I'm not just my cock.

D_Gunther Snotpole

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What's asl?

age/sex/location

e.g., 22/rip-snortin male/Manhattan

I'd much rather talk/type that turn a camera on myself. I'm shy and older so you understand. How do you find the chat room here? I mean the old fashioned style with text only. I've only found a "chat room" that has a big blank video field in it with no place to type.

I don't think there is a separate text chat room.
Here, you click on 'chat.'
After a few seconds, you will be asked if you want to grant access to your camera and microphone.
You can say No if you like.
And then you can type in a horizontal box that is located at the bottom of the screen.
 

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Yes, Willy that's what I'm saying. While I love camming and showing off some, it is not the only thing I do during my day. I'm speaking more about some of the rude comments I've gotten when I'm not up for camming. For example, I'm not super horny when talking long distance to my mother and I will definitely not stop that call to cam with someone. This happened the other day when a guy repeatedly video called me during my conversation with my mother. The reaction from the guy when he finally asked if I wanted to c2c and I said I couldn't right then was less than favorable, and if he would have only waited a while or tried again another time I would have been ready to show off.

So yes, I'm not just my cock, but I'm on a cock site showing off your cock via both pictures and web-caming.

So you're not your cock, but you're angry because someone that you don't know couldn't wait until you got of the phone with your mother before you could show off your cock via web-caming? Had he waited, you would have been more than happy to show off your cock to some guy that you don't know, but you're not your cock?
 

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I don't think I'm communicating my thoughts very effectively. I love this site. It's awesome that here you can participate in forums, chat it up, make new friends, or find horny hook ups. I think one of the great things about it is that you can easily find guys with similar horny interests that are into camming as well. I think camming with them is awesome. Recently I have been slightly put off, however. Mainly because guys have been rude about me not camming when they are in the mood. I'd love to cam with them when our schedules align. But that doesn't mean that camming is the only thing I do during the day and will stop my life to do it. If our schedules line up, great! But if not, I'm tired of getting rude comments from pissed off horny guys. I know what it's like to want some action then and there, but I also know there's a slew of other guys from this site ready to cam and a plethora of porn to fancy all their needs. So the sarcasm, bitterness and crudeness really isn't necessary or appreciated, nor will it change the fact that I'm not getting naked.
 

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Here is what I meant:

Ostensibly you post is expressing how "perturbed" and alienated you feel
about the apparently blunt and narrow interest in your cock and
presumably the rest of your physical assets.

However you suggest, with some insistence, in the same post,
how you are actually into those very sorts of things yourself.
You concede that you consider the blunt questions asked legitimate.
Then you go on to inform the reader about what you have to offer
and even hint at what you might be interested in.

I believe your post would be much more efficient, the message much stronger,
had you not included elements suggesting you are a young fit
college student who is curious about sex with men.
Those things could have been the subject of a different post altogether.

The inclusion of those two opposed messages in the same post
is what makes it ambivalent and generates a mixed message.

If this is the kind of language you maintain throughout the web,
no matter how honest it really is, you may confuse some about your
true intentions and they may assume they can just
zero in on what they want.

Of course, all that is only my humble opinion.
I may have misunderstood your intent with that post.
You can do with that as you wish, if you think its rubbish I understand.

Hope that helps :redface:

Dear lpsg-ers,

Sorry in advance for what I hope is not too cynical or inappropriate for a forum devoted to penises.

Recently I have become perturbed by the amount of c2c solicits I have been requested to partake in. I know what you're thinking, "sounds like a pretty awesome problem," and it was for a while. Maybe I've changed or matured or been scarred to many times but it has recently become an issue for me.

No, not the camming itself. But the fact that the first thing typed on skype or yahoo is, "asl?" or "are you hung?" Yes I suppose those are relevant questions to the issue at hand (hehe) but it is extremely rare to get a "hey how're you?" Which brings me to my second point and main issue.

Yeah, I might be signed on, but that does not mean that I am waiting around to show someone my cock. Occasionally I actually am doing work or chatting with a friend and am not boned and ready for someone, waiting for what has turned out to be mostly disappointing cocks, bodies, and people.

I am 21 years old, a slightly fit college student (with actual pics of me and my cock posted here), and I have yet to have sex with a guy. I've been with a girl and liked it but would like to try out my gay side as well. This is honest. When someone tells me their asl and sexual preference, and then acts or appears obviously different (older, fatter, more gay/straight than he claimed, or smaller cock sized), I will lose interest rapidly. It doesn't bother me if someone tells me originally that they're a slightly overweight 30 or 40 something year old. I know not everyone is in their 20s. But please don't lie to me because I've got news for you. I have eyes that are watching your cam and I can tell the difference between a "slightly fit 27 year old" and a "slightly fat 40 year old." And the let down and lies are more of a turn off than the idea of jerking with an older guy. Promise.

Also, if I don't immediately jump to c2c with someone, it doesn't mean I'm not interested in the idea. I actually probably am. So please don't flip out or be rude. I've had guys continuously call on skype-even before saying "hey" or "c2c?". Guys who once I turned the cam on claimed they were "bored" and left. Guys who have just been plain rude about it. Sorry me and my penis aren't on your jack off schedule. I happen to have a life of my own outside of masturbation.

And I do like to chat with some of you. Some of you who have become good friends. If you'd like to be a friend, the more the merrier. But I might not like you so much after you switch over from being a friend to only ever talking about my cock and jerking off with me. Occasionally, sure. Nonstop, just look at porn and stop bothering me please. I'm not your guy.


Thanks for listening to my rant. I doubt this will actually change anything. But hopefully people, when camming from here at least, will at least keep in mind that we are actual people on the other end too. While sex and getting off can be a priority, I'm a guy too, not just a penis waiting to cum for you.


-Collegeguy1223
 

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I've found one-on-one interactions on the internet to be quite unpredictable, whether playing scrabble, talking on gay.com or LPSG, or camming. Many people who hide behind a computer generally don't care about others' feelings and say what they want because they can cut you off at any time. These types exist on all sites, no matter how intelligent or mature those sites may seem. If they don't get immediate gratification, they think that throwing a fit or insulting you will be justifiable, or will possibly change your mind. The internet seems to bring out the bad little boy/girl in quite a few. If you're showing a nice pic, you will attract these types, so be prepared for the bad manners. Now, how about some c2c?
 
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Simply put....there are different types of sites available. Some are more the "chat room" variety and some are the "adult" (sex) variety.....and while you can chat on an adult site, the intent and direction of the site is quite obvious to those who partake, and it's the motivation to be on these sites. Lust is the desire....and love can come...maybe later?

Chat sites are more the friendship type, and while they could develop into a physical encounter at some point in the process, it would normally shock the participants if someone jumped right into sexual talk and candid photos of a cock etc. as is done on the "adult" sites whose obvious existence is to "cut to the chase" so to speak.

What you do to interact with a participant on this type of site is your call, but I wouldn't be too jacked up if you met them on this site and the encounter/conversation gravitated to a "physical" camming opportunity from the contact....and likewise I'd expect that if you cammed from a chat site....it'll mostly stay aboveboard both in discussion and content as well as visual displays.

So either accept the majority of members on these adult sites that I believe logically assume that the reason you're on this site, especially after displaying photos of your cock, balls and ass, just might think you're here for the "flesh" like they are. If you want to be "vanilla' join one of those sites and you'll find happiness.......but if you stay on this site, and just want to chat, make that known in your profile and "upfront" and if someone asks you to join them in the "visual" sexual exposure world of adult sites....but don't be surprised if your fan club suddenly shrinks and you get a lot more "cut connections" before you actually get to meet them in your cam encounter.
 
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First off, you're totally kidding yourself if you think you're more than "just a cock" to most of the people who're messaging you. And it seems you're okay with that most of the time, so you shouldn't let it bother you the rest. Take it for what it is, and it definitely ain't personal.

Secondly, just make a separate email/skype account for this type of stuff. When you're horny, log into your alter-e-count and have at it. You shouldn't be giving out your personal email so freely anyway.