1. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    Well apparently, I'm gay. Never mind that I've probably got a bigger cock than all my friends put together; I'm gay.

    They've all gone to my best friend's house but I'm not invited cos I'm too gay...apparently.

    I had this one fat guy who I've never liked call me gay cos I like Prince and I just said "Look, you fat bastard, I don't need to come out on a Friday night and call other people fat to feel better about myself. "

    Well apparently...that was "too gay" and I've been excluded. My thinkig tonight is "fuck them." But admittedly it hurts...

    Anyone been in a similar situation? I'm not gay btw.
     
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    Well, that right there is objectionable. Are you saying gay guys have small dicks? Because that's clearly bullshit of the highest order and deserving of a serious nut-punching.

    Or are you saying they say that? Because then that's just another reason why I'd have to ask, why are you friends with these people anyway?
     
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    I'm not quite sure how to respond to this one man. I think (and this is just a thought so please everyone don't jump on me) that maybe the fat guy was trying to joke around with you, and what you said was interpreted as being harsh and insulting. IDK though. I know how much being excluded from anything sucks, so I feel for you. Hey, perfect opportunity to go out and rent some porn, buy some beer, and have a masturbation-a-thon tonight lol
     
  4. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    No, the point is he has said many time that I'm gay for various things (liking Prince, not liking football, etc) and I just let it slide. But tonight I thought fuck it; look at him.

    We all know he's fat and talk about it regularly.

    IMO I don't know why I'm friends with these guys. They are really quite uneducated. I mean:

    Prince = Gay?

    What school do you have to go to to learn that?
     
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    Yeah that whole thing of calling everything gay....as an insult. Its demeaning and hurtful. Sounds like your 'buddy' is a dipshit! oh and Prince gay??? WTF? I mean, have they ever listened to his lyrics? Anyone here ever heard of Darling Nicki? I mean most of his songs are about having sex with a woman....hello?!?
     
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    Quite so.:rolleyes:
     
  7. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    I'm not saying gays have small cocks: quite the opposite. Moreso it was a demonstration of the ignorance of straight people:

    I know at least one guy I know has a "tiny cock" (his girlfirend told me) etc.

    But really...yes, they are all immature. And it sux. I'm fuckin 22 here and I'm the youngest except for the fat twat. Yet I'm excluded because of my gayness, which may be misperceived intelligence???
     
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    punch him in the mouth, then ask him who's gay
     
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    Ummm.... not sure what to say.

    Very sorry you're stuck in on a Friday night but sounds like you have lousy friends....

    that said... you don't like being called 'gay' yet you call him 'fat'?!?!!
    I'm fat!

    What's with all the need to 'label' people!!?! (in a derisory manner...)
     
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    Live your life according to your own convictions. You have a right to express yourself, express your thoughts about life in what ever positive and healthy manner you choose as long as it is not doing harm to yourself or others.

    If you choose not to watch football, listen to a certain types of music that is entirely your business. Shallow insecure people are always going to form biased opinions based on whatever negativity they subscribe to and in WHATEVER opinion they may have of you. Rather than simply saying "I don't care for that kind of music" they say "You listen to that? How gay!"

    These statements are very telling about the mind set of the person stating them. Don't get caught up in the trap of allowing your personal issues with anything pull sway over your own peace of mind. Live your truth, those of like mind will make their way to you and you to them.

    Personally the narrow minded ideal of "Gay" in general I have experienced and witnessed is disheartening at times, but I know in the core of my being it's their issue not mine and I feel pity for them.

    It matters not whether you are gay or straight, what matters in life is your ability to live in truth and live an authentic life. Good character over sexual preference any day. Who knows the next person to save the life of those people in question may be a gay man or woman.

    "Chin up, boobs out! It's show time!!" Debbie Reynolds
     
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  11. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    No, Kate. You are WOMANLY. This guy I was talking to has no concept of man and was and has been for a long time accusing me of being less of a "man" than he. TBH, I don't like being mean to people but he was mean to me first. When I said "look at you, you fat bastard." there were a lot of gasps but I thought it was deserved, given that the majority of people where I live think I'm gay thanks to him.

    But really, this is a sad night for me. I really thought I knew who my friends were but now, I have no idea.
     
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    They're all bastards jealous of your shear manhood and your better off without them.
     
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    Ohhhh Labels are big right now. From college all the way down to jr. high you can hear the term "that's so gay" all the time. It is a way of demeaning each other and the younger generation is hard at it. I hear kids at the grocery store and the mall saying it all the time.

     
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    This one just kind of makes me angry because it is a disgusting display of an insecure person trying to make himself look better by putting down another human being.

    1. There is no human being that can be fingered with regards to orientation based on the style of music they enjoy. I do not care personally if a person loves Michael Jackson, George Michael, Boy George, Prince, Donna Summer and the Village People. A preference in a type of music does not indicate anything other than what it is. It does not signify sexual orientation, period!

    2. The only way he could "out" you would be if he had photographic proof of you in bed with another male. That is the ONLY way.

    3. I do not know the age of the individual involved, but the mental maturity is incredibly questionable.

    4. Many years ago, when I was working in the Music Business, like many, I dealt in what is called "Institutional Sales" of pianos and organs. These are very expensive instruments sold to colleges, churches, concert halls, etc. etc. etc..
    My situation was a little worse than yours, I had a 70 year old Christian Fundimentalist go to a photocopier and using an old concert picture from an old concert flyer, she peppered my business territory with a bulk mailing stating that I was a homosexual and that no church should purchase an instrument from me.
    I took this to a very good West Hollywood Attorney. Because she had broadcast this with the idea of doing me harm in a financial way, the Attorney did an assets search and determined the extent of value of nearly everything she owned. Her assets that could easily be found totalled out to be about $750,000 at the time. He then proceeded to send her both a letter and a copy of a filing of a lawsuit not yet filed. He basically stated that because she had intended to do me financial harm by her actions that he was prepared to take everything she owned. The sexuality or orientation was not even the issue and my orientation would not have been relevant in Court. What was relevant in Court was that based on her belief system and some crazed whim she decided to do this potentially financially destructive mailing.
    The thing that surprised me according to the Laws of the State of California was that all that would have been necessary was another person receiving her communication. That was it!
    The "old-bag" was given 14 days to contact all the churches to which she had written and in writing state a retraction, AND in addition, she was placed on notice that If I lost a single sale of an instrument based on what she had done, and we found out that the institution in question had even simply received one of her "flyers" every asset she had was GONE!
    There was very little doubt of the orientation of Liberace, he was "outed" by a tabloid back in the 1950's. He took them to Court and because they had no proof of their statements, he won judgements in incredible amounts for that time against both the publication and the author of the story separately.
    What you need to do is to look at intent here. Is this just a "loud mouthed idiot" that nobody pays attention to, or is this some guy actually out to do harm to you by his "foot in mouth disease".
    If you need additional help on this don't hesitate to PM me and I will try to give you some guidance.
     
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    Yep, its rough finding out friends aren’t really friends after all. You deserve real friends and there are plenty out there waiting for you but I know that doesn’t help a lot to say right now. Best of luck here.
     
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    a 6 pack of miller tall boys will solve your problems until tomorrow...
     
  17. D_one and done

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    this kind of reminds me of that other story about that guy whose girlfriend (who knew he was straight) broke up with him because he appeared too gay to her friends. nobody knows you better than you. you know youre not gay. if they want to exclude you for that then fuck them and move on.

    personally, i have no tolerance for ignorance. even if i was straight, i wouldnt want to have them as friends if they were so stupid to exclude someone for something so superficial.
     
  18. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    Yes; I appreciate your post fuzzyken.

    Basically, I did say quite loudly earlier that I had no time for people such as the one calling me gay. He's done it basically since day one and I did say that says more of his insecurities than mine.

    The funniest thing is that everyone (that I know at least) plays up to this faux masculinity but me. And tonight I decide I've had enough of constantly being accused of being gay and I'm treated as an exile.

    But then again: I like David Cook so maybe I am gay after all. Time will tell.
     
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    Fuck 'em; it doesn't sound like they're worth hanging out with anyway.
     
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    Bro, as several other people in here have pointed out, these people you've termed "friends" aren't really friends at all. True friends will stick by you thru good times and bad times. Even if you were really "gay", a true friend doesn't care because he sees the person not the sexuality.
    Time for you to look forward to making new acquaintances and friends. The truly amazing thing is; those bottom feeders who didn't invite you to chill with them, will turn on each other eventually for some lame reason or another. They obviously don't know what being a friend is all about.
    Be yourself and always be true to yourself. Don't go along with the crowd, just because you think there is safety in numbers. Be your own man.
    Apologize to the fat kid. Be bigger than he was. Sometimes taking the high road involves sacrifice and commitment, but the high road always has the best view!!
    Peace to you .
     
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