D_Elijah_MorganWood
Expert Member
I'm sorry to hear about your pets. One of my treasured dogs was hit in the highway in front of our house last April. I was a mess. We lost a cat the same way a few months before. I don't know if you'll find a bigger animal lover on the board...or at least in this thread. They are always there for you and the only example of unconditional love I've ever found. My Greyhound sleeps with me under the blanket because he gets cold and shivers.
I remember being 19 like it was 10 minutes ago. I remember putting my hopes on other people's decisions and hoping people would like me...hoping I was good enough for my relationship to endure...I often wonder what I could have accomplished if I had the self-confidence I do today. It was hard won. Sometimes I felt like I was walking through a mine field, I was almost purely reactive instead of proactive. I spent way too much time in speculation and fear.
I had a harrowing childhood and the fact that I have any self worth today is a miracle. I'll tell you this: my experience has turned me into a person the likes of which most people have never seen. I have the instincts of a headhunter and I'm no longer afraid of the things that used to terrify me.
You're an exceptional young man. Wit, intellect, sensitivity...and you're also handsome. I don't freely dish out compliments. You remind me a lot of myself at 19. I have every confidence you'll work this stuff out and realise your aspirations. Whenever I don't get something I want, I tell myself the universe has something better planned for me. And of course you know...I'm the charter member of your fan club.
I remember being 19 like it was 10 minutes ago. I remember putting my hopes on other people's decisions and hoping people would like me...hoping I was good enough for my relationship to endure...I often wonder what I could have accomplished if I had the self-confidence I do today. It was hard won. Sometimes I felt like I was walking through a mine field, I was almost purely reactive instead of proactive. I spent way too much time in speculation and fear.
I had a harrowing childhood and the fact that I have any self worth today is a miracle. I'll tell you this: my experience has turned me into a person the likes of which most people have never seen. I have the instincts of a headhunter and I'm no longer afraid of the things that used to terrify me.
You're an exceptional young man. Wit, intellect, sensitivity...and you're also handsome. I don't freely dish out compliments. You remind me a lot of myself at 19. I have every confidence you'll work this stuff out and realise your aspirations. Whenever I don't get something I want, I tell myself the universe has something better planned for me. And of course you know...I'm the charter member of your fan club.