If you've ever cheated, why did you cheat?

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  1. Symphonic

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    You know, I ask simple questions, so there's no reason to fill this box. Any and all loopholes you find are applicable.
     
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    I was in the end of a relationship with my old girlfriend and I met this guy through my college and I couldn't resist the urge to experiment with him since he was my first time with a guy. I broke off the relationship with her a few weeks after I cheated.
    I hate the fact that I cheated and I will never do it again but I just needed to experiment with that guy.
     
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    I completely understand.
     
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    Cheating is the one thing i don't think i will ever be able to do. I have the worst guilty conscience ever
     
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    I wonder if women have more issues with it than men; I mean naturally you would suspect so but...
     
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    It's not true that males or females would have more issues with it than the opposite sex.
     
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    Hm, it's an interesting idea... I'll look into it later. You might be right.
     
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    I have. Every time, it was because she started witholding herself.
     
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    I was engaged once and I cheated on my fiance. Looking back I believe I was looking for a way out of the relationship and wasn't ready to admit that to myself, so I hooked up with a guy I met at a club. It was a one-nighter, as far as I know my fiance never found out, but it definitely got me thinking about my relationship with my fiance and realized I hadn't really reevaluated things in awhile. I ended up breaking the engagement and we broke up a couple months later.
     
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    I had been without sex for almost 5 years. :boggled:
    It was a million years ago and I had been seeing/dating this guy exclusively for 3 years. Unfortunately he was a devout Catholic who believed if he had pre-marital sex , the ground would open up, the devil would appear and poke his flat butt with a trident to the gates of hell. He would do almost everything else but not penetrative sex. :rolleyes:

    Long story short, I got drunk at a shore bar with friends and hooked up with a friends older brother.

    Why? Because it had been 4 years since I had sex and I didn't want it to be 5 years, and I was drunk. I felt immensely guilty afterwards and have never cheated on anyone since then.
     
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    Darlin'

    Desperate times require desperate measures. You probably sleep fucked some men in the process. :smile:
     
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    Wow...so judgmental! Speaking of...


    Faithless whore. Enjoy the flames of perdition.
     
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    Nope, never did that. Never been so drunk I didn't remember who I had slept with in the morning.

    :confused: What is this perdition of which you speak? Is it like hades? Cause as a United Methodist we are of course too perfect to go to hell. :biggrin1: :cool:
     
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    1/ The partner drives you to it by witholding love/affection whatever.
    2/ You want to get pregnant by a better mate (trust me this is true)
    3/ You just need more sexual experience than your partner can ever give you.
    4/ The relationship isn't working
    5/ You have no moral issues with non monogamy (your partner may or may not and you may or may not indulge yourself with or without their consent.)
    6/ Your partner just doesn't do it for you anymore for whatever reason sexually, but you still want the other things that the relationship brings and you may not think that sex is some kind of sacred bond above all other things.
    7/ The bitch got me drunk and made me do it. It meant nothing, it was only sex and I can't even remember it. I can't help it if she's done it every week like this for the last four years.
     
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    I have never cheated because it's always been known and agreed upon.
     
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    Sob! And I thought it meant something! :biggrin1:
     
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    Never cheated. Anyone who does is a scumbag, and yes that includes women, and no, no excuse is good enough for cheating.
     
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    :eek:

    Wow, my parents had it easy back in the day. :rolleyes:

    People are so complicated.
     
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    I have cheated, several times, why? Because for me one thing is "just fuck one night" with out any kind of relation, and another is to "make love" with my girlfriend.

    Right now, i have 3 fuck friends, and one let say is very very close to me....
     
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