I'm losing my butt virginity tomorrow night. Tips?

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If he's not telling you the truth then don't trust him. Doesn't matter how hot he is or whatever. If he's a liar, it's not worth the risks involved.

Even if it's just a fuck buddy hook-up?

An escort of this guy's age is going to know how to be careful and he stopped when he should have. I wager that he's also going to be a lot more careful about disease issues unless he's already poz. He's probably also very good at being able to separate his emotions from the job. In short, if all KT is looking for is losing his cherry, this guy should be good if he's not too big for KT to handle in time.

I agree about being careful if there was any romantic interest involved but I don't think there is.

 

[D_BarryBunwarmer]

well, considering much else he told you isn't squaring up with his real self, maybe that huge thick piece of meat you saw on line (?) was a fiction too. :wink:

No actually I met him in a locker room in the showers. He was checking me out, I got turned on, he came over, did a little sucky sucky

 

[D_BarryBunwarmer]

Actually, a hooker might have been the best candidate for your cherry. He obviously knew enough to stop and not pursue something that would have hurt you.

It is not cool, though, that he lied to you. Consider it a good lesson not be be too trusting of anyone before you get to know him better. If he'd told you how he really earns his money then you could have made an informed decision whether or not to choose him as a sex partner.

Those are good points.

 

[D_BarryBunwarmer]

I agree about being careful if there was any romantic interest involved but I don't think there is.

No and there never will be. lol

 

[hungryman40]

C'mon, show us his escort page, I want to see how thick he is.

 

[Bbucko]

Even if it's just a fuck buddy hook-up?

An escort of this guy's age is going to know how to be careful and he stopped when he should have. I wager that he's also going to be a lot more careful about disease issues unless he's already poz. He's probably also very good at being able to separate his emotions from the job. In short, if all KT is looking for is losing his cherry, this guy should be good if he's not too big for KT to handle in time.

Agreed. My criteria for sex and my criteria for a romantic thing have very little in common; I have no need for any trust with a hook-up beyond the fact that he'll show up and be as the same age, look and build promised.

Obviously I aim a bit higher with matters of the heart.

 

[D_BarryBunwarmer]

C'mon, show us his escort page, I want to see how thick he is.

ok
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The only picture of it is cut off and he's not erect so you don't really get the full experience of his monster cock lol

 

[B_Nick8]

Obviously I aim a bit higher with matters of the heart.

I can't tell you how happy I am to hear that.

 

[Cougar]

go get a big dildo and use it daily on yourself and then invite that hot stud back over!

you know you want it!

 

[latinluva]

go get a big dildo and use it daily on yourself and then invite that hot stud back over!

you know you want it!

And be sure you clean it real good....the dildo thing is so true.

 

[Cougar]

And be sure you clean it real good....the dildo thing is so true.

I'm squeaky clean down there. A trick I learned was to use Physillium (Metamucil) a day or 2 ahead of time a few times a day. It binds everything together so there is no residue in your colon. It cleans you out great!

Better to just use it on a regular basis since it adds fiber to your diet and that is a good thing on a regular basis anyway.

Plus, I limit or don't eat at all a day or 2 out.

A girl should be prepared...lol

 

[lakecreeker]

For it to be pleasurable or even somewhat pleasurable for everyone Make sure to do:
Limit food intake about a day before (if you can)
Clean yourself out (douche, enemas,and over the counter things)
shower and scrub yourself good back there (He may rim you, don't want any cling-ons)
Get yourself some lube, He may have his own which is cool too
At least provide condoms, maybe throw in a few of the extra large ones too
If you can't take him make sure he understands to stop on a code word. I good man will understand that, especially if he knows your are totally new to it.
Afterwards, if you can aquire dildos of varying sizes (if you don't already) and practice on yourself.
My wife liked to use dildos on me before I was taking real cock every so often
And for sure RELAX RELAX LUBE LUBE LUBE

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

He is completely computer illiterate so I bet he had no idea people could google phone numbers and find out stuff like that so easily. I can post a link to his escort page if you guys don't think that would be out of line.

I already sent him an e-mail asking him to explain it.

Hookers have private lives too, and the guys I know who've hooked always said it was really difficult to tell if a guy would be cool about it or not when they told them about it. If he picked you up because he was genuinely attracted to you personally then he might just have been reticent about telling you upfront that he was an escort because he was unsure how you would react. It's worth remembering that hooking is sometimes a second job for some guys and he might not even consider it his primary career. I wouldn't read too much in to him not tellng you about it.

As some of the other posters have pointed out, if he is a pro then he'll likely be extremely good in bed and very aware of your needs, what your comfortable with and that you may not be very experienced with anal sex. He's as good a candidate as any to loose your cherry to, just be sure to be safe and make sure you only do things you enjoy.

 

[molotovmuffin]

Hookers have private lives too, and the guys I know who've hooked always said it was really difficult to tell if a guy would be cool about it or not when they told them about it. If he picked you up because he was genuinely attracted to you personally then he might just have been reticent about telling you upfront that he was an escort because he was unsure how you would react. It's worth remembering that hooking is sometimes a second job for some guys and he might not even consider it his primary career. I wouldn't read too much in to him not tellng you about it.

As some of the other posters have pointed out, if he is a pro then he'll likely be extremely good in bed and very aware of your needs, what your comfortable with and that you may not be very experienced with anal sex. He's as good a candidate as any to loose your cherry to, just be sure to be safe and make sure you only do things you enjoy.

I totally agree with this/these statements.... don't be so quick to judge.

 

[latinluva]

I'm squeaky clean down there. A trick I learned was to use Physillium (Metamucil) a day or 2 ahead of time a few times a day. It binds everything together so there is no residue in your colon. It cleans you out great!

Better to just use it on a regular basis since it adds fiber to your diet and that is a good thing on a regular basis anyway.

Plus, I limit or don't eat at all a day or 2 out.

A girl should be prepared...lol

I usually stay away from foods that will make it harder to clean out the next day, and don't eat alot either the day before. But douching is amust and workin the dildo for a while always loosins me up and lets me know if I am ready to go. A guy should also be prepared :biggrin1:

 

[Gnashin Teefe]

Hookers have private lives too, and the guys I know who've hooked always said it was really difficult to tell if a guy would be cool about it or not when they told them about it. If he picked you up because he was genuinely attracted to you personally then he might just have been reticent about telling you upfront that he was an escort because he was unsure how you would react. It's worth remembering that hooking is sometimes a second job for some guys and he might not even consider it his primary career. I wouldn't read too much in to him not tellng you about it.

As some of the other posters have pointed out, if he is a pro then he'll likely be extremely good in bed and very aware of your needs, what your comfortable with and that you may not be very experienced with anal sex. He's as good a candidate as any to loose your cherry to, just be sure to be safe and make sure you only do things you enjoy.

What he said.

Sounds like there was plenty of attaction in the showers. His rate is $180 per hour. Be flattered to get an expert lesson in anal fucking for free from a super hot guy. I love the challenge of a fat coke can dick, but maybe something a little less aggressive for your first time will work out better.

 

[D_BarryBunwarmer]

Plus, I limit or don't eat at all a day or 2 out.

So bottoms should starve themselves when they have sex? That sucks. What if you wanna have sex every day?

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

So bottoms should starve themselves when they have sex? That sucks. What if you wanna have sex every day?

You don't have to starve yourself, just eat lightly and eat Psyllium to insure you don't end up with stray poop in your shoot :tongue:

 

[D_BarryBunwarmer]

Hookers have private lives too, and the guys I know who've hooked always said it was really difficult to tell if a guy would be cool about it or not when they told them about it. If he picked you up because he was genuinely attracted to you personally then he might just have been reticent about telling you upfront that he was an escort because he was unsure how you would react. It's worth remembering that hooking is sometimes a second job for some guys and he might not even consider it his primary career. I wouldn't read too much in to him not tellng you about it.

As some of the other posters have pointed out, if he is a pro then he'll likely be extremely good in bed and very aware of your needs, what your comfortable with and that you may not be very experienced with anal sex. He's as good a candidate as any to loose your cherry to, just be sure to be safe and make sure you only do things you enjoy.

Well his hooker profile says he's available 24hrs a day 7days a week. So I think it's his only job.

I realize hookers have private lives, but I really do think he should have told me what he did before he started getting sexual with me. It's sort of like if a chick is really a dude. She should tell a guy she has a dick before she gets intimate with him. It's not fair for the other party to enter into something that they might not want to get into if they had all the information up front.

If he had told me what he did, I probably would have said I would pass on the anal. Thankfully he couldn't get in me anyway so it doesn't matter.

 

[Cougar]

I realize hookers have private lives, but I really do think he should have told me what he did before he started getting sexual with me.

In my not so humble opinion, if you chose to have sex with someone you know little about you are taking things "as is" no info, no questions, no history.