If You Get a Blowjob, Is It Cheating?

If you get a blowjob from someone other than your significant other is it "cheating?


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oh, great---now we have to define sex....Isn't that what got Clinton in trouble?:biggrin1:

No, what got Clinton in trouble was an out of control special prosecutor who investigated the Clintons for years, spent tens of millions of dollars, and could come up with only a lie under oath about an affair, no underlying crime of any kind whether financial (Whitewater) or anything else, civil or criminal.
 

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No, what got Clinton in trouble was an out of control special prosecutor who investigated the Clintons for years, spent tens of millions of dollars, and could come up with only a lie under oath about an affair, no underlying crime of any kind whether financial (Whitewater) or anything else, civil or criminal.

What a Star!
 

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My girlfriend hates oral sex,so I cheated on her the other day.I let my wife blow me right in front of her,boy was she pissed!
 

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I would say if you can tell you SO and they would be ok with it then it is not cheating. But if you can't tell then because you are afraid the will get mad then it is cheating.
 

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If you have a partner, and you engage in any form of intimate behavior with someone else, it's cheating. Kissing, hand job, blowjob, cunnilingus...
 

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If my husband gets a blow job of another woman, unless I'm there and involved in some way, then yes, he's cheated. If he gets a blow job from another guy, it makes no difference if I'm there or involved, he hasn't cheated.

I like how U think Kotchanski. :smile:
 

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Yes, it is cheating. :mad:

FYI - I had a boyfriend whom I caught getting lipstick on his dipstick years ago. I saw it as cheating then and I still do now. This was well before Clinton said it was not only not sex, but not cheating. When I am dating someone exclusively as we were at that time I do not stray, I do not even kiss another man.



If you get a blowjob from someone besides your significant other, is that "cheating" by your definition?
 

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I said yes, for on principle I feel it is cheating. How ever, there are several variables that could change the outcome. Perhaps you have an agreement with your significant other saying that random blowjobs are ok? Or maybe your significant other WANTS you to have that blowjob? (OK, not likely, but I'm sure guys to fantasise about that kinda stuff. :p)
 

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It's cheating, yes. Any exploration of one's sexuality that involves someone other than your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/partner is a betrayal of trust.

The word "cheating" implies sexual exclusivity. I'm not certain if I'd ever be comfortable demanding that (or accepting the demand of it) again. I'm pretty much post-monogamous, but that doesn't mean that I'm post-love.
 

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Once, under heavy temptation, I convinced myself it wasn't cheating and participated in the event with gusto. I felt bad afterwards, though, so I never did it again.
 

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I have to say yes although as a bi guy who can't do without the connection with a guy I do get blow jobs from guys. I have never been with another women since married though.
 

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Flipping the script a little, I once gave a friend of mine and my wife's oral when my wife was away and the girl was staying with us. I received nothing from her save for the gratification of bringing her to two very noisy orgasms. She never even touched my bare cock. Did I cheat?
 

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Here is the ultimate cheating test: If you're doing something that you wouldn't want your significant other to know about, YOU'RE CHEATING!

It's that simple!
 

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Cheating is really only cheating when it breaks the rules a couple have set for their own relationship and so only then, if either on of them breaks their own set of rules mind, should it be considered cheating in their own relationship.
 

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Flipping the script a little, I once gave a friend of mine and my wife's oral when my wife was away and the girl was staying with us. I received nothing from her save for the gratification of bringing her to two very noisy orgasms. She never even touched my bare cock. Did I cheat?
Of course you did! You ate another womans pussy!

I have to say yes although as a bi guy who can't do without the connection with a guy I do get blow jobs from guys. I have never been with another woman since married though.
:confused: That sounds like cheating to me. Does your wife know you are bi and are intimate with other men? Actually forget I asked that.
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Bless your heart. Y'all are trying to create shades of grey where there are none.

It doesn't matter if you are bi-sexual, gay, or straight. If you are married or are in a monogamous, committed relationship and you have any type of sexual contact with someone other than your mate, you have cheated.
 

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Taking it to another level, does it even have to be physical. We all hear about the growing number of people either having cyber sex or worse yet long term cyber affairs. Are these cheating?