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Hi, I'm 22, my name is Marc and I'm from Ontario. I've never done anything with a woman before, and I was wondering how sex is different when you have a larger penis? I'm 7.5". Sorry for such a silly question! :(
 

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... and I was wondering how sex is different when you have a larger penis?(

Well, it's hard to say because no one has ever actually had both a small and a large one. Have fun, be safe, use a lot of lube, and take it easy when you start. Don't start with jackhammering (although be sure to finish that way!). I think the reference to an older woman is to find a lady who can walk you through it, and won't be injured by your sizable member.
 

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Not sure if it feels much different for the man one way or another, except a tighter fit maybe, but many/most (?) women actually prefer a larger sized penis once they get used to it because they feel more. Can't speak from the woman's perspective myself. Ladies here can answer that better. Above all else is consideration for her and making it special for her. Do everything possible to make it comfortable for her by not rushing (ordinary foreplay), lube if needed, slow penetration, and gauging yourself according to how she is responding. Your goal should be to make sure she reaches orgasm at least once and more if possible. Really not that different regardless of what size your penis happens to be. Always view it as making love, rather than just getting yourself off, and you are sure to be looking at a repeat performance.
 

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Almost everything you see, hear, taste, smell and feel during sex is entirely refracted by what's in your mind.

It depends who you are with, why, whether it's romantic or erotic, sado-masochistic and so on.

I think there's probably a "feel difference" between penises of say 5, 8, and 11 inches. But that's all. I wouldn't worry about it.

Just have fun. And please your partner(s).

:smile:
 

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For me, experience was more of a deal-changer than size...When I first started getting chances with women, I expected my size to be a big deal; both in terms of their opinions of me and the actual physical experience/activity of sex. Basically, I thought I was going to have to expect different reactions and do different things because I was "so big".

I quickly found out that the first few women I was with said nothing about my size...I was surprised by that. Frankly, I thought perhaps I was not as big as I thought I was.

As time went by, I came to realize that (for the most part) when you are a young guy and inexperienced, the women/girls you are with are just as inexperienced as you and hesitant to say anything because they are also nervous.

The older and more experienced you get, the more you realize the trick to being "good in bed" isn't to be an arogant, self-confident prick or to memorize porn moves: it's to be who you are and to make your partner feel comfortable being with you: whether that means being funny, calm, complimenting, or whatever. Be The Entertainer: show her a good time.

Honestly, a lot of people say "you always remember your first time" or "the first time is the best time". For me, the first time (and a bunch after that) sucked...I was a mess: didn't know what to do, couldn't get hard, acted like an idiot...After awhile you realize it's just about having fun for yourself and making some fun for your partner, and you relax as a result.

As a side note: don't worry about being uncut. I've had a bunch of women be surprised by it but none have been "grossed out" and I kinda feel like I'm not bragging to say that once they started playing with it, they kinda like it because they know it's not gross at all and it's something different: a new sexual experience that they can savor like a feather in the cap...Almost all of the women who commented on my foreskin went from being a bit shocked to trying to play with it and asking me if I liked them playing with it ;)
 

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Probably the most important difference is that big boys must go slowly: give the girl some foreplay and lube before entering her.
 

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Bob Ross, well said! I'd say to a beginner don't go into it focusing on you and your own sensations. You must focus mainly on your partner and ensure they are getting the most you can give them. You will then find incredible pleasure coming back to you. Remember you cannot be gentle enough to start with. Take your time, use it to learn about them. And by concentrating so much on their needs and pleasure, it actually helps you last longer! Try it! Call a halt if you feel you're going to blow too early- that's a time to get that tongue out, and be light and gentle with it! Remember you cannot be gentle enough, until you start getting signs that you can ramp it up a bit!

Nobody, ever, feel uncomfortable not being cut! I was and I would give a fortune not to be.it is an American and a Jewish and Moslem obsession with cutting off parts of boys penises. It should NEVER be done for non medical reasons. If you think any woman will be contemptuous because you're uncut, then they're not worth wasting time with. How would they feel if you laughed or were contemptuous because their breasts were pathetic or small? Everyone fucking a new partner is self conscious of their own perceived body defects.

Get rid of this cherry without delay. I believe in going to see a good professional. Don't try and deceive her, explain just you're a beginner and leave it to her. They are proud of their professional abilities and will see you broken in unbelievably well. No pretending, no BS- it's no skin off your nose, then she'll make sure it's a perfect breaking in!
 
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I'm a virgin and more than twice your age, Bulldog, and I am about the size as Marc, 7.5 x 6, and have not given up hope. Similar advice to what I have heard and sounds good.