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I'm Gonna Say This Once - LOCKERROOM/GYM ETIQUETTE
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D_Sir Fitzwilly Wankheimer III
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Men and Lesbians stare at me all the fucking time, you dont see me making posts about it. Im not scared about it. It doesnt change who i am to see a woman who is obviously butch undress me in her mind. I mean once i notice it i really dont look at her to make it obvious that i know it.
To the original poster, suck it up and shut the fuck up. Quit going to places where the man meat is in abundance.
When you start getting construction men staring at you in a 25 mile an hour cone zone, then we'll talk!
To the original poster, suck it up and shut the fuck up. Quit going to places where the man meat is in abundance.
When you start getting construction men staring at you in a 25 mile an hour cone zone, then we'll talk!
So, If a woman checks you out, you'll beat the crap out of her or is it just gay guys your afraid of.
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B_sugarandspice
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quit trippin' . ogling is not the end of the world.
it's a free country.
Sometimes your going to have to put up with it.
Some people are rude asses. Learn to pick your battles.
I think venting here is appropriate and people should be supportive and give you practical advise.
I liked the comparison on if you would treat a woman you didn't want advances on the same way or not.
I think they may be right that your hostility is slightly bigoted.
I learned from this thread and it is okay to change your ideas. You shouldn't get bashed for having your opinion but I think you should take a look at why it upsets you so much.
I hate guys to ogle me disrespectfully as well and if they cross me I get very irate and even completely psycho.
Some gay people are very touchy and overreact to perceived discrimination.
I bet if you said that some gay people smoke to much ice and take bad risks with their health and end up with terrible diseases with no regard for the people who love them some people will think that is somehow anti gay .Some of my best friends ever are recovering addicts who did that very thing and I still love and support them.
I have had gay and straight friends who thought they could just grope me to see if my boobs were real and I had to straighten them out.
If you are being disrespected by anyone approach them and tell them that you are uncomfortable with them staring at you.
Some people are going to do it anyway because they are creepy jerks.
Getting all bent is not going to help. Pick your battles.I really,really hate it too but there isn't a lot you can do about it and violence is a bad idea.
Maybe key the assholes car but only after you have calmly and politely requested them to stop staring so much.
The focus should be that you hate their behavior because it is rude and creepy not that they are rude,creepy, and gay.
it's a free country.
Sometimes your going to have to put up with it.
Some people are rude asses. Learn to pick your battles.
I think venting here is appropriate and people should be supportive and give you practical advise.
I liked the comparison on if you would treat a woman you didn't want advances on the same way or not.
I think they may be right that your hostility is slightly bigoted.
I learned from this thread and it is okay to change your ideas. You shouldn't get bashed for having your opinion but I think you should take a look at why it upsets you so much.
I hate guys to ogle me disrespectfully as well and if they cross me I get very irate and even completely psycho.
Some gay people are very touchy and overreact to perceived discrimination.
I bet if you said that some gay people smoke to much ice and take bad risks with their health and end up with terrible diseases with no regard for the people who love them some people will think that is somehow anti gay .Some of my best friends ever are recovering addicts who did that very thing and I still love and support them.
I have had gay and straight friends who thought they could just grope me to see if my boobs were real and I had to straighten them out.
If you are being disrespected by anyone approach them and tell them that you are uncomfortable with them staring at you.
Some people are going to do it anyway because they are creepy jerks.
Getting all bent is not going to help. Pick your battles.I really,really hate it too but there isn't a lot you can do about it and violence is a bad idea.
Maybe key the assholes car but only after you have calmly and politely requested them to stop staring so much.
The focus should be that you hate their behavior because it is rude and creepy not that they are rude,creepy, and gay.
B_sugarandspice
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:biglaugh: I just thought this line was funny.
If people stare at you, it's likely for one of two reasons: 1--you're attractive, or 2--you're some kind of hideous mutant. Since the original poster doesn't appear to be the result of some extraterrestrial/human breeding experiment, why wouldn't he assume people just think he's attractive and take the compliment for what it is? I never could understand the mentality of some who take it as a personal affront if a member of the same sex checks them out. I have received compliments from guys about various parts of my body and my reaction is usually something like, "oh, thanks." I just don't get it--why lash out? If someone you're not interested in (either because they're the same sex as you or they are butt-ugly) is checking you out and gets up the nerve to talk to you, why not just say you're not interested? Maybe I don't get it because I am not pretty enough to have hordes of people check me out all the time.
:shrug:
Great post, and I'm back to wandering through... HEY, didn't you used to have a gallery?
I've never had a gallery here on LPSG before and I don't know if I'll ever have the nerve to put one up after what happened to me several years ago.
But if and when I decide to put one up my dear novice_btm, I promise that my gallery will be the talk of the board for weeks. :biggrin1:
So. . . what happened? Were your pix hijacked by some wannabe poser? Did someone email them to your mom? What? Don't keep us in suspense!!
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DUDE!!!
I am positive worse things have happened to you than having some guy look at your junk at the gym. Trust me when I tell you that it won't be the last time your stuff gets looked at. How did you know that that guy looking at you was gay? Was he wearing his gay colors, or maybe he had a pink triangle tattooed on his ass? Did he touch you? And while we're at it, why are you showing your shit on a site where you are positive that gay guys are looking at it? HHHMMMM........Me thinks he does protest too much.
I am positive worse things have happened to you than having some guy look at your junk at the gym. Trust me when I tell you that it won't be the last time your stuff gets looked at. How did you know that that guy looking at you was gay? Was he wearing his gay colors, or maybe he had a pink triangle tattooed on his ass? Did he touch you? And while we're at it, why are you showing your shit on a site where you are positive that gay guys are looking at it? HHHMMMM........Me thinks he does protest too much.
To the OP:
Stop whining and grow up!! You need to put that big dick where your spine ought to be.
First of all, your problem is most likely with a few indiscreet people, but instead you lump together and blast all gay people. That's unfair, irresponsible and very immature.
YOU CANNOT CONTROL OTHER PEOPLES' BEHAVIOR!! As a man, you have to take responsibility for your choices. It's simple: you either stay at the gym or you leave. If you choose to stay, then you accept it with its pros and cons and work within the situation. And if you leave, consider that the same problem could happen at another gym. Gym starers are rude and annoying, but they're not breaking the law.
There are plenty of men that walk around the gym with their jewels flopping around in their shorts-- no jock support or underwear. They also strut around nude in the lockerroom and pretend to be unaware of their "crotch show"-- acting cool and casual about it. But they are fully aware of what they're doing and THEY DO IT PURPOSELY FOR THE ATTENTION!! They hold on to that carefree attitude until they're ready to complain about someone looking at their crotch-- the very thing they've put on display! Hey Bobs3304, I suspect that you're among that group of showers, too.
To a certain degree, I understand and empathize with your situation. I'm 6'5 and easily stand out just about everywhere. I'm well-endowed, however, no one knows how well unless I choose to show them. There have been some lockerrooms where I prefer to shower with my gym shorts on-- or not shower at all. While changing clothes, I usually face my locker with my back and ass to everyone. I keep a towel around my waist, and I change my shorts/briefs underneath. I don't drop my towel or turn around until my underwear is on. So, the only guys who get a free show from me are the men with fetishes for big feet and hairy legs.
Yes, there have been times when I have proudly flaunted my stuff in the lockerroom, too, for whatever reason. But then, if someone stares, I don't bitch about it. I can't, b/c I chose to be naked in a room among other semi-naked men who may happen to be str8 or gay. Face it: Guys flaunt because we want to compete for the biggest dick in the room-- whenever and wherever! And we don't get that "big-dick title" or even credit for the flaunt until someone else looks, stares, points or comments!
Finally, I find your position VERY hypocritical due to the fact that you're a LPSG member with posted pics on the internet!! That means that, regardless of your sexual orientation, you either like showing off your penis or looking at others'-- or both. So, when do you get the right to point an accusatory dick at someone else?!! Your self-righteous protests are just too weak and pouty. Get over yourself, dude, and just GROW UP!!
Stop whining and grow up!! You need to put that big dick where your spine ought to be.
First of all, your problem is most likely with a few indiscreet people, but instead you lump together and blast all gay people. That's unfair, irresponsible and very immature.
YOU CANNOT CONTROL OTHER PEOPLES' BEHAVIOR!! As a man, you have to take responsibility for your choices. It's simple: you either stay at the gym or you leave. If you choose to stay, then you accept it with its pros and cons and work within the situation. And if you leave, consider that the same problem could happen at another gym. Gym starers are rude and annoying, but they're not breaking the law.
There are plenty of men that walk around the gym with their jewels flopping around in their shorts-- no jock support or underwear. They also strut around nude in the lockerroom and pretend to be unaware of their "crotch show"-- acting cool and casual about it. But they are fully aware of what they're doing and THEY DO IT PURPOSELY FOR THE ATTENTION!! They hold on to that carefree attitude until they're ready to complain about someone looking at their crotch-- the very thing they've put on display! Hey Bobs3304, I suspect that you're among that group of showers, too.
To a certain degree, I understand and empathize with your situation. I'm 6'5 and easily stand out just about everywhere. I'm well-endowed, however, no one knows how well unless I choose to show them. There have been some lockerrooms where I prefer to shower with my gym shorts on-- or not shower at all. While changing clothes, I usually face my locker with my back and ass to everyone. I keep a towel around my waist, and I change my shorts/briefs underneath. I don't drop my towel or turn around until my underwear is on. So, the only guys who get a free show from me are the men with fetishes for big feet and hairy legs.
Yes, there have been times when I have proudly flaunted my stuff in the lockerroom, too, for whatever reason. But then, if someone stares, I don't bitch about it. I can't, b/c I chose to be naked in a room among other semi-naked men who may happen to be str8 or gay. Face it: Guys flaunt because we want to compete for the biggest dick in the room-- whenever and wherever! And we don't get that "big-dick title" or even credit for the flaunt until someone else looks, stares, points or comments!
Finally, I find your position VERY hypocritical due to the fact that you're a LPSG member with posted pics on the internet!! That means that, regardless of your sexual orientation, you either like showing off your penis or looking at others'-- or both. So, when do you get the right to point an accusatory dick at someone else?!! Your self-righteous protests are just too weak and pouty. Get over yourself, dude, and just GROW UP!!
To OP Bobs3304:
You said that you work at the gym as a PT. Well, at the very least that makes you sort of a "physical" role model. People are suppose to look up to and look at their role models. I don't know of any credible PTs that have staring hang-ups.
Plus, as an employee, aren't you in a much better position than a gym member to address this issue in a pro-active manner? I mean, ranting, bashing gays, and posting threats on LPSG may release some of your frustration, but ultimately it's not really going to change the situation.
Yes, we all know that there is a big difference between a simple look and a lusty stare, but you happen to work in a profession that is partly predicated on appearance. If that makes you uncomfortable, then join the cloistered monks-- priests never look at young men!
You said that you work at the gym as a PT. Well, at the very least that makes you sort of a "physical" role model. People are suppose to look up to and look at their role models. I don't know of any credible PTs that have staring hang-ups.
Plus, as an employee, aren't you in a much better position than a gym member to address this issue in a pro-active manner? I mean, ranting, bashing gays, and posting threats on LPSG may release some of your frustration, but ultimately it's not really going to change the situation.
Yes, we all know that there is a big difference between a simple look and a lusty stare, but you happen to work in a profession that is partly predicated on appearance. If that makes you uncomfortable, then join the cloistered monks-- priests never look at young men!
And so to recap: What the OP would like us to understand about him is that he is apologetic, professional, blessed with but not boastful about his large endowment, offers opinion tempered by clear logic, is blatantly but not aggressively heterosexual, is openminded and not homophobic (although he does, in general, find them to be immature, childish and partial to specific speech patterns), respects the privacy of others and requests the same, has posted nude pictures of himself numerous times on the internet but asks only that heterosexual persons, presumably women, view them, hopes he will not be banned from lpsg but implies that he may disappear, and finally, that he has a rockin' athletic body. I think all in all he deserves our congratulations, don't you?
D_Sir Fitzwilly Wankheimer III
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Sorry dude I command a little respect. If I tell you to back of and you still hair though my hair were going to have a problem. I don't mind a complement or joking around but no means no. I wouldn't to that to a girl if she told me buzz off and if I were into guys I wouldn't do it to a guy. Keep your hands to yourself and I'll keep mine to myself. I might even buy you a shot!
MovingForward
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I admit I stare at guys at the gym, but it really is to check out their routine and posture when working out.
If I want to really check you out, I will wait for the showers.
If I want to really check you out, I will wait for the showers.
This last post is different from the previous. In the previous posts, there was no warning, there was no, "No!" There was no one touching, or even trying to touch, you. There was just you seeing someone stroking themselves, and you kicking their ass. I think that anyone who even would jack in the shower at the gym knows that if someone tells them to stop, they either stop, or they run the risk of any range of action, if they continue. However, that risk should be mainly legal action (expulsion from the gym, public lewdness charge, etc), and not a short-fused bashing.
