i've noticed a GROSS tendency of some people on this site to make remarks. i'm guilty of this too and am constantly working on being less of a smart-ass to strangers and relegating my sarcastic humor to those who understand my quirks. ANYWAYS, on top of that, the following groups have been generalized and attacked in one or more threads, ()s indicate the sentiment expressed against them: -straight men (neanderthals) -muslims (all violent, extremist terrorists) -feminine gay men (embarressment to the gay community) -guys who aren't comfortable with or don't understand their sexuality (in denial, conformist) -christians (self-righteous, anti-pleasure, hypocrites) -black men (self-victimizing, annoying, inarticulate, uneducated) -bisexuals (greedy, unsure of what they want, confused) -guys who enjoy suggestive pics of celebrities (desperate) -anyone with a differing opinion (often receive personal attacks and insults) politics, religion, and even porn and, surprize, penis size alawys start out as discussions and almost always end up with rude remarks and personal insults. anyhow, the point of this thread is to see if, in a small way, we're capable of taking the high road. if you've got a minute and a half, click on your profile, pull up the archive of your posts and if there's a recent remark you've made to someone that was intentionally cutting and disrespectful. send that person a PM apologizing for your behavior or comments. i'm going to do this because i've certainly been rude to a few members, and i'm sure this isn't going to lead to any marriages or best-friend scenarios, but it certainly won't hurt to tell anyone that you apologize for your rudeness. i understand we're not cousins or lovers or best friends on this site, but at the worst, what will 15 seconds of apologizing to someone hurt?? especially since, call it what you want, there's a rotating door of members who get grossly insulted and leave. shouldn't big penises be bringing us together? i already know who i owe apology to, anyhow, have it guys and gals.