As a 40 year old man, with two older brothers (42 & 43), none of whom were circumcised at birth (father isn't and didn't feel it was necessary), I felt very strange taking my first gang shower in 7th grade as the only guy who was uncut. However, it certainly wasn't traumatic and the other guys were actually more fascinated than I was. I have sons aged 16, 14, 6, 2, and 3 mos.--we chose not to circumcise them at birth either. Because of excessive foreskin, I had a partial circ. three years ago. About a year ago, my oldest son asked me why I made the decision to have the circ.--I explained my reasons and told him that he could make the choice when he was an adult. I'm comfortable and pleased with my decision, but as someone who has been both uncut and cut as an adult, I can understand both sides of the argument.