Im alittle confused about something

[SASSYDOG]

I thought i was a pretty straight guy but of late have had some sexual feelings towards males no one in particular.I have never had any experience in that area and wondered what this all means.

 

[morano]

i had ur problem anf1 thing i've learned from LPSG is, TRY IT (gay sex). i did, its alright in my book.

 

[crossy]

When you beat your meat, do you think about men in general? Do you like Judy Garland recordings? When you enter a room do you feel you must move the furniture around? When you are witha girl do you prefer to talk or figure a way to go where she stinks.

 

[SpeedoMike]

it means you have curiosity. decide how much you have and decide if you want to find out more about it. if doing so you feel you will go straight to hell, maybe you shouldn't.

 

[B_Nick8]

I have some thoughts about this, but I imagine you'll get all sorts of good advice and feedback. Being older than you are and having worked all this out a while ago, I don't want to seem as though I have an ajenda, which, honestly, I don't.

 

[8wayup]

You've come to the right place and you will discover your not on an island.

Welcome to the Group.

 

[Steve26]

It's normal to wonder about something you've never experienced, and I think most straight guys have had thoughts like yours. I wouldn't worry about it at all.

Steve

 

[D_Portelay Porquesword]

I prefer the company of a particular type of man, both platonic and sexual.
If you have these feelings, that is not completely unheard of but as a word of advice:
Get it sorted as to what qualities make you happy and look for those in like minded men and save yourself the drama and the bother of settling for anything less than what you deserve.

Satisfy your curiosities in a positive and constructive way.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

Back in the day- porn was pictures of nekkid girls.

Then it became pictures of nekkid girls having sex with average or even sub-par looking guys.

Then it became pictures of nekkid girls having sex with guys who were well hung, thou average looking... and then girls having sex with guys who were hung AND well built.

Thru the whole evolution of porn, the imagery has come to focus more and more around the central image of the erect, veiny cock and the cum shooting out of it.


Today--- if it doesn't feature beautiful close ups of gorgeously engorged, cum drizzling cocks, its considered 'soft core' porn... i.e. "not really" porn at all.

The result has been to turn all males who indulge in porn into cock voyeurs, who are being conditioned to become sexually excited at the sight of a beautiful cock.

More and more, sexual stimulation is not merely predicated upon the nude female... but includes the imagery of OTHER men's cocks.
More and more, this conflates in the male mind their source of arousal.

Since, (as I believe) all human males are wired to enjoy sex for sex's sake as separate from how sex plays into love...
This continual bisexualization of sexually related imagery can not help but lead many males to thoughts of sex with one of those long, thick rigid cocks that factor so prominently in every vicarious sexual experience we call porn.

I think what you are feeling is perfectly natural, given today's culture.

I think the poster's on this forum make clear that bisexual fantasies and activities are far more common than most people realize.
I think, as a culture, men are becoming MORE likely to be bisexual as a result of greater social tolerance, and exposure to modern porn.

 

[Xcuze]

Just follow your urges. Embrace them.

Dont let fear or social restraints stand in your way.

 

[Principessa]

I thought i was a pretty straight guy but of late have had some sexual feelings towards males no one in particular.I have never had any experience in that area and wondered what this all means.

IMO, any male that chooses SassyDog as a userame is NOT 100% straight. My guess is you're bisexual. Lots of men are bi, but until you experiment you will never know for sure. I can't imagine living my whole life wondering about something like that.

 

[killerb]

I thought i was a pretty straight guy but of late have had some sexual feelings towards males no one in particular.I have never had any experience in that area and wondered what this all means.

hey just go with what you're feeling...
do what feels natural and good to you...
do NOT worry about what anyone else thinks or feels about it...
once you do that, you'll know what's right for you and what's not...