Okay, so here's my situation:
I'm dating a guy that is 13 years older than me. I often find myself getting caught up in his past sex life and experiences. I'm 23 and he's 36. While I've been with other people, I still find myself jealous when I hear about him going to another city and sleeping with another guy (even if it was 5 years ago). We've been together for 11 months now, and I just heard a story that pissed me off about him, although I didn't even know him at the time.
What do I do? How do I get over this? I feel like it's taking over my entire thought process. In my head I know his past has no bearing on our relationship, but it really bothers me. Am I alone on this? Is it common?
I love him, and I've never loved someone more than him. To think he's been with so many people really bothers me because I don't see him that way.
Help! :-(
I'm dating a guy that is 13 years older than me. I often find myself getting caught up in his past sex life and experiences. I'm 23 and he's 36. While I've been with other people, I still find myself jealous when I hear about him going to another city and sleeping with another guy (even if it was 5 years ago). We've been together for 11 months now, and I just heard a story that pissed me off about him, although I didn't even know him at the time.
What do I do? How do I get over this? I feel like it's taking over my entire thought process. In my head I know his past has no bearing on our relationship, but it really bothers me. Am I alone on this? Is it common?
I love him, and I've never loved someone more than him. To think he's been with so many people really bothers me because I don't see him that way.
Help! :-(