- Wei,
Hey, my name is Wei. I'm a new member, I'm Chinese & living in So Cal. My city is an area with a very high Asian population. Anyhow, I'm interested in your views/experiences on this topic. Hope it doesn't make you feel uncomfortable or weird:
A few days ago, a buddy was at the gym shower - he is Hispanic - he said that he noticed that most Asian/Chinese guys in our city & also Native Americans have the cut down there (circumcised) & much more than other non-Anglo minorities such as Hispanic & African American and he's surprised I'm not, like him. Yep, we both got "ant-eater" jokes aimed at us in the past. Btw, he's not gay and nor am I - just curious, I guess. Anyhow, I discreetly checked out the large shower room there the next time & I went to see if he was right. It was full of Asian guys, some other races & also 3 Native American guys I know & found out my buddy was totally right. We never used the showers in high school and tho I heard cut/uncut mentioned several times b4, exactly who is cut/uncut never came up in conversation there - nobody liked to say either way - & I just assumed other Asian guys were uncut, like me.
Also I was at summer camp about 3 yrs back with a load of Asian buddies from high school, and we took a shower there in a big shower room all together for a dare & suddenly my buddies were jokin around with all kinds of "ant-eater" jokes - it took a while to realize they were talkin anout ME - then I thought wtf, why are they all talkin about mine - then I noticed that their heads at the end were all uncovered & they told me they're circumcised. Tbh, I felt quite a shock to be in that situation of a minority in my own community...
I guess loads of Asian guys are uncut like me. If you're Asian, have you ever been in a similar situation where you had "ant-eater" jokes from other Asians or guys from any other races about it, when they find you're different?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
A few days ago, a buddy was at the gym shower - he is Hispanic - he said that he noticed that most Asian/Chinese guys in our city & also Native Americans have the cut down there (circumcised) & much more than other non-Anglo minorities such as Hispanic & African American and he's surprised I'm not, like him. Yep, we both got "ant-eater" jokes aimed at us in the past. Btw, he's not gay and nor am I - just curious, I guess. Anyhow, I discreetly checked out the large shower room there the next time & I went to see if he was right. It was full of Asian guys, some other races & also 3 Native American guys I know & found out my buddy was totally right. We never used the showers in high school and tho I heard cut/uncut mentioned several times b4, exactly who is cut/uncut never came up in conversation there - nobody liked to say either way - & I just assumed other Asian guys were uncut, like me.
Also I was at summer camp about 3 yrs back with a load of Asian buddies from high school, and we took a shower there in a big shower room all together for a dare & suddenly my buddies were jokin around with all kinds of "ant-eater" jokes - it took a while to realize they were talkin anout ME - then I thought wtf, why are they all talkin about mine - then I noticed that their heads at the end were all uncovered & they told me they're circumcised. Tbh, I felt quite a shock to be in that situation of a minority in my own community...
I guess loads of Asian guys are uncut like me. If you're Asian, have you ever been in a similar situation where you had "ant-eater" jokes from other Asians or guys from any other races about it, when they find you're different?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
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