I'm being immature & getting a complex...

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OK - here is an honest if un pc response.

If you feel insecure about your partner's previous experiences - and this is more a man thing sadly - you need to learn how to absolutely fuck her brains out. You have the cock equipment - but also learn her responses to anal, oral, clitoral, g-spot, massage - everything - then learn about her moods and responses and put everything together into serious lovemaking sex - and don't be clockwork yourself either. Make her cum until she is incoherent.

Then don't give a shit about anything else ever. :eek:
Yes! Poo Packing is good idea!:eek:
 

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dont be a baby, you have a pretty big dick....my peckers only 5 inches long erect how do think i would feel if you fucked my wife in past? ramon on monsters of cock is pretty big....i think there a quite a few 10 plus inch dicks out there unless it is a optical illusion or at least more than you might think...definitiely more than a few horses in galleries
 
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It really IS down to how you use it... a small tool is usually better handled in a vastly different nature to a large one, in order to create that which is desired.

And yes, if it is 1mm long and the thickness of a needle, or -entirely- too large to penetrate (as in my youth), there are other methods as long as you use brains other than the one between your legs... yup, simple application of phenomenal technique and creativity usually does the trick. :D


Either way, you can rank in the top echelon of your craft and probably have all the pros ring up offering to pay ~you~ the next time ;)



BTW dude: from the start of high school and up until this year I suffered from Small Penis Syndrome. I had never compared, and I felt my inability to find a use for it during relationships (virgins, who generally started fantasizing before asking me) was a failing on my own part. The only time I noticed another cock was in a public pool shower... and all I could think was that though I was small, they could still get a whole lot smaller. This year I had started web-comparing, and I assure you... many numbers on the internet hold little value.

So there... funny how the dice roll, eh? Just be happy with yourself... and if you really wanna stuff up a size-queen, simply direct them to your arm... or more. ;)
 

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ahh yes. Cock size obsession....previous lover paranoia... it'll kill ya. suck the life out of you.

I joined this site for the same reasons five or six mos ago. like my handle? I thought up "got2keypr" at 3am after a long night of obsessing about other cocks in my lover's body....

I fucking totally love my sexy...naughty....korean honeypie gf... she's the best i ever had....and (although korea has the smallest avg dick size in the world), she found a couple of big ones there ...and her in canada.....and i (was) just 7x6....

So I started PE. got a bit bigger... And read David Spade (search on the "deep spot" bro - you'll give her something to remember)... and started running / exercising...

somebody posted elsewhere about how some women will "break" you if they think you are a keeper by making you feel an intense need to improve yourself....to compete with imaginary demon lovers from the past.....


...demon lovers from the past that you have actually visualized entering her....guys that maybe fucked her and that was it or acted like jerks but made her cum her brains out before leaving...

The effects of this kind of feedback from a woman are certainly consistent with this hypothesis.... after our "little talk" - initiated by my own curiosity - I was fully "broken" - more in love with her in a dark and fucked up way...obsessed with her...with being her best...the darkest trip of my life bro...

I think even "good" women - or women that are not totally "evil" can do this "breaking" thing unconsciously...semi-conscously...

I sure didn't want to be the "nice guy" - the one that loves her and keeps her and is "pretty good" in bed...while she's fantasizing about the big-dicked jerk who used her...

this stuff will kill ya. I myself fell pretty deep into this abyss..and i'm still fighting it...but doing ok these days...and making her come her brains out in the meantime.

so listen do lord pendragon....fuck her well. and improve yourself in every way you can - but do it for yourself first..she will benefit and you will feel that...yin feeds yang... reassert your manhood. Feel your balls bro - knowhatimean? assert your manhood and feel it - without acting false or like a vain prick...and don't ask her a bunch of anxious quesitons...don't punish yourself no matter how tempting it is. Cuz the questioning and the self-punishment also takes away her feeling for you - makes you seem smaller...weaker...DONT DO IT !

Good luck bro - :cool:

and 8x6 is good. 99th percentile. wtf do you need to be more than that for?

Chris
 

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Wow, fantastic responses - thank you all!

I've reflected a little more and think that I set up my own fragile self-esteem in this regard. It goes something like this:

I was a little pleased by early comments of 'quite big' by more experienced girlfriends and kind of got attached to this as a sense of value feedback. Once the idea of a compliment (pretty faint though it might be) has become embedded, it becomes a point of self value. I'm really really not sure at all that women are anywhere near as bothered as men are about the size of a penis. Confidence in one's own sexuality is probably a much more potent aphrodisiac to them. The problem for me is that my confidence got wrapped up in the early comments and then became reliant on the size of my member. Then some years later seeing lex & sean etc in internet porn it has put me firmly in my place for being so shallow.

Looking back, I'm sure that most girls probably just say it's big to anyone anyway. If I were a woman, I'd be tempted to do this to make a guy feel good irrespective of the actual physical dimensions of the thing. But there's the rub - it can suggest that it's more important than it is and men may get attached to this as something of true value.

It's probably similar to an attractive women getting compliments, then latching her self-worth to the feeling of being reasonably attractive, only to find that there are many other women far more attractive. Better to have been plainer, but developed other sources of self-esteem within relationships.

Anyway, there's that, but I also wonder whether I just don't like the idea of so many other cocks having been inside her, it's just gross.

BTW I wonder if you can suffer with 'small cock syndrome' even if you have a penis that's larger than average?

Big smiles to all the posters so far - I'm impressed by the quality and warmth of the people in this group....

;-))
 

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this is a perfect example of why this community is a great thing. there are so many misconceptions out there about size... and security... and women (and men) playing with games about it (not judging... guys do the same shit... just in different ways). here is a perfect example... you have a big penis. yet some how you've been made to feel like maybe you don't measure up by your current g/f. anyone from the outside would see how crazy this is... but it's easy to see how it happens in guys heads. i once had a g/f tell me she had been with someone bigger... and at the time it drove me crazy. i was a little young... and less secure. and i had less knowledge about anatomical facts. but i knew it was possible... like the old saying goes, theres always someone bigger. the crazy thing is... how idiotic it was that it bothered me. the best part was... she told me shortly after we split up that she made it all up just to keep me insecure... as she put it 'you're huge... any girl would want your penis... and i didn't want you thinking that'. nice... nothing like a stupid headgame. but we were young and immature.

the bottom line is... you have more than enough size for your girlfriend. there are very few women that could actually make much use of anything bigger... and since she's pretty small i highly doubt she's one of them. trust me dude, it's in your head. you have all the equipment to completely satisfy her... just make sure you're using your other head to make sure you do all the rest. ;)
 

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Um...not true. I would know. And contrary to the prevailing, delusional myth, different colors come in a variety of sizes.

But I assume you were joking.

P.S. Even if the pussy has been stretched, it will recover its tightness over time, especially if the woman uses her internal muscles on a regular basis.

Oh honey, you don't know me yet :wink: .

We get lots and lots of cuckold shit here.
 

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Hard, I see your new pics and hope this is the lady you're concerned about: she looks like a lot of fun and certainly seems to be enjoying your huge stick. Mason offered some great advice a few months ago. How goes it with your woman -- and your insecurities?

By the way, I really appreciate your introducing a bit of reality in terms of size here, too. This 8 inch penis is enormous, people. No need to add on extra inches to "impress."
 

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Thanks for the interest Hung,

I feel comforted by the posts here.

And, yep, Mason's reply was truly immense. I actually do think about what he said every other day or so. It has a lot of depth, strength and courage.

My insecurity still becomes painful when she mentions something which relates to yet another boyfriend.

She's mentioned some really expensive places she's been to dinner and it's clear that she wasn't paying. She doesn't do this intentionally, she's actually sweet.

Problem is at mid-thirties she's been with loads (started at 16, few long-term relationships). I daren't even ask. If it was more than 50, I'd vomit. I think it almost certainly is 70-100. God knows.

I have considered getting therapy for this aspect of my life. I think it must relate to self-esteem or my religious upbringing. I'm OK in other respects, actually doing well, so it seems a relatively isolated f*** up.

Thanks for the check-up.

Hope things are good for you....!
 

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I hope things work out for you Hardwick. As far as your size goes, you shouldn't even be worried. At 8 inches there is nothing to be ashamed about. I'm a mere 6" hard, tiny compared to 95% of everyone that posts on this message board. I used to tell myself that I was average but at this point I can't even believe that. Enjoy your length and use it. I wish to God I had the size that you do but it wasn't meant to be. I'm so embarassed about my size that I'm afraid to get with girls because I don't want to be laughed at. Enjoy what you have because I'm living proof that it could be worse.
 

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I hope things work out for you Hardwick. As far as your size goes, you shouldn't even be worried. At 8 inches there is nothing to be ashamed about. I'm a mere 6" hard, tiny compared to 95% of everyone that posts on this message board. I used to tell myself that I was average but at this point I can't even believe that. Enjoy your length and use it. I wish to God I had the size that you do but it wasn't meant to be. I'm so embarassed about my size that I'm afraid to get with girls because I don't want to be laughed at. Enjoy what you have because I'm living proof that it could be worse.

There's so much insecurity on these boards sometimes, just agggh!

:banghead2:

No one of sound mind would laugh at a 6-incher. And that's actually slightly above average length by most accounts. It may not be huge, but it can certainly get the job done if wielded thoughtfully.

And who gives a shit who's bigger, seriously? You'd have to be seriously disturbed to be a legit 8x6 and be afraid that you're too small by any stretch of the imagination. I swear, it's like cockorexia nervosa.
I'm not going to lie, I went down a similar road until my experiences confirmed that I had nothing to laugh at.

How are you even going to know what girls think of you if you don't even make the effort to "get with" them?

If every guy who thought they had a small penis abstained from sex, the average penis would be at least 7". As it stands now, the average penis is 5.3".

What does that tell you? Guys your size and considerably smaller are still getting busy and you should be too! Forget her past lovers, and make your fucking mark, man! You can either leave a good impression or a bad impression -- your choice.