Here is what I meant:
Ostensibly you post is expressing how "perturbed" and alienated you feel
about the apparently blunt and narrow interest in your cock and
presumably the rest of your physical assets.
However you suggest, with some insistence, in the same post,
how you are actually into those very sorts of things yourself.
You concede that you consider the blunt questions asked legitimate.
Then you go on to inform the reader about what you have to offer
and even hint at what you might be interested in.
I believe your post would be much more efficient, the message much stronger,
had you not included elements suggesting you are a young fit
college student who is curious about sex with men.
Those things could have been the subject of a different post altogether.
The inclusion of those two opposed messages in the same post
is what makes it ambivalent and generates a mixed message.
If this is the kind of language you maintain throughout the web,
no matter how honest it really is, you may confuse some about your
true intentions and they may assume they can just
zero in on what they want.
Of course, all that is only my humble opinion.
I may have misunderstood your intent with that post.
You can do with that as you wish, if you think its rubbish I understand.
Hope that helps :redface:
Dear lpsg-ers,
Sorry in advance for what I hope is not too cynical or inappropriate for a forum devoted to penises.
Recently I have become perturbed by the amount of c2c solicits I have been requested to partake in. I know what you're thinking, "sounds like a pretty awesome problem," and it was for a while. Maybe I've changed or matured or been scarred to many times but it has recently become an issue for me.
No, not the camming itself. But the fact that the first thing typed on skype or yahoo is, "asl?" or "are you hung?" Yes I suppose those are relevant questions to the issue at hand (hehe) but it is extremely rare to get a "hey how're you?" Which brings me to my second point and main issue.
Yeah, I might be signed on, but that does not mean that I am waiting around to show someone my cock. Occasionally I actually am doing work or chatting with a friend and am not boned and ready for someone, waiting for what has turned out to be mostly disappointing cocks, bodies, and people.
I am 21 years old, a slightly fit college student (with actual pics of me and my cock posted here), and I have yet to have sex with a guy. I've been with a girl and liked it but would like to try out my gay side as well. This is honest. When someone tells me their asl and sexual preference, and then acts or appears obviously different (older, fatter, more gay/straight than he claimed, or smaller cock sized), I will lose interest rapidly. It doesn't bother me if someone tells me originally that they're a slightly overweight 30 or 40 something year old. I know not everyone is in their 20s. But please don't lie to me because I've got news for you. I have eyes that are watching your cam and I can tell the difference between a "slightly fit 27 year old" and a "slightly fat 40 year old." And the let down and lies are more of a turn off than the idea of jerking with an older guy. Promise.
Also, if I don't immediately jump to c2c with someone, it doesn't mean I'm not interested in the idea. I actually probably am. So please don't flip out or be rude. I've had guys continuously call on skype-even before saying "hey" or "c2c?". Guys who once I turned the cam on claimed they were "bored" and left. Guys who have just been plain rude about it. Sorry me and my penis aren't on your jack off schedule. I happen to have a life of my own outside of masturbation.
And I do like to chat with some of you. Some of you who have become good friends. If you'd like to be a friend, the more the merrier. But I might not like you so much after you switch over from being a friend to only ever talking about my cock and jerking off with me. Occasionally, sure. Nonstop, just look at porn and stop bothering me please. I'm not your guy.
Thanks for listening to my rant. I doubt this will actually change anything. But hopefully people, when camming from here at least, will at least keep in mind that we are actual people on the other end too. While sex and getting off can be a priority, I'm a guy too, not just a penis waiting to cum for you.
-Collegeguy1223