I'm losing my butt virginity tomorrow night. Tips?
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As important as lube is, i noticed one thing was wasn't being mentioned, DEEP BREATHS! these breaths will help you calm down and not feel the nervousness your currently feeling it will also help you feel the pleasure faster instead of focus on the minor pain!! Also, this might sound gross, but when he's sliding into you, You should "poo"! Push out like your gonna poo!! If he's loosened you up like he should you should feel even less pain, and remember to communicate with him ,tell him to slow down or stay still for a minute if you need it! Othen then that have fun! 
I know you will
I know you will 
I would recommend douching yourself out about 3-4 hours before you have start having sex. That way if there are any residual water left, it will be absorbed. Trust me, I learned from that messy experience once. Douching right before anal sex = not good idea.
Also since this will be your first time, make sure you use a dildo (small at first) to help you get used to the sensation of having something in your rectum. The more prep you do, the more enjoyable it will be. Yes, lots of lube is key. Try riding him first because you have control of the rate and rhythm of the penetration.
As for diet, try not to eat much diary products that day.
Anal sex should not be painful with adequate preparation and stimulation (perhaps have him rim you first) Have fun!
Also since this will be your first time, make sure you use a dildo (small at first) to help you get used to the sensation of having something in your rectum. The more prep you do, the more enjoyable it will be. Yes, lots of lube is key. Try riding him first because you have control of the rate and rhythm of the penetration.
As for diet, try not to eat much diary products that day.
Anal sex should not be painful with adequate preparation and stimulation (perhaps have him rim you first) Have fun!
well like every one has said here i think there are 3 major tips to be followed here
1. Be relaxed: take your time, plenty of fore play and get him to loosen you up.
2. Take it slow: youll feel a certain degree of pain but it will quickly subside, he should be hurting you so if he does tell him to slow down.
3. Use plenty of lube: lube is your friend, cannot be under estimated how important it can be!
Good luck and have fun
1. Be relaxed: take your time, plenty of fore play and get him to loosen you up.
2. Take it slow: youll feel a certain degree of pain but it will quickly subside, he should be hurting you so if he does tell him to slow down.
3. Use plenty of lube: lube is your friend, cannot be under estimated how important it can be!
Good luck and have fun
Ok so things didn't go as planned. He tried to get inside me but either he was too big or I was too small/tight and it just wasn't happening. So we just did oral.
Does this happen to anybody else?
btw, he called me from a number I didn't recognize and I missed the call. I was wondering who was calling me from that number so I googled it and the first thing that came up was a gay escort site. And on there he goes by the name "Cody" but I know that isn't his real name. Or maybe the name he gave me was the fake name. I dunno.
He told me the reason why he travels so much is because he does construction work. But now I see he's a call guy who travels all over the state and even the country.
Should I continue to see this guy? Something about him being an escort has me worried that he might give me something.
Does this happen to anybody else?
btw, he called me from a number I didn't recognize and I missed the call. I was wondering who was calling me from that number so I googled it and the first thing that came up was a gay escort site. And on there he goes by the name "Cody" but I know that isn't his real name. Or maybe the name he gave me was the fake name. I dunno.
He told me the reason why he travels so much is because he does construction work. But now I see he's a call guy who travels all over the state and even the country.
Should I continue to see this guy? Something about him being an escort has me worried that he might give me something.
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If he isn't being honest with you about how he makes his money, I would run. I wouldn't care if he was an escort or not, I would be concerned that he wasn't telling me the truth.
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My biggest experience with giving male or female anal for the first time is that they hadn't put enough things up their own ass to "train" it to accept something.
One thing I do is get myself "loosened" up in advance of meeting someone who I expect to have anal sex with.
The other thing is that I need to be in complete control of it entering so I don't get afraid they will hurt me.
oh yeah, and do that "push out" thing, it slips in easy that way.
One thing I do is get myself "loosened" up in advance of meeting someone who I expect to have anal sex with.
The other thing is that I need to be in complete control of it entering so I don't get afraid they will hurt me.
oh yeah, and do that "push out" thing, it slips in easy that way.
Well the only thing I've ever used is my fingers. But they don't prepare me enough for something that thick lol
I'm kinda bummed out by it but now that I know he's a hooker I'm also kind of glad
He is completely computer illiterate so I bet he had no idea people could google phone numbers and find out stuff like that so easily. I can post a link to his escort page if you guys don't think that would be out of line.
I already sent him an e-mail asking him to explain it.
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That's why smaller dicks can be so FUN... no worries... no hassles... just ANEROS sized
the first time I saw his dick was like "omg!"
it was the thickest dick I ever seen
it was the thickest dick I ever seen
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well, considering much else he told you isn't squaring up with his real self, maybe that huge thick piece of meat you saw on line (?) was a fiction too. :wink:
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Actually, a hooker might have been the best candidate for your cherry. He obviously knew enough to stop and not pursue something that would have hurt you.
It is not cool, though, that he lied to you. Consider it a good lesson not be be too trusting of anyone before you get to know him better. If he'd told you how he really earns his money then you could have made an informed decision whether or not to choose him as a sex partner.
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run like hell from him, if hes lied to you then that means hes got something to hide, or at least he think hes hiding it.
maybe this is a lucky escape for you, next time try and be a little more prepared for the guy, get to know him more so you feel much more relaxed with him and a little 'training' of your hole wouldn't go a miss. good luck
maybe this is a lucky escape for you, next time try and be a little more prepared for the guy, get to know him more so you feel much more relaxed with him and a little 'training' of your hole wouldn't go a miss. good luck
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