I'm Autosexual (Sexually Attracted to Myself) - Ask Me Anything!

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That's honestly really interesting! I've had moments where I felt attracted to myself (sometimes sexually, sometimes romantically), but I never put much thought into it.
Don't know if it's a confusing question or not, but are you attracted to yourself because "it is yourself", if that makes sense? Like, if you see someone else, "different" from you, that looks exactly like you and has the same personality, tastes, etc. as yourself. Would you be attracted to that person?
Good question! I fantasise about having sex with myself, as in, a clone of myself - so if I happened to meet someone who looks exactly like me, then yes, I do think I would be sexually attracted to them even though they aren't literally me.

And as mentioned in the post, I am attracted to other people as well - and my taste in men is quite similar to my own appearance. :D

I have wondered if I am/was autosexual.
I find my cock attractive and enjoy watching it when masturbating or while fucking. When I get really into it, I particularly like watching my foreskin being pulled back.
Used to try to suck my dick and have managed to do so often (mainly the tip) and loved it but I always wanted to buy a cock cloning kit to make my dildo.

What has given me doubts, however, is my body issues. I don't find myself attractive anymore and struggle with dysmorphia. I have been trying to do more exercises and focus on body positivity. The silly thing is, I enjoy all shapes and sizes from other people but I can't turn that onto myself lately.
It's still possible! Being autosexual doesn't protect you from uncertainty or low self esteem or body dysmorphia, in the same way that other people can still be attracted to people with these traits - You don't have to be your own ideal person to be attracted to yourself.

Well, that's one way to MGTOW.
No thanks, I wouldn't associate myself with that crowd. :laughing:
Anyway, as explained in my post, I'm still attracted to other people (both men and women) - I just happen to be attracted to myself as well.

Not as strong as you, but I like looking at my naked body, does it make me autosexual?
Well, it's a spectrum, so maybe! You can also think you look good by some objective or subjective standard without being sexually attracted to yourself.

Do you feel sexually attracted to yourself? That's really the only criteria to be autosexual! :)
 

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Hey everyone!

I am primarily autosexual. My sexuality isn't often discussed or well understood, so I wanted to offer my own experience as an autosexual boy to answer any questions you might have about people like me. I welcome any questions or comments below and will do my best to answer all of them!


A definition is a good place to start. Autosexuality is a sexual orientation in which an individual experiences sexual attraction to themselves. This can be in addition to experiencing attraction to others, or it may be the primary source of an individual's sexual attraction. Autosexuality is like other orientations, such as heterosexuality or homosexuality, in that it refers to an individual's patterns of sexual attraction.

I experience autosexuality in addition to bisexuality - that is, I am attracted to men and women, and one of the men I am most attracted to is myself. Looking back, I can recognise that I've had sexual feelings for myself since puberty, but I only started to realise a strong sexual preference for myself since I was 16. It manifests in a variety of ways, from becoming sexually aroused when seeing my reflection (whether nude or clothed) to experiencing sexual fantasies about myself.

It can be said that autosexuality exists on a spectrum or continuum just like homosexuality. Some people may only have a mild arousal when they see themselves in the mirror, and others may daydream of having sex with themselves multiple times a day. I'd place myself in the latter category, as a highly horny and highly autosexual individual.

There is a romantic counterpart to autosexuality, aptly named autoromanticism, where one experiences romantic attraction to themselves. It can be hard to define, but an example would be wishing to date oneself, or a desire to be in a committed romantic relationship. I am not autoromantic - in relation to myself, I experience only sexual attraction. However, in relation to others I can and do experience romantic attraction. In other words, I don't "love" myself any more than anyone else, but I'd totally fuck myself.

If I could.

I wish I could. It's hard when the object of your sexual interest is always so intimately close to you, yet you can never kiss him or breed him or feel him penetrate you. Sometimes these thoughts can be quite depressing for me.

Just like other sexual orientations, there are stereotypes and misconceptions about autosexuality - and they can be just as hurtful to the individual they're directed at.
For example, one of the biggest misconceptions about autosexuality is that it is the same as being self-absorbed or narcissistic, but this is not the case. Autosexuality is a sexual orientation and has nothing to do with an individual's level of self-absorption or self-esteem. In fact, there is basically no overlap between the two. Narcissists aren't sexually attracted to themselves (unless they happen to be autosexual as well). This conflation between autosexuality and narcissism is more a misconception about what narcissism is, probably based on the only thing most people know about the Greek myth of Narcissus (that he fell in love with himself).

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Sharing and showing off online is one of the most fulfilling outlets I have found for my autosexuality. I will always enjoy it alone, but I love engaging with other people in discussion of it. One of my overarching goals with my profile was to spread awareness of autosexuality and share my experience of it so that it may be helpful to others. In that spirit, I would love to answer any questions you may now have about autosexuality in general, or specifically how it relates to me. Comments and ideas that aren't strictly questions are more than welcome too! Perhaps you know someone who is autosexual or can see some autosexual traits in yourself.

Thanks for reading all the way to the end. I hope this gives you a better idea of my sexuality and some of the stuff I post.
So are you Solosexual?
 

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So are you Solosexual?
No, I'm autosexual, which means I'm sexually attracted to myself.

A solosexual person "prefers masturbation over other forms of sex" and isn't necessarily attracted to themselves.

I very much prefer regular sex with a partner - I just wish that partner was a clone of myself. :D
 
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I’m definitely autosexual but didn’t fully realise until I read your post so thanks. I used to be able to lick the head of my cock when I was a teenager but not that flexible anymore. I came out as gay a decade ago & my current bf is a little similar to me. My bf & I made a clone of my cock using a kit which I truely enjoy using on myself. My bf has just been able to get my cocks head into my hole, which I find particularly enjoyable. Are you able to reach your massive cock close to yours?
 
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I’m definitely autosexual but didn’t fully realise until I read your post so thanks. I used to be able to lick the head of my cock when I was a teenager but not that flexible anymore. I came out as gay a decade ago & my current bf is a little similar to me. My bf & I made a clone of my cock using a kit which I truely enjoy using on myself. My bf has just been able to get my cocks head into my hole, which I find particularly enjoyable. Are you able to reach your massive cock close to yours?
That's awesome! I'm really glad I helped you with my post.

Unfortunately I can't self-suck, I'm too tall. As for self-fucking, I've tried (although not much). I think my cock is too thick to bend enough.
 

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I'm so glad I found this. Ever since I was figuring out my sexuality, I always thought about how hot it would be if only I could fuck/be fucked by myself. I identify as pansexual, but I honestly don't think of others as much as I think of myself. The sole feeling of having to meet someone else to have sex is kinda weird to me. I've had sex with people I'm attracted to, but it doesn't really feel as great as I guess it should feel. Like I know I would definitely top myself or bottom for myself way better that they could
 

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Thank you for a thought provoking post, I've really enjoyed reading it. I think I'm somewhere on the spectrum too though maybe at the more moderate level. I've always liked photographing and video-ing myself and get very aroused when looking back through them. I also like webcamming naked in a group room, but keep my own camera display in prominent view on the screen. That way, if the other guys don't turn me on at least I have myself to look at lol. In Greek myth it was, I believe, Narcissus who fell in love with his own reflection. Does your autosexuality ever stretch beyond just physical attraction?
 

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I'm one of the club, centaur. What you so eloquently wrote completely resonated. I began selfsucking and jerking off in the mirror in my teens.
I get off on my own cock and usually don't need any porn.
Questions: 1. Do you self suck?
2. Do you fuck yourself with the cast dildo of yourself? And how did you get that made?
 
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I'm not surprised to read about you being autosexual. If I had to look at your gorgeous cock every day, and it was my own, I would break my back trying to reach it, and once caught, would never let it out of my mouth!
 

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I'm so glad I found this. Ever since I was figuring out my sexuality, I always thought about how hot it would be if only I could fuck/be fucked by myself. I identify as pansexual, but I honestly don't think of others as much as I think of myself. The sole feeling of having to meet someone else to have sex is kinda weird to me. I've had sex with people I'm attracted to, but it doesn't really feel as great as I guess it should feel. Like I know I would definitely top myself or bottom for myself way better that they could
I'm glad you found my post too, and very happy to hear it was helpful! It's great to hear about your experience too. I agree, sex with other people doesn't seem to feel as good as my own fantasies about myself. Too bad I can't clone myself! Haha
 
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Wow! I didn't realize but that's me you've described I love to edge and masturbate to videos I've made of me masturbating or selfsucking. I am the hottest I can find.
 

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Thank you for a thought provoking post, I've really enjoyed reading it. I think I'm somewhere on the spectrum too though maybe at the more moderate level. I've always liked photographing and video-ing myself and get very aroused when looking back through them. I also like webcamming naked in a group room, but keep my own camera display in prominent view on the screen. That way, if the other guys don't turn me on at least I have myself to look at lol. In Greek myth it was, I believe, Narcissus who fell in love with his own reflection. Does your autosexuality ever stretch beyond just physical attraction?
No worries! I'm glad you found it thought-provoking and enjoyed reading it - and that you feel you may be somewhat autosexual too! ;)

Indeed, that's the myth of Narcissus! And I think that's where most people get the misconception that sexual attraction to yourself means you have narcissistic personality disorder.

As for stretching beyond physical attraction, I don't think so. I'm primarily autosexual, so that's just the physical attraction. I don't really feel any autoromantic attraction beyond what I would consider "normal".
 
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I'm glad you found it enlightening ;)

Indeed, I have, and I do! That's partially why I started posting online - I couldn't keep all this material to myself! :p
You’ve certainly educated me into a sexuality I didn’t know existed and I found your information very enlightening too!