I need some help. Logically, I know I'm gay because, obviously, I'm sexually attracted to men. However, whenever I think of actually coming out to people (such as my family), I always get this nagging feeling in the back of my head that says 'maybe this isn't the right thing to do...maybe I'm actually straight'. I cant describe the feeling other than saying it feels as if perhaps I'm just deluding myself that I am gay...perhaps I'm actually a straight guy diverting my urges. does this happen often, or am I in need of perhaps a deeper analysis with a therapist or something?