Looking at the posts, it seems like many people have 9 or 10 inch penises. There is much talk too of 12 or 13 inch ones. I'm searching for a little perspective here. It just seems like even a 9 inch one would be colossal if honestly measured. [Honest measurement: on top, with a straight edge, from penis tip to perpendicular abdominal wall, whilst the long axis of the penis is at a right angle to the abdominal wall] We all watch porn. The biggest boners I've seen are by Lex Steele some guy called Sean something and a few other black guys. They look MASSIVE. Nothing else comes close. There is a stepwise, whole integer increase. Even Lex's might only be 9.75 inches, yet it dwarfs all others (Lexington Steele - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia). But lots here say they have similar or greater length! I've never seen a white guy with a penis approaching Lex's. Perhaps one of the biggest white ones is Peter North at say 8.5 inches (Peter North (porn star - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)). I measured mine (criteria above, gf present): whilst nominally excited at 7.75 inches (feeling a little soft) going to a tiny bit over 8 inches when girlfriend applied baby oil whilst wearing red nail varnish. Respective girths are 5.75 and 6 inches. I made a joke of it with her. I don't think she actually gives a s***t about the size or lack of it. She's sweet. She did actually say, unprompted & spontaneously, that it might feel a little better having sex with a guy with a 'big' cock than a small one. In terms of comments from girls, I have been told that it's 'massive' once, 'quite big' three times, 'quite impressive' once, 'ah, a big one, eh..!' once. One said 'I feel like it's going to come out the other end'. Most girls don't say anything and don't actually seem that interested in it as an object, which feels fairly consistent with average female psychology (emotions etc). One said that my size was 'OK', but it wasn't stiff enough. Another said her previous boyfriend's was probably longer, but thinner. Another long-term one guessed it 'must be 6 and a half inches' and looked at me for my eager agreement. I'm 39 and have slept with 42 (poss another 10-14 HJ's or BJ's). No other notable comments! I know it's immature etc, but my current gf has said its 'big', but only after 3 months and rather jokingly. She's 35 and has slept with 50-70, including black guys and so I feel f*****g depressed as she's obviously been stretched wider before etc. Get's my goat as she's really petite and really pretty. I love this girl. The visual image of her fine-featured, pretty, tender, feminine, girly face with a Lex-type cock bursting into her bulging cheek hurts me pretty badly. It doesn't do my erection any good either, potential vicious circle. So here's to the 9 inchers. And, honestly, how many really have 10 or more inches??!!! By all means be BIG. But, be accurate. Be honest.