This is from a slightly different point of view. My best friend of 5 years will no longer communicate with me. I never asked to suck him off or anything. We got talking intimately, and I revealed that I had a cock-worshiper. After a while he wanted me to visit so he could ask me some things. I answered him truthfully. He was very angry and thinking I wanted to seduce him, but over all those years, all I did was hug him, put my arm around him a few times - nothing sexual. I liked him intellectually. Over a few years, I noticed some of his sexual aspects, and I mentioned them only a couple times. I know him to be liberal and cannot understand why he feels so betrayed and angry. This could be a warning to you.