Ignorant of size

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by pengucat, Oct 20, 2011.

  1. pengucat

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    So I'm wondering whether my experience was the norm or the exception here:

    First of all, where I grew up you didn't really have people openly comparing or anything and there certainly weren't public showers in the schools.

    So the only comparisons I ever saw were porno. And I thought I was below average to average at best until I finally got laid in college. She kept telling me how big it was and I thought she was just, yknow, making shit up. Until she told me I had at least an inch or two on any other guy she'd ever been with.

    Anybody else have NO IDEA they were big until they were in their early 20s?
     
  2. ShannonH

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    I've known since I was 14, thanks to stats collected on the internet to compare with.
    What I didn't realize until I was in my 20s was how much better sex is with a woman who knows how to handle it and can give a good BJ.
     
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    When I was growing up the was no internet, so for both bad and good I did not know. The only comparison I had was with my older brother. Being older of course he had started changing years before me. When I walked in on him JO I had that disproportioned image of him for the rest of my years growing up and I always felt small by comparison. When I married as a virigin we neither knew or realized the difference. Now however, after 13 years of marriage and lots of tears patience and understanding we know that I am big and I am the reason for the troubles we have had.
     
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    I grew up in the Bronx where theres alotta slutty chics so I knew I was hung since about 14 when someone pantsed me in front of 2 chicks and all they talked about was how big my cock was and asked me a few other times to whip it out for them...those were the days lol
     
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    Nope. It's funny, but I didn't really know until my early 20s. We were very careful not to look in P.E. class, and I thought the first few girls were just flattering me. Most of the girls I had sex with then (maybe 35 or so) were pretty easy, so they had a lot of experience, and I figured they were being nice. One night I was dating a sweet little cookie; we got back to her place and she started with some fellatio. After a few licks she looked up at me; she still had her nice tight jeans on, and nothing else. She smiled and said, "I like really big men, but that thing could gag a girl!" She managed, though. ;-)
     
  6. 8x8xFAKE

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    I'm starting to believe I'm at least above average more and more everyday. I really want to just show a girl (who would agree of course) and get their take on it.
     
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    Huh? You thought that a bad BJ was as good as a good BJ until you were in your 20s?!?
     
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