If you had a pornstar for a wife...

[43698]

My wife talks so dirty to me I blush.
Dresses sexy to get my attention.
I am a big boy I wash my own damn clothes and I cook what I want to eat I got a wife not a slave.
Will do anything in bed I want just so long as it only involves us because we are only for each other.
Loves me no matter what.
Tells me dirty stories of her past exploits.
Shaves all of it everyday.
Hangs out with me and only me all the time.
Parties with me and lets me be myself.
Is the most beautiful woman in the world to me, and I would not want to live with out her. I have all these things this way because I respect her and I give her my undevided attention and loyalty.

 

[thetramp]

If i had a pornstar for a wife i would expect her to be my wife and my maid and i wouldn't expect her to be a pornstar at home. I can see that a pornstar is more open about her sexuality because she needs to be open about it to be in that business, but besides from that i don't see why it should be a different wife than one with another job.

I wouldn't want her to do things she just does for the money and doesn't like, and if she does things to me she does not like as much but wants to give me pleasure i am very happy, but i don't see why a girl with any other job shouldn't be able to feel the same way. Pleasuring someone you love can be so rewarding.

 

[sbat]

Aren't you sweet I do the other stuff in the pornstar list too. Don't do much that's on the wife list though - sorry.

Damn! I think I'm letting the side down again.

How is that letting the side down? Is there a manifesto you're supposed to follow?

 

[B_subgirrl]

I think as a woman I'm supposed to be saying that not all women do all those things on the pornstar list, and that if she doesn't want to do it you should respect that, and you should appreciate the things she does do. And I guess I do believe all those things.

But I also believe that there are women out there who thoroughly enjoy most aspects of sex. I believe that both partners in a relationship have a . . . obligation maybe ( but that's not quite the right word) to keep their partner happy sexually. And that people should be willing to give different sexual acts a go if their partner really wants to try it (although everyone has some places they won't go).

I also think that if people want these things in a partner they shouldn't get themselves hooked up to a person who is not a good match for them. I spent four years in a relationship with someone who had a low sex drive. I wouldn't make that mistake again. High sex drives and open minds only from now on.

 

[sbat]

I agree subgirrl, that's all fair.

I've been in a similar relationship - she was ultra christian and we were in high school. As Mlle Rouge state - I have "oddly frequent" sexual urges and she was saving herself till marriage (read: a more persuasive boyfriend)

 

[B_subgirrl]

LOL. Definitely a bad match there. My ex rarely wanted sex at all and had difficulty cumming when we did have sex (lapsed Catholic). I'm permanently horny and multi orgasmic. I loved giving head, he didn't enjoy receiving at all. We were also a bad match. That relationship was never gunna last.

 

[HiddenLacey]

snip* If i had a pornstar for a wife i would expect her to be my wife and my maid * snip

:nono:

What is the salary for a maid? I hope your wife/ girlfriend gets a check from you each week. Unless she doesn't work.

 

[thetramp]

sure she gets a check, minimum wage and sometimes a little tip.

I am sorry i should have checked it before posting it, there is a not missing, but good to know at least someone is reading my posts

 

[B_subgirrl]

LOL I read your post but moved on because you had an unpleasant opinion (wanted her to be a maid!). I try not to reply to posts I really disagree with because I don't want to get into an argument

 

[kon4el]

Fantasy and reality are two different things. I remember watching a documentary on the making of a coffee table book on pornstars. They interviewed the different pornstars featured in the book, Tera Patrick mentioned that in her private life she likes doing it with the lights off and it sounded the her sex life was very vanilla. It was the interview with Gina Lynn that struck me, she is married and did the interview with her husband (who is a decent looking guy). She stated that she doesn't do the freaky shit that she does on camera at home. When her husband confirmed her statement, he had the ultimate look of disappointment. The type of look as if he just lost the Stanley Cup in game 7 in ovetime. To know that your wife is giving her A-game sex to other men and then with you the guy she claims to love, you get the pg-13 sex, this guy is totally get screwed over in this relationship.
To answer the question this thread is asking. If I had a pornstar for a wife, the woman would have give her AAA-game sex to me and show her appreciation for by buying gifts, take me on trips the whole nine yards. Also she would bring home other hot women for me to nail. It is only fair that she nails other guys that I get to nail other women and video tape it.

 

[thetramp]

LOL I read your post but moved on because you had an unpleasant opinion (wanted her to be a maid!). I try not to reply to posts I really disagree with because I don't want to get into an argument

But please if i say something that stupid jump down my throat and risk an argument.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Will do

 

[sbat]

I mean, its kind of understandable why a porn star wouldn't want to do freaky shit at home. Then sex with her husband would seem like work.

If I fix computers all day, I don't want to spend my downtime with my family fixing their stuff as well. The same, logically, goes doubly with sex.

And honestly, why marry a pornstar in the first place. Can you imagine, your wife on a daily basis sucking down some random dude's dick and swallowing his cum after he had been fucking her in the ass (probably without a condom too). You'd want to kiss that at the end of your day?

I figure the idea is to find a girl that's like a porn star - just for you.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I dont think i made the idea very clear.

I was trying to make a point that the things you see in porn are not necessarily the type of woman you married. You married a woman who has other facets to who she is and does other things to make for a good homelife. And when you don't respect who she is as a whole- not just a worker, not just a body for sex. She is many other things all rolled up into the woman you married. She might not like washing your dirty underwear or like fixing your favorite things to eat because she doesn't like that dish so much. But she does things for you to make things nice.

The threads that are "My gf/wife is awesome at everything BUT....when i want her to ______?______" and i want people to look at the flipside of some things about her world being with you that might not be ideal or enjoyable for her either to put up with.

And for the record- when im getting fucked good I think of all the awesome things i want to cook for my husband. I guess he hits the Domestic Goddess button somewhere in there. We are rather traditional with our roles in our marriage, which is pretty odd for this day and age. And i love it. It's exactly what i want and what he wants.

Nothing turns him on more than when i'm ironing his shirts naked.

 

[thecalling]

who (in reality) would want a porn star wife? She'd come home after work every night looking like she'd been fingered by an elephant!!!

 

[thetramp]

this is not about a pornstar but rather about what expectations people have, and that porn might have changed them. Its not an declaration what pornstars can or can not do but an appeal to appreciate your partner/wife for what she is not only sexually, and if you can't it shouldn't be your partner. I think it is supposed to give the girls and wifes here the chance to show what they do that is worth appreciation.

At least that is how i interpret Mademoiselle Rouge, who would marry a porn star is just a different question for which there i am sure already are topics.

 

[B_Hickboy]

*snip*
The threads that are "My gf/wife is awesome at everything BUT....when i want her to ______?______" and i want people to look at the flipside of some things about her world being with you that might not be ideal or enjoyable for her either to put up with.
*snip*

As a very wise friend of mine says, "Everything after the BUT is bullshit." Wanting somebody to change and worse yet, believing they can MAKE another person change, is a sure pathway to unhappiness for both parties.

Want something from your spouse or partner? Communicate it to the other person instead of criticising her deficiencies behind her back. The expectation that the other person will somehow magically divine what your unexpressed needs are is sure to lead to resentment. The person who doesn't ask for what he needs gets what he deserves. Of course, those who assume the role of victim willingly have no right to bitch.

 

[Drifterwood]

I am going to lie down in a dark quiet place.

I agree with Hick.

 

[rob_just_rob]

Marriage isn't really meant to be a venue in which all of your most perverted fantasies come true.

And even if yours is, that might not be a good idea.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Rob i agree totally. Some people are going to get fired up about that remark. But that's exactly what i think when i read so many fantasy related threads around this place. Cooking up elaborate schemes to get their wife to play into their personal problems so they can have a better orgasm in the other corner of the room.