I'm not gay but...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by RecklessBull, Dec 16, 2006.

  1. RecklessBull

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    I don't consider myself as being gay in that I'd never want to have my cock in a guy's rear (or the reverse) or even to make out with a guy. Both of these things to me are just devoid of any attraction factor. What I would love to do is jerk a really hung guy off. The thought of manipulating a super long mega thick cock in my hands is a big turnon for me for some reason. I also love to watching porn where a small petite (usually asian) girl sucks off a really, really hung guy, especially if he's really vocal and moaning and she's really into it.

    So in a sense the thought of pleasuring a man does turn me off, but I have no chemical attraction to a man's body or face like I do with a woman.

    Does that make me a bit bi, or no?
     
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    Nope, it's just called curiosity .. just like playing with big breasts.
     
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    I'm with HotBulge, but I do think if you ever get close to doing that, that you're very clear about it. The other guy may just think that you're being coy, or too embarassed to admit that you really want more, and try to make the situation progress. Also, if he does, you shouldn't, in turn, think that he agreed to do it just in order to sneak in doing more, or "converting" you. He may be exactly like you, but just be caught up in the heat of the moment.
     
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    You sound exactly like me when I first realized large cocks fascinated me, many years before I did anything about it!
    For many gay men, being gay is a rite of passage from being entirely straight! I suspect you are taking the first step toward being turned on by guys in general! Only time will tell whether you take additional steps toward that end!:smile:
     
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    All people like dicks, especially big ones. I rarely meet anyone who doesn't, but sometimes it's a difficult thing to own up to. Good job.
     
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    I'm not gay at all but I have a friend who's a bit theatrical. It's just that I, sorry, *he* likes sucking cock and stuff... :)
     
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    No. I think that you would like to masturbate a well hung guy. There are lots of straight guys like that. Lots of straight guys are turned on by hard dicks. So, don't think that you the only one.
     
  9. Vestigial

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    We have various feelings...

    It's what we do with them that shape us...



    btw. Sometimes it only takes the right member of the opposite sex to switch the opinions of a homosexual, and vice versa.
     
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    Enjoy the bonding is all your thinking about...thats cool...don't worry about it
     
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    I known a few men who thought just like you do. You should live out this fantasy. You would both enjoy it.
     
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    Completely understandable.
     
  13. fortiesfun

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    This thread might be of some use to you as you try to figure it out if you are "bi."
     
  14. Ganymede

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    I'm not gay, but my boyfriend is.
     
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    Nope...you are a straight arrow...some of my best JO sessions have been with straight guys that like to look at big dick while they wack:cool:
     
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    Some of the best JO session was with straight guys that liked to JO guys with big dicks.
     
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    reckless that sounds almost EXACTLY like where i'm comin' from. NO desire for the backdoor, giving or receiving, but the handjob seems like it would be a total blast, especially at blast off. and all the subjects of my bi fantasies are hung like mules....

    and as an answer to your question, seems you're just like me, i've never had a m/m experience of any kind, but i still consider myself bi just because of the desire. just cause 100% straight is just obviously wrong.
     
  18. Ganymede

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    Um, aren't we really, really stretching the definition of "straight" here? Not that there's anything wrong with it. Just asking.

     
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    If you're not gay, mutual j/o is not going to make you gay.

    I can't speak for other cultures, but in U.S. culture I think the stigma is, well, what if I like it more than I thought I would?

    That brings us back to preference vs. orientation.
     
  20. Ganymede

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    I had thought that if you were straight then ou wouldn't want to JO with another guy.

    What is the difference beween preference and orientation?
     
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