It sure is, because it implies that you share with a stranger what should be kept only for you and your partner.
If You Get a Blowjob, Is It Cheating?
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Or do it throug a hole in a sheet.
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My actual thoughts on the subject here:
http://www.lpsg.org/relationships-d...s-cheating.html?highlight=cheating#post406250
David, this is the best eggcorn ever.
What are you talking about? Haven't you ever been to my house Rubi? It's clearly marked by the big sign out front: Lustful Manor.
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David, this is the best eggcorn ever.
Why, thank you.:biggrin1: Haven't you ever been to lustful manor? It's right niext to Crackerbox Palace ( with apologies to the late George Harrison
)But, what if my partner, wife, is no longer willy ? And the urge is too much for me to go without ? Cheating ? No. No way. IMO
Without a doubt yes.
Unless the partner has said it was ok (and I would seriously worry about the health of any relationship where such an agreement would occur) - then yes, it's cheating. You need release, jerk off.
Unless the partner has said it was ok (and I would seriously worry about the health of any relationship where such an agreement would occur) - then yes, it's cheating. You need release, jerk off.
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What do mean the urge is too much? Are you a human being, or an animal? And have you really discussed this with your wife...better yet, are you meeting her needs? Not to be a bitch but I just don't like hearing people use the excuse that they can't control themselves. Everything we do is a choice.
We are all animals...sex is "the" primal instinct, that's what makes our existance. Without that we wouldn't be here.
Yes I satisfy my wifes needs, there's nothing I wouldn't do for her. But she's made it known that she has her limits. I have great self control, but when the opportunity arises, thousands of miles away from home, yes I indulge. That's the ONLY time. I don't prowl the local streets and back alleys. Give me a break.
Talk is cheap...She has made it very clear...No BJ's ! Not even the birthday BJ anymore. So what's there to talk about.
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everyone's definition of cheating is different. and there are varying degrees of cheating, everything from looking to full-on monkey love. but what if the other guy is so good he leaves you for the other guy? then is it cheating? i'm just asking.
what blows my mind how many guys (and obviously girls) think having SEX with a member of the SAME SEX isn't SEX. if you came, it was SEX.
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here are 2 little rules about cheating
1. if you think your significant other will get pissed off at you for doing it then its cheating.
2. if you saw your significant other doing this act with someone other then you, would you be pissed off
if you answered yes to any of these questions then its cheating
1. if you think your significant other will get pissed off at you for doing it then its cheating.
2. if you saw your significant other doing this act with someone other then you, would you be pissed off
if you answered yes to any of these questions then its cheating
Well, then does that mean if a man masturbates and unloads that he is cheating?
Most men that get a bj are not looking for a love affair, they just want a hot moist throat that can take cock! And no kleenex, but a swallower..
let me tell you, as soon as the last drop is deposited, it's over
He zips up and runs!
Most men that get a bj are not looking for a love affair, they just want a hot moist throat that can take cock! And no kleenex, but a swallower..
let me tell you, as soon as the last drop is deposited, it's over
He zips up and runs!
This is the context to answer the question - We have an open marriage and prefer extramarital relationships which emphasises sexual gratification and recreational friendships so in our relationship a 'blowjob' would not be considered cheating. I often work away from home for long spells and my wife knows that I will probably sleep with another woman, equally I know my wife has had numerous lovers.
That's pretty much my stance too. I don't think there's an absolute definition of cheating, as the word itself implies deceitful (or unfaithful) motives and actions, and those are subjective as well as not necessarily sexual. There's sexual cheating, emotional cheating, etc. Anytime some entity of a person is placed in someone else, be it a body part or trust itself, it can be seen as unfaithful under the right (or wrong, as the situation may warrant) circumstances.
In other words, lying is cheating.
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