Hi, I'm 20 years old.
I'm writing this because I think I have a problem that I need to solve somehow but I don't know how, maybe you guys can help me. I have to admit it, i kinda like it to show my penis or the sensation that some people are looking at it. I have a 11-13cm flaccid penis (depending on the conditions) and I like it when I see it (sometimes if I'm horny I even get an erection; im not gay), so I like it when other people do it aswell. The problem I always have is that everytime I know that someone is looking at it I get very nervous and start to think about what other people will think about it (if they will think I'm big, or not...) and I feel really weird about myself and about my thoughts, and then I feel really really bad.
Another example is my bulge when I'm wearing underwear; when I buy new unerwear I normally check how my bulge looks like and it's ok for me, but again when I'm with friends or something I start to think if they will look at it and what will they think and I feel bad again; it's like I would like to show it with full confidence but then I feel weird about if they will think I'm big or small or whatever.
I would like to be able to show my penis or not withouth giving any fuck about it or about what other people will think; I like my penis and I would just like to be capable of showing it off (for example if I have to change my clothes in a gym with my friends, or things like that...) without thinking about if they will think I'm big or whatever and without feeling weird about it.
I have even tried to avoid the mirror and not looking at my penis for a while for avoiding bad thoughts about it but this is stupid; I think my penis it's nice and it should be everything ok but instead of that I'm always concerning about other people opinions or possible thoughts when they see it.
I don't know how to get used to this situation I've been dealing with for some years... if some of you could help me I would be bery grateful.
Thanks
I'm writing this because I think I have a problem that I need to solve somehow but I don't know how, maybe you guys can help me. I have to admit it, i kinda like it to show my penis or the sensation that some people are looking at it. I have a 11-13cm flaccid penis (depending on the conditions) and I like it when I see it (sometimes if I'm horny I even get an erection; im not gay), so I like it when other people do it aswell. The problem I always have is that everytime I know that someone is looking at it I get very nervous and start to think about what other people will think about it (if they will think I'm big, or not...) and I feel really weird about myself and about my thoughts, and then I feel really really bad.
Another example is my bulge when I'm wearing underwear; when I buy new unerwear I normally check how my bulge looks like and it's ok for me, but again when I'm with friends or something I start to think if they will look at it and what will they think and I feel bad again; it's like I would like to show it with full confidence but then I feel weird about if they will think I'm big or small or whatever.
I would like to be able to show my penis or not withouth giving any fuck about it or about what other people will think; I like my penis and I would just like to be capable of showing it off (for example if I have to change my clothes in a gym with my friends, or things like that...) without thinking about if they will think I'm big or whatever and without feeling weird about it.
I have even tried to avoid the mirror and not looking at my penis for a while for avoiding bad thoughts about it but this is stupid; I think my penis it's nice and it should be everything ok but instead of that I'm always concerning about other people opinions or possible thoughts when they see it.
I don't know how to get used to this situation I've been dealing with for some years... if some of you could help me I would be bery grateful.
Thanks