If you had same sex feelings would you act on them?

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Yes, yes, yes! I love it. It's really a personal choice. You look at the things in your life and filter through everything to see what could make you happy or feel good and jump on it. That's my motto and course of action. Everybody deserves that kind of freedome of choice at least once. You might find the one thing that brings you peace in doing that same sex act. Ooh, I just got a warm and fuzzy thinkin' about it:biggrin1::cool:
 
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I had a real problem with my sexuality until one of my best friends from high school (a former lesbian) explained to me why she was getting married to a man. She said "I fall in love with people, not genders."

Once she said that, I understood my own sexuality a lot more. I am attracted to personalities...be they male or female. I could never rule out anything...I just follow my heart.
 

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I had a real problem with my sexuality until one of my best friends from high school (a former lesbian) explained to me why she was getting married to a man. She said "I fall in love with people, not genders."

Once she said that, I understood my own sexuality a lot more. I am attracted to personalities...be they male or female. I could never rule out anything...I just follow my heart.

And this is why everyone has a crush on exwhysee... :)
 

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oh god YES! and why shouldn't you i say? at the end of the day you are having those feelings for a reason, when you have feeling about the opposite sex and had chance to act upon them would you? of course you would so why not when in the same situation with the same sex? theres nothing wrong with it so DO IT! =]
 

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I had a real problem with my sexuality until one of my best friends from high school (a former lesbian) explained to me why she was getting married to a man. She said "I fall in love with people, not genders."

Once she said that, I understood my own sexuality a lot more. I am attracted to personalities...be they male or female. I could never rule out anything...I just follow my heart.

In a lot of ways, I am the same. I fall in love with people, not genders.
 

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Depends on who you ask if there is anything wrong with it. Having more attraction to men goes against the grain of my male ego. Add that to the threat of STD's ect..and you have quite a complicated question


why only to a certain point? do you think there is something wrong about it?
 

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I had a real problem with my sexuality until one of my best friends from high school (a former lesbian) explained to me why she was getting married to a man. She said "I fall in love with people, not genders."

Once she said that, I understood my own sexuality a lot more. I am attracted to personalities...be they male or female. I could never rule out anything...I just follow my heart.


This is the clearest thing I've ever heard about how I also define my preference or orientation. It would be a lot easier if the society as a whole could understand this better. There wouldn't be such a rush to classify everyone. Thanks for this post! :smile:
 

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This is the clearest thing I've ever heard about how I also define my preference or orientation. It would be a lot easier if the society as a whole could understand this better. There wouldn't be such a rush to classify everyone. Thanks for this post! :smile:

Agreed. Leave the labels far behind. Go where the love is.
 
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This is the clearest thing I've ever heard about how I also define my preference or orientation. It would be a lot easier if the society as a whole could understand this better. There wouldn't be such a rush to classify everyone. Thanks for this post! :smile:

...and that clarity came from a former lesbian. We need more former lesbians here!

Glad it helped you both too, EFH23 and Hung Jon :smile:
 

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I have wondered the same thing most of my life. Even though I am "Straight" I have often wondered what it would be like to be with a guy. Does that make me potentially gay, just curious or what? :confused:

Either way, I have never had the courage to act on it. But there are times when I really want to.