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A friend of mine is also my coworker so we have a ton of interaction through our company messaging system, and occasionally see each other floating around the office.
He and my husband had a falling out and my husband absolutely can't stand him, and even on a personality level, he's definitely not a guy I'd like to hang with for an extended period of time
Here's the catch, he really REALLY likes me, and I'm having unwanted feelings of physical attraction for him. No lie, I half considered just like, throwing caution to the wind, and dragging him into the office bathroom (consentually obvi) for a make out or whatever.
Its fun to imagine during my "solo time" however it's extremely disruptive to me and I worry it may lead to cheating on a more serious level.
Does anyone have advice for this sort of thing? Ever since he and my husband had a falling out, I try to keep my distance (per my husband's wishes) so our friendship sort of remains in stasis.
Would talking to him more and really drilling into my head he has a highly flawed personality do the trick?
He and my husband had a falling out and my husband absolutely can't stand him, and even on a personality level, he's definitely not a guy I'd like to hang with for an extended period of time
Here's the catch, he really REALLY likes me, and I'm having unwanted feelings of physical attraction for him. No lie, I half considered just like, throwing caution to the wind, and dragging him into the office bathroom (consentually obvi) for a make out or whatever.
Its fun to imagine during my "solo time" however it's extremely disruptive to me and I worry it may lead to cheating on a more serious level.
Does anyone have advice for this sort of thing? Ever since he and my husband had a falling out, I try to keep my distance (per my husband's wishes) so our friendship sort of remains in stasis.
Would talking to him more and really drilling into my head he has a highly flawed personality do the trick?