If You Get a Blowjob, Is It Cheating?

[Andresito]

In my opinion, it's cheating.

However, a couple can talk about what kind of relationship are they going to take, and if the results gives an open relation, then it's not cheating.

So, it's a Yes and an It depends.

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

what blows my mind how many guys (and obviously girls) think having SEX with a member of the SAME SEX isn't SEX. if you came, it was SEX.

so.... my friend the premature ejaculator (still a virgin by most counts) who saw this girl he had the hots for in a bikini and spooged his pants, he had sex?

and the high school slut who got passed around the football team but faked every one of her orgasms, she did not?


For that matter, if I masturbate to a picture of Jessica Alba, does that mean I can start bragging to people that I had sex with her?

Just wanted to be clear.

 

[davidjh7]

so.... my friend the premature ejaculator (still a virgin by most counts) who saw this girl he had the hots for in a bikini and spooged his pants, he had sex?

and the high school slut who got passed around the football team but faked every one of her orgasms, she did not?


For that matter, if I masturbate to a picture of Jessica Alba, does that mean I can start bragging to people that I had sex with her?

Just wanted to be clear.

oh, great---now we have to define sex....Isn't that what got Clinton in trouble?:biggrin1:

 

[Rendell]

yes

 

[ianryals]

if a chick giving head hell yeah
a guy friend then hell no
you giving him head still ne

 

[Over 7]

My first wife divorced me because while at a drunken party, she walked into the bathroom to find this cute little slut just removing her cum filled mouth from my schlong. The court said I cheated, too.

 

[Lordpendragon]

I would have asked, but she was sat on my face at the time :smile:

 

[3151]

Turn it around... you walk into your house, and someone is doing oral on your SO. How do you feel? There's a reason it is called oral SEX.

I think it is more intimate to put your mouth on someone's junk then to fuck them.

 

[novice_btm]

if a chick giving head hell yeah
a guy friend then hell no
you giving him head still ne

So, um, Ian, wanna be "friends"? :tongue:

 

[ianryals]

i can be friends with most people

 

[sdg475]

There's no question that it's cheating, at least in my mind.

 

[lilbear]

Yes, it's cheating.
At least for me.

 

[JMeister]

Even though my girlfriend doesn't consider oral to be sex I suspect she'd have a problem with it being done to me anyone but her.

 

[AlbertCunning]

Like everything else, it depends on your definition of cheating, and in some cases, your definition of sex (see Bill Clinton ). As was mentioned, cheating is mainly a violation of trust, and of a comittment made between two or more people. The main problem comes when a couple has different definitions of what constitutes cheating. To some, nothing short of intercourse is cheating. To others, something as minor as looking at someone else in a lustful manor is cheating. I think couples should decide on definitions before they commit to each other, as part of what should be an on going dialog. Unfortunately, it seems, partners are often the ones we share deep thoughts and ideas with the least, rather than the most, out of fear of such disclosure affecting the relationship in a negative manor. frankly, I feel that we should all be less sensitive to our own perceived iflictions, and more sensitive to what we inflict on others. Thicker skin, more consideration. Byt that would mean being less selfish, and humans are no good at that....

You've really got it all covered.
Couldn't have put it better myself.

To most people, receiving(or giving) blowjobs are well into cheating-country, but most relationships only involve 2 people, and it's entirely up to those two to decide what goes or not.
If their views on cheating is conflicting, there'll easily be....conflict...

Now, I'm sure you could put it better than that.

 

[dolfette]

is it cheating if your wife gets another guy licking her pussy?

 

[forbiddensociety]

is it cheating if your wife gets another guy licking her pussy?

I would say that's just as guilty as the blowjob. I would say both are considered cheating.

 

[Big Dreamer]

is it cheating if your wife gets another guy licking her pussy?

*suddenly paranoid* Do you know something about my wife that I don't????

 

[No_Strings]

It's cheating if you attempt to hide it from him/her. The act is irrelevant.

 

[dolfette]

I would say that's just as guilty as the blowjob. I would say both are considered cheating.

that was my point.

men who say "it's only a bj" might not feel the same about their wives saying "it's only cunningulus".

 

[forbiddensociety]

that was my point.

men who say "it's only a bj" might not feel the same about their wives saying "it's only cunningulus".

When it's the wife saying it, it's a whole different story. Then all of a sudden it's not okay :tongue: I definitely can see why you'd say that.