I'm being harassed by a user.

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Pants Keats, Aug 27, 2011.

  1. D_Pants Keats

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    I am being harassed by a user. He is posting rude comments on my profile and sending me rude messages. I told him to stop and he won't. He repeatedly is telling me I'm lying about my size and I'm in a fantasy world. What should I do?
     
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    Contact one of the moderators.
     
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    You can also put him on your ignore list
     
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    You see the word "Report" next to the comments on your profile. Click that.
     
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    Ok I set up a thread in the support center about it, and reported his comment. Thanks for the advise, I hope they do something about it. Jeez an innocent sharing of penis stats ended up like this.
     
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    Go to the link on the menu bar called CP(control panel). Click the link,"edit ignore list". Place anyone you like on your "ignore list."
     
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    Thanks bro. I don't know why people can be so rude. But I'm glad there are still decent people out there like you guys who helped me out. Thanks :)
     
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    The Moderators are a good idea but I doubt that will fix his issues in the longterm. It would be much much much better if you posted his name right here. And add a few of his comments, too. I think the majority of the membership here would quickly react.
     
  9. Kotchanski

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    Posting his name here *could* be considered inflammatory posting, a personal attack or harassment, all of which are against the ToS and would potentially nullify any complaints he has about the guy.
     
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    That sucks. If someone here abuses people, why not let us know by sharing their name? Why protect the stalker?
     
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    Several reasons:

    1. People ask for our help, expect us to help, and we can't help if they're running around making matters worse.

    2. People lie, bullshit, make shit up, blow things out of all proportion, edit things, take them out of context, shit stir, use others to fight their own battles, start shit themselves then come running to us when people fight back...

    So, you tell me...

    Is it better for the complaint to go directly to those who can deal with it, by looking at both sides and take the required steps, or for the board to be flooded with a few genuine complaints mixed in with a whole fuck load of childish bullshit people have made up for reasons only known to them and their shrink?

    One leads to shit getting done, the other leads to potentially far more than was required being done, spilling over to action being taken against all those who felt it needed to cross the line and jump on the bandwagon without full knowledge of the facts.
     
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    haha thats what i was thinking, at first i was like "post the user" then i was thinking, you never know the story..
     
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    Is the thread you closed in the Politics forum still being discussed, or has it been permanently closed?
     
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    The measurement police are troublemakers to compensate for what they lack downstairs. These guys tend to doubt anyone who is 8 inches or more. Don't feed the small dick trolls. Just put 'em on ignore. :cool:
     
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