First of all it's really impossible to "rate" your sexuality in percentages...and that's
why I hate labels. I believe we're born with our sexual attractions already imprinted
and they can not be changed or learned.....what we are is what we are......
I have rated myself 50/50% because it is probably the truest way to describe me.
I don't like it, but is more honest that giving nothing. My "feelings" do fluxuate,
depending on how I am attracted at the time...so one day it may be high on one side
and low on the other...and at another time the opposite. But, since I am in a LTR,
I can only look and not touch......:smile:
To me.....if you are "extremely" attracted and "equally" attracted sexually to one of
the opposite sex as you are to your own sex, then you are probably a BI-sexual.
As a BI, your attactions can be very fluid....at times, it can be "greater" for one sex
over the other, and then at other times it will be for the other sex.
However, I also believe that a straight, and even the straightest of persons, can be
attracted by the same sex.....which does not make that person Gay or BI.
You either have an attraction or you don't. Now that does not mean that you have
to act upon them. I believe you can find one of the opposite sex attractive, and
yes, even be turned on by them, but not act upon this attraction. For example, a
straight can live in a completely monogamous relationship with a wife or gf, and
still find another woman sexy, hot and sexually arousing. You might even fantasize
about them and even get off on them through wanking. The same can be said about
a BI, being in a relationship and finding attractions to the opposite sex and not acting upon them.
However, if you really are interested and it will not hurt another, then try it. You
just might help you discover which you are....straight, gay, or BI. OR....just a person
with attractions......period! That I like!
Good Luck......and don't make a label become a problem...