So I'm wondering whether my experience was the norm or the exception here: First of all, where I grew up you didn't really have people openly comparing or anything and there certainly weren't public showers in the schools. So the only comparisons I ever saw were porno. And I thought I was below average to average at best until I finally got laid in college. She kept telling me how big it was and I thought she was just, yknow, making shit up. Until she told me I had at least an inch or two on any other guy she'd ever been with. Anybody else have NO IDEA they were big until they were in their early 20s?