work, but I’ve seen many interviews/read many articles where performers have said “Nobody’s ever asked to see any tests on most sets I’ve been on.” I’ve also seen other accounts where actors/actresses have faked their tests and gave others STDs. Google Marc Wallice. He faked his tests for two years and infected several actresses with HIV.
On the surface it looks like it should be a fool proof system. But in actuality it’s far from it. So that’s still something you have to worry about.
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That is a very big “if”, but I’ll play along. My father died shortly before I hit my teens, and I didn’t get to know him as well as I wish. But, he would probably be disappointed. My Mother would be heartbroken. In all, my family would be in shock because it would be so contrary to the career that they would expect of me. I have been interested in the “helping” line of work in the social services field that I think it would be hard for them to see me as a truck driver or factory worker.
I've had two chances to do porn. And both times I said no. It's not that I mind other people watching. My gf and I once performed on the stage of a private summer resort. and any time we do a 3 way, I'm sort of on display whether I'm fucking my girlfriend while he watches or fucking him while she watches. These are controlled situations but you can't control the Internet when you show up there. My parents are very liberal, I suspect they know I have a very active sex life, and I know that they used to swing themselves. But I don't want to cause them embarrassment. I'd also like to have kids some day, and I don't want them to go on line at some future date and see their dad having his cock sucked.
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The opportunity was presented to me years ago before social media really became popular. A producer/direction found my xtube videos and liked what I was doing and felt I had the look and skill to be really popular. We exchanged a few messages because I was curious about the possibility but ultimately I declined because I couldn't get over the shame that it would cause my family and friends. The person that was messaging me offered to fly me in and allow me to stay at his place while filming. After declining and being "discovered" so to speak I freaked out and deleted all of my videos thinking someone from my social circle and family would find my videos.
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