If you've ever cheated, why did you cheat?

[javyn]

I think I should start my own thread here with a question for the ladies.

"Women, is there any excuse for your man to cheat on you?"

I can guarantee 100% of the responses will be HELL NO.

I will then refer them to this thread, and point out those who condone such incorrigible, hateful behavior towards someone you supposedly love.

 

[modernluv]

You're an idiot. You make sweeping statements based on nothing but your angry whims.
If you were, say, not an idiot, I wouldn't have to tell you the following:
1. I called you ignorant not because you're monogamous, but because you basically called everyone who has ever cheated an uncaring person, and you clearly don't have the foggiest idea of the compexities of human relations that lead good people to make mistakes.
2. This is not a pissing match, soldier. Our comparative levels of education have no bearing on the issue, and you have no basis for making any statement about what it's like to date me. Competent conversationalists have enough faith in their reasoning skills that they don't need to resort to baseless personalization.
3. There is a difference between condoning and explaining. I explained why I cheated (once in my life). A person with the slightest capacity to comprehend nuance, would have perceived it as that, and not a condonation or justification. But by all means, I'm sure your black and white world is much less confusing than the grey the rest of us live in.

In fact, I do know little about cheating, I have always been faithful. I guess you're the expert. I feel bad for anyone who has the misfortune of dating you.

If being monogamous means I'm ignorant to you, fine. It says far, far worse about you.

Edit: BTW, I'm likely more educated than you'll ever be.

 

[javyn]

LOL if education has no bearing on the issue, why are you bringing it up in the first place. Call me ignorant, I will respond. Would you like to compare education levels? Why don't we? Then we'll truly see who is ignorant.

I realize human nature is complex, but there are still things that are always wrong no matter what, like cheating. I could care less what your circumstances are, if you cheat on your spouse, you are lame. Period.

You cheaters just want a thread to justify your actions, and I'm here to tell you there is no justification.

 

[modernluv]

You're arguing with yourself. Nobody is justifying, I agree it's wrong. And you're still an idiot.

LOL if education has no bearing on the issue, why are you bringing it up in the first place. Call me ignorant, I will respond. Would you like to compare education levels? Why don't we? Then we'll truly see who is ignorant.

I realize human nature is complex, but there are still things that are always wrong no matter what, like cheating. I could care less what your circumstances are, if you cheat on your spouse, you are lame. Period.

You cheaters just want a thread to justify your actions, and I'm here to tell you there is no justification.

 

[javyn]

So you have completely abandoned your shell of an argument in lieu of ad hom attacks. Genius. And yes, you need to look up the definition of the word justify, because that's what you are doing.

Again, what is your current level of education? Is it higher than say a Masters in Economics with a focus on Game Theory and Econometric Analysis by any chance?

Also, if I'm arguing with myself, why do you keep responding? Yet another failure.

Again, I'll give you another chance to try to make your argument, or whatever you think constitutes one. If cheating cannot be justified, then how is anyone who cheats not a selfish scumbag? No, simply posting "idiot" does nothing to advance your argument, only to make you look ignorant.

 

[Principessa]

In fact, I do know little about cheating, I have always been faithful. I guess you're the expert. I feel bad for anyone who has the misfortune of dating you.[/quote] Why? I feel more sorry for the spineless excuse for a woman that dates your grumpy, arrogant butt. :yup:

If being monogamous means I'm ignorant to you, fine. It says far, far worse about you.

Monogamy doesn't make you ignorant. I believe in monogamy. What makes you ignorant is the fact that every post you make is condescending and arrogant.

Edit: BTW, I'm likely more educated than you'll ever be.[/QUOTE]You sir, are apparently an educated fool, unfortunately there are many like you on this site. :irked: Having a piece of ivy league sheepskin does not make you more intelligent or better than everyone else. :duh: Funny how so many schools skip that bit of very important information in their core curriculum.

FWIW: If you have to brag about how well educated you are, on an internet site dedicated to big dicks; then you really aren't all that smart. :biggrin1:

 

[HazelGod]

:haha:

Irony so thick, I could spread it with a knife!

 

[helgaleena]

In my ignorance I have never cheated when in a relationship. Does not mean I have not found out sometimes that the one I was with was cheating. It always lowered my opinion of the person.

I have ever only condemned and separated from someone when they wished it so, whether or not they were less faithful than me. I leave it up to my partner whether to be monogamous with me or not.

That is because I prefer to have steady partners. Atm I have two 'husbands' but am not legally married. They both do as they please with others.

 

[dolfette]

yes, i have.
my bf had raped me the day before. boohoo and so sorry imediately after.
i had arranged to him in a public place the next day, in order to end it face to face.
in between i needed to feel like i could have 'normal' sex.
so i shagged a mutual friend.

and i don't feel like a scumbag for doing it either.

 

[Principessa]

yes, i have.
my bf had raped me the day before. boohoo and so sorry imediately after.
i had arranged to him in a public place the next day, in order to end it face to face.
in between i needed to feel like i could have 'normal' sex.
so i shagged a mutual friend.

and i don't feel like a scumbag for doing it either.

Perfectly normal reaction. In fact I'm not even sure I would consider that cheating. I'm not making excuses for you. I just think that mentally and emotionally you had already broken up as a result of the rape.

PS - I am sorry that happend to you. :frown1:

 

[StraightCock4Her]

I've had sex with others while in a relationship, but only ever cheated once.

I was with a now ex, we had a huge fight which got physical (him, not me) and I ran. Bumped into one of the only friends I had at the time that I felt safe with, and as he was on his way into town for the night, we stopped off at his sisters place, I borrowed some clothes and went with him.

From there its the usual story. I tried to enjoy the night, but people kept asking why my face was a funny color, I cried, we got a cheap room so we could crash for the night without me having to face anyone else who might ask, he comforted me, we kissed, we had sex, I felt like shit, but meh, the cunt shouldn't have hit me.

Not proud of it, but then again, I'm not ashamed either.

You imbecile. If a person hits you that means the relationship is over. Abuse should be an automatic self-destruct of the relationship. Don't fell like shit over this. Wow, the fact that you could even think that this is cheating is a testament to how much of a weirdo you are :biggrin1:

 

[earllogjam]

I don't think men are hardwired to be monogamous.

 

[shybutwhy]

wow....women are fucked. how can you make time to fuck while going through all these emotions? are you that empty inside? you just got hit!! wtf is wrong with you?

normal sex?!?!?! BULLSHIT!!! you just wanted to get back at your man who just took a swing at you, dont bullshit us.

as for lickme69, your situation can be considered cheating but no one can make that call unless you disclose why you divorced. if the guy is in love with you and didnt deserve it then it is cheating. otherwise i guess you're in the clear.

one thing women always do is try and replace someone right away because they think that getting over someone is done by meeting someone new. once a person is out of your life a void needs to be filled up. you can go back to ground zero by finding someTHING rather than someONE, but women need to find some next guy instead and end up in the same problems all over again. not to mention the ripple effect that always ends up hurting people. including yourself...

people, stop cheating. if you want to fuck someone else either have an open relationship or leave the person you're with beforehand. although you will still hurt them you will at least give them the right they deserve, which is to view you in the proper light. i believe someone here said all cheaters are scumbags. to see people argue this is somewhat scary IMO. how can someone disagree? have you never been in love?

 

[Principessa]

You imbecile. If a person hits you that means the relationship is over. Abuse should be an automatic self-destruct of the relationship. Don't fell like shit over this. Wow, the fact that you could even think that this is cheating is a testament to how much of a weirdo you are :biggrin1:

She said he was an ex. She isn't still with him.

I don't think men are hardwired to be monogamous.[/QUOTE] Meh, That's a cop-out. Many men are hardwired for monogamy and enjoy it immensely.

 

[earllogjam]

[/QUOTE] Meh, That's a cop-out. Many men are hardwired for monogamy and enjoy it immensely.[/QUOTE]
Uh huh And I promise not to cum in your mouth.

 

[Principessa]

[/QUOTE] Meh, That's a cop-out. Many men are hardwired for monogamy and enjoy it immensely.

Uh huh And I promise not to cum in your mouth.[/QUOTE]

:lmao: liar :tongue:

 

[dolfette]

is it just me or is shybutwhy a bit of an imbecile?

 

[dolfette]

You imbecile. If a person hits you that means the relationship is over. Abuse should be an automatic self-destruct of the relationship. Don't fell like shit over this. Wow, the fact that you could even think that this is cheating is a testament to how much of a weirdo you are :biggrin1:

considering how many people stay in abusive relationships, i don't think you can assume that the relationship is over.
people stay for years, decades, lifetimes. and it's really not that rare.

 

[Ethyl]

I don't think men are hardwired to be monogamous.

Neither are women.

 

[shybutwhy]

fuck it im saying it.....bitch your crazy.

and yes dolfette im talking about you. i can tell by your avatar.