Im Leaving

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  1. yaoifun

    yaoifun New Member

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    As much as I hate to say it, after my short time here, I'm leaving. It's nothing personal...i just feel like i don't fit in, one little bit. Yes I post, but who really cares, this place will be fine without me considering half the time I'm ignored anyway. It's more complicated though, theres a LOT going on with my life right now. If anyone wants to try to convince me to stay, email me. I wont be checking back here. I'm sorry. I never have fitted anywhere I've been. I just didn't want to be a loser anymore....but i guess thats what I will always be.
     
  2. txquis

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    i know exactly how you feel.
    There are two types of people here...people who are lonely, who want
    to make some connections...

    and people who have a pretty full life as it is, maybe too full...
    and just come here for fun.

    I have found that when i'm in the lonesome category, i can get hurt,
    even by a message board.

    Actually, i'm lucky...
    i've made a couple of friends.
    But most of the crushes i've had here all came to nothing,
    or...the people went on with their real lives.

    I talked to the dear and sweet and wonderful Mindseye about this.
    I told him LPSG wasnt good for me.

    He told me to just take abreak for awhile...and then come back. We all
    need a sabbatical now and then

    But whatever you do, dont feel like a loser.
    Ever.
    Not over this.
     
  3. Knight

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    !Stay!

    Course you fit in here, there's an LPSG fun size condom here for everyone :D How can you not fit in? You do, least here on the forum, I dont know about chat or anything else I dont go there...but stay, have a laugh :D
     
  4. Nomad

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    Hey, yaoifun, I'm new here and in my short time I've enjoyed your replies in the discussions. I was hoping to hear more from you. Anyway, whatever you do, do it with all your heart.
     
  5. txquis

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    knight..another great avatar, lol.
     
  6. Pene_Negro_Grande

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    You definitely should stay...I am not really lonely but I enjoy talking to you folks here...This forum also gives me a chance to express myself in ways I could not normally do w/my friends...
     
  7. Pecker

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    I have an extra shoehorn if that will help you fit in.

    Yaoi - you've hit the LPSG wall. Everything seems "same old same old" and boring right now. Just stick around for a while and something will strike you as funny/important and you'll want to respond.

    It happens to all of us periodically.
     
  8. hungthick

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    good bye

    i never noticed him, who is he?
     
  9. Nomad

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    O/T, but I totally agree... it's flippin' hiliarious!
     
  10. Freddie53

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    Listen to the words of the song on his post. He is a guy in trouble. He needs friends and compassion not a kick in the ass saying goodbye. I haven't posted my remarks to him. I sent them via e-mail.

    I for one want to show compassion and offer a hand of friendship. Not offer a smart ass comment like you just made.

    He is 18 years old. Still a young man. Lighten up.

    Freddie
     
  11. hungthick

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    i didndt have to read more than the first line in his signature line to know that his issues are beyond the scope of LPSG ...
     
  12. Pappy

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    Your responses are real supportive ther ht. I think the only place you&#39;re thick is in your head and I&#39;m referring to the one on your shoulders, not the one between your legs.

    Like Freddie I sent my sentiments via e-mail.
     
  13. Altairion

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    yaoi, I guess I haven&#39;t gotten to know you that well, but it was good to have you around the site. Regrettably, it&#39;s hard to be able to talk to every single person or support their point of view in a thread since there is so much going on at once. Hopefully you&#39;ll have a good break and make your way back here in time.
     
  14. D_Stavelay Strappon

    D_Stavelay Strappon New Member

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    Well said, Altarion. Ditto from me. :excl:
     
  15. dcwrestlefan

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    feel free to email me anytime. i like to yack. ;)

    there is no such thing as utopia in cyberspace. like most places, you have an asshole or two out there on lpsg. one responded here. i think of them as aol rejects. don&#39;t let the bastards ruin a good thing. the board is a good place overall.

    people who are nasty online have issues that we don&#39;t know, and are hurting from them deeply. their problem...not yours.
     
  16. jay_too

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    Errrr...people, he only gets your sentiments/opinions if you shoot him an email. I did.

    jay
     
  17. Altairion

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    I bet he&#39;ll at least come back without logging in to check on the replies in the next couple days. Curiosity is a powerful motivator for these things :)
     
  18. Imported

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    carolinacurious: I agree with Altairion.

    yaoi,

    Hope you get things worked out, get help if you need it; in most places you can get "it" for free if you can&#39;t afford it. Feeling like you don&#39;t fit in and that being a major cause of distress are pretty normal for your age, unfortunately, admitting it isn&#39;t. I don&#39;t know specifically what you refer to when you say you&#39;ve been ignored but in general it frequently means people agree with you.

    Dude, if you do come back change your sig. even if that&#39;s really the way you feel (not saying you can&#39;t put something a little heavy there if you want). But if you want people to get closer that sig. is like a frickin force field.
     
  19. hungthick

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    pappy:

    Your responses are real supportive ther ht. I think the only place you&#39;re thick is in your head and I&#39;m referring to the one on your shoulders, not the one between your legs.

    Like Freddie I sent my sentiments via e-mail.
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    pappy perhaps lpsg isnt for you either---this is a supportive group not a suicide prevention center. :blink:

    i also didnt know that this site was to placate those that feel disenfranchised.
     
  20. Imported

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    carolinacurious: HT,

    Ordinarily on a message board when someone threatens to leave I would agree with you. Either ignore them or tell them to hurry the hell up.

    Maybe yaio has us all snowed and this is just a well worded but typical snit or cry for attention.

    At this point it sure doesn&#39;t look that way.

    Yes, this isn&#39;t a suicide prevention center but did you have to give the guy a push?
     
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