I'm jealous and envious

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by fournineteenfiftynine, Apr 16, 2009.

  1. fournineteenfiftynine

    fournineteenfiftynine Well-Known Member

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    I really wish I had a bigger cock. I think about it about 100 times a day minimum. I feel like I cheated. I know there are smaller, but my 5.5 incher seems really small to me and I'm just so envious of those of you with something bigger. I wish I could get over it, but nothing seems to help. No matter how much sense or how many times people say things like "you're normal" or "it's how you use it" ...etc...it still is a big (pardon the pun) issue for me in my life. Does anyone have any new angle on this?
     
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    you must be very young and you relate a happy sex life to size. time and sex experiences will prove you otherwise. just be patient. if it serves as a compliment, I wouldn't mind at all sucking a 5.5 incher
     
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    maybe I should of said, I'd be more than happy to suck a 5.5. incher
     
  4. Darpon

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    Your hands and tongue, if used correctly are far more capable of pleasing a woman than your cock. I've heard one woman say HERE that one of the best sexual experiences she's had was with an average-sized man.
     
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    here we go again- more s for a non-lp. but at least you're not seeking validation. sure- having a big dick is great. bringing out the animal in a woman in rewarding. i'm not going to lie- i'd much rather witness the reaction i get to whatever reaction you get. but there is no new angle. you're wasting your time fretting because you can't change it- so go concentrate your thoughts on something that makes you happy.
     
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    See how that's not going to help him, or anyone else who feels the same. Plus I don't even think that's an accurate statement anyway. You can have an average sized dick and "bring out the animal in a woman" just fine, just maybe not if she's been plowed with a huge one just prior to entry. After a few days/weeks of a woman not having sex, that initial entry can be just as fun (or rewarding as you put it) of a reaction.
     
  7. wallyj84

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    I know how you feel. We're in the same boat.

    Having a small/average dick sucks.
     
  8. Steve26

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    Most hung guys will say that having a big dick is not uniformly "great." It's a mixed bag, and the bigger the cock, the more negatives start to creep into the mix.

    Think of all the threads here where guys talk about being unable to fit into partners without pain, or about being stared at by freaks in locker rooms, or about feeling uncomfortably compressed in pants or underwear. Does this sound "great"? I've experienced all of these things, and while I am proud of my size, don't imagine for a minute that there aren't downsides.

    What's more, the upside is really not as spectacular as some would have you believe. If women really cared deeply about penis size, wouldn't there be a lot more of them here, eager to meet us?

    To the OP's original query: If you have major insecurities about your size, then it may make sense to dial back on the time spent on this site. By and large the LPSG offers big-penis fantasy, not reality. The site tends to reflect the simplistic porn-fed view that a big cock is always desirable, and the bigger the better. That's just not the truth, and if this site has made you believe that it is, then it's not a healthy place for you to be.

    Steve
     
  9. EnTaro

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    The best thing about a large cock (or a fit body, or a good education, or good looks) is that it gives you confidence which makes you a better lover. Everything is just a mediating variable on the way to being confident; do yourself a favour and skip the middle ground. You'll find big guys on this forum who are fucking prolific; and have fucked everything. Yet there's also virgins; fit, good looking suckers with 8" cocks who can't meet a girl. The variable isn't their penises; it's their confidence.

    Another thing that helps - have you ever been attracted to a girl with average breasts? Note I say average and not small; because you're not small. Think about how little it bothered you because that's how not-bothered girls are about the size of a penis once they meet someone they like and are attracted to. Pretty much all guys hate "size queens"; I'd never respond to a personal ad that demanded I have a particular size cock.

    Another angle - a bigger penis is sort of like the dragon on a heroin trip. The "ideal" is always a little further away. It's pretty well established that even guys here round up - even I'll confess that my stats are the upper bound on a particularly throbbing hardon. The guys who are 6 want to be 7; the 7s want to be 8, and even the 8s are in awe of the few 9-10 guys around. And - guess what - all those guys with 4.5-5" cocks would kill for the extra half inch you have. Just as "above average" is an important milestone, so too is "average".

    If that doesn't make you feel any better then you should probably go out and meet someone :p
     
  10. Mr_Cumalot

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    EnTaro speaks the truth. There are some absolutely gorgeous girls that I would bite my left arm off to bed or date with no tits, and probably some of them have gaping pussies. But they are lovely lovely lovely.

    Girls MUST think the same as men. Big dick is a bonus to most girls, a curse to others, and a necessity to VERY FEW.

    Also if you look at personal ads on the likes of gumtree, and other contact sites, its only like 1 in every 50 ads that seems to ask for a guy with a big dick. Most don't even mention it. I hear that sites like match.com don't even let you mention body parts.

    5.5 inches is a great size, and made to pleasure girls to the full. Don't let it ruin you. Just be the best you can in this life, and the girls will flock to you.
     
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    wow...very very well said.:smile:
     
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    don't think the grass is always greener...big guys go through the same things that smaller guys go through.my friends always think that because of my size life is always great with women. not likley.i've had sex with alot of women(not to brag)but meaningful relationships and all that romantic stuff,having someone to share my thoughts and everyday life with haven't had much of that.but that's another story..and besides most people just get struck with shock at the site of my dick.they go through this whole thing of "that's not real!" i thinks it's a double standard toward men being well endowed as a posed to women being well endowed any way..and yeah that's another story as well....
     
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    That was extremely well written. I think girls can sense my comfortableness with myself, whether deserved or not, because I know if we get naked at least they will be fascinated with my dick. So, this leads me to have a comfortable aura about me in their presence, never desperate, not nervous or eager; just alot of girls tell me quickly they feel really comfortable being around me.

    Girls will feel your lack of comfort if you are really that obsessed with your size. You have to shake this off, it's not like every chick I date has 36 DDDDDD breasts. One of the hottest bodies I ever slept with was a balerina with smaller breasts than mine, but her sexiness was her comfort level with who she was and the magical way every move she made was so graceful it appeared she floated around on air instead of being shackled by gravity like the rest of us.
    The big dick is a novelty act, it is a 5-8% enhancement on a total package that includes looks, intelligence, how nice you are etc.
    Don't feel bad about your feelings, I have heard countless times from drop dead beautiful women with average breasts how they constantly think about getting boob jobs, try to train yourself step by step to focus on something you like about yourself and enhancing that.
     
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    I know where you're coming from, I too wish I was bigger to some extent, just like every guy I've met... Also I'd much rather go through the downsides of being bigger than the downsides of being smaller... As to the op I can't help you because I stress over the same things... Just wish that some day they'll come up with a proven method of PE
     
  15. fournineteenfiftynine

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    Wow - I'm so impressed with the thoughtfulness of all posters. Thank you. Your thoughts are helpful.
     
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    ah, don't worry too much about it, bro. chances are you're perfectly fine. i too have been in the same place as you. i wouldn't mind having a cock that resembles that of julian or billy glyde. the first girl i ever dated really did a number on me when i was 16. she would say to my face that "i'm fine" "i have a big cock for my body size" but to her girlfriends, which would eventually get back to me, she'd say it was "pancake thin". it has fucked with my head ever since. you're not alone in this boat, my friend!

    i have dated many girls since that girl, and while they've boosted my ego plenty, the first thoughts still remain! but what i'm getting at is that the girls who really matter won't care about size. honestly.
     
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    7x6 and she told them pancake thin? What a gaping bitch.
     
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    I just thought I'd point out that I've heared from several women that they won't have sex with average to large sized penises because they don't find it enjoyable. It was honestly shocking to be turned down because of something most people seem to consider an asset, but just goes to show that everyone has their own taste and bigger doesn't mean better to everyone.
     
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