"I agree. That was uncalled for. If she's that insensitive towards you about your penis, and she still hasn't tried to make you feel better about what she said, do you really need more evidence of insensitivity and mean behavior before you leave her? Doesn't that indicate that she's not considerate of your feelings and that there's probably more pain to come because of this horrible personality trait? I suggest leaving now, now that you really know what she's like. "
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I agree with this rationale.
What happened was that she was just playing with my cock, just stroking it and stuff, basically having fun with it and then I said 'at least you're not one of those girls used to complain about my penis size being too big' - something like that.
Then she said, 'no it's ok, I've had bigger. You are much thinner than my ex, the sex was amazing with him becuase of his thickness, i love the thickness the most, so yeah, you don't have to worry about me not being able to handle your size' - i'm kinda paraphrasing a bit becuase i don't remember the exact word for word thing even though she only told me this yesterday.
Then that's all i could think about, I didn't even know how I managed to stay hard. I didn't let it come to the stage where i ejaculated, I just said 'what on earth am i doing wasting my time here with you?' as if i was in a rush to go somewhere else.
I think that her comment was a mixture between trying to feel superior and just being dumb about the way she responds to me.
She then looked at me as if she was a bit upset/worried...it's like as if she knew that it offended me to talk about her ex.
I'm going to talk to her very soon, going to go and see her. I'm going to dump her and get a hotter chick dangling on me straight away.
I'm not going to ask her about the ex's size, it's irrelevant if I'm 'much thinner'. I doubt a girl can even notice that 'much' of a difference between a 6 vs 6.5 inch girth.
He was obviously around 7+
There's going to be many girls out there who would think 6 inch girth is damn intimidating, I don't know why at a young age, why I'd want to stick with a girl who is very blunt and insensitive at times, but it's just that she's amazing in other ways. Oh well, at least my 'radar' for picking the right person is going to improve next time.
I'm going to start reading up on books and things and learn how to have amazing technique and stuff.
I'd hate to imagine this happening if i marry a girl who would be just as blunt when it comes to the penis size thing. How would you guys deal with this issue if you had a wife of 5 years, and she had said this to you?