I'm losing my butt virginity tomorrow night. Tips?

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Well his hooker profile says he's available 24hrs a day 7days a week. So I think it's his only job.

I realize hookers have private lives, but I really do think he should have told me what he did before he started getting sexual with me. It's sort of like if a chick is really a dude. She should tell a guy she has a dick before she gets intimate with him. It's not fair for the other party to enter into something that they might not want to get into if they had all the information up front.

If he had told me what he did, I probably would have said I would pass on the anal. Thankfully he couldn't get in me anyway so it doesn't matter.

It's not really like a trans needing to be upfront about what genitals they have. Because that would directly change what kind of sex they were actually capable of having.

You say you wouldn't have have said yes to fucking with this guy, why ? You were using a condom right ? So what's the difference ? Most male sex workers I've ever met were infinitely more careful about safe sex, and being completely aware of their HIV status than regular guys. If you'd said no to anal with him because he's told you he was a hooker you would have been making exactly the kind of presumptions about him which discouraged him from telling you about his work in the first place.
 

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Well his hooker profile says he's available 24hrs a day 7days a week. So I think it's his only job.

I realize hookers have private lives, but I really do think he should have told me what he did before he started getting sexual with me. It's sort of like if a chick is really a dude. She should tell a guy she has a dick before she gets intimate with him. It's not fair for the other party to enter into something that they might not want to get into if they had all the information up front.

If he had told me what he did, I probably would have said I would pass on the anal. Thankfully he couldn't get in me anyway so it doesn't matter.

I'm sorry...how honest were you before the hook up?.... Did you tell him everything about you or did you omit some facts..... like if he screwed you over in anyway...you'd post about it on an online forum with links....?

Can't have your cake and eat it too...no matter how much we want.

In my not so humble opinion, if you chose to have sex with someone you know little about you are taking things "as is" no info, no questions, no history.

You got that right girlfriend!
 

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Ok guys, I'm really getting annoyed with my hooker friend here.

After I found his hooker page, I sent him an email specifically asking "Are you an escort? I found this page (link) with your photos on it."

He replies back with "Wow I'll have to check that out"

WTF does that mean? Either he's an escort or he isn't. A simple yes or no would do.
 

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He replies back with "Wow I'll have to check that out"

WTF does that mean?
Might be a narcissistic escort, but it's probably safe to say he's an escort. Maybe he's not particularly proud of it and/or he's avoiding the issue because he senses you may not be cool with it. Your choices are to chalk it up as a learning experience and move on, or don't if you're willing to look past the evasiveness and get with him again.
 

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Ok guys, I'm really getting annoyed with my hooker friend here.

After I found his hooker page, I sent him an email specifically asking "Are you an escort? I found this page (link) with your photos on it."

He replies back with "Wow I'll have to check that out"

WTF does that mean? Either he's an escort or he isn't. A simple yes or no would do.


OK well that's pretty suspect. There's a big difference between not telling you something and being unable to give a straight answer to a straight question.

If he's really hot and you still want to shag him then at least you now know he can be shady and evasive, but at least now your completely justified in forgetting about him and moving on.
 

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Might be a narcissistic escort, but it's probably safe to say he's an escort. Maybe he's not particularly proud of it and/or he's avoiding the issue because he senses you may not be cool with it. Your choices are to chalk it up as a learning experience and move on, or don't if you're willing to look past the evasiveness and get with him again.
Right now I have more of a problem with the dishonesty than I do the hooker thing.

First he lies and says he's a construction worker and that's his reason for traveling so much. Then I give him an opportunity to come clean and his response is "Wow I'll have to check that out!"

pfft! I can do better
 

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OK well that's pretty suspect. There's a big difference between not telling you something and being unable to give a straight answer to a straight question.

If he's really hot and you still want to shag him then at least you now know he can be shady and evasive, but at least now your completely justified in forgetting about him and moving on.
He's not hot enough to put up with this.
 

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Well, regardless of whether he's a liar, it would appear he does not have what some of my friends affectionately refer to as a "starter cock": That is, one which is manageable for a first timer, or one which is attached to someone who will take the time to see things through (as in, boyfriend material).

Also, I wouldn't be concerned about getting a disease from him because he's a sex worker - I know someone who researches this stuff, and the data show that sex workers, like other workers, get STIs from relationships and not work (as long as they use condoms in their work) - but I would be worried about getting an STI from a big, fat liar.
 

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Right now I have more of a problem with the dishonesty than I do the hooker thing.

First he lies and says he's a construction worker and that's his reason for traveling so much. Then I give him an opportunity to come clean and his response is "Wow I'll have to check that out!"

pfft! I can do better
With your nice booty, you can.

If it's your first time, it should be someone you can trust and be comfortable with. Being a sex worker doesn't disqualify him from being trustworthy, but being a liar does.
 

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I'm a girl, but I assume anal is about the same, girl or guy. Take it slow and lube. What helped me was doing doggy style and, with no better way to explain this, kind of 'backing' onto it, and just holding it there when it hurts.

When my b/f took my anal cherry for his b-day, I didn't let him thrust at first, I just slowly backed onto it until he was all the way in, held it for a bit until the wee bit of pain subsided, and just took it from there. Was pretty easy sailing after the first 5-10 minutes.

DON'T be nervous. Worse thing you can do because the inner sphincter will tense up, and that's the one that's involuntary, unlike the outer sphincter.
 

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Just got caught-up on the thread Kurtis and all I can say is I'm really sorry it didn't work out. I hope it goes better in the future.
 

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i have a friend whom is a welder. right now he's working on the alaskan pipeline. he's worked in saudi arabia,isreal ,france, us. and south america.so if you have a special skill you go where the work is. and as everyone knows constuction jobs are at a premium. hookers travel too. just look at the tiger woods debacle