I'm not straight but...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by F_Man, Dec 17, 2006.

  1. F_Man

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    I like men for sex, I enjoy women in general. And I like the idea of having a threesome with a masculine guy-friend and his, or other, interested feminine woman. The idea of enjoying sex together with a close male friend, and a woman, is a real turn-on, male bonding shared with a woman... Taking turns being less or more active, and being part voyer, part subject just makes me horny as hell :smile:

    My fucking experiences with girls all took place in my teens or early 20's. As a mature man, I realize an aspect of bi-curiousness as part of my interest in being male, and part of the interest in being in the company of men.

    Any thoughts, experiences?

    FM
     
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    I was wondering how long it would be before this topic was posted. :tongue:
     
  3. fortiesfun

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    Am I the only person who can't for the life of me figure out what FinnMan's avatar is?
     
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    pair of legs, shadowy crotch, sitting on the edge of the bed. White dustruffle.

    That's what it looks like to me.
     
  5. musclebare9

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    Look at his pictures in his gallery. The avatar is a portion of one of the photos. Bad choice?

    FinnMan,
    Sex for me is a private thing between me and my woman. We know each other and trust each other. It is part of our special relationship, nobody else is invited.
     
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    How audacious of you to assume that he would want to have a threesome with you and yours.
     
  7. musclebare9

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    ?????? Not sure where you came off with that. The original post discussed opening a sexual experience to include others. It ended with, "Any thoughts or experiences?". I merely expressed my thoughts that sex was a personal thing for me. I didn't specifically say he wasn't invited, I said nobody was invited. Lighten up.
     
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    Are you sure? In your avatar it looks like a threeway.
     
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    I don't know...I did this in college with my friend and his girlfriend, and thet bothe ended up freaked out by the next day. I had a good time, but I'ts really not worth losing friends over.
    As an adult I've had many 3 to 4 ways with men; and as long as you set boundrys and go into it for what it is(hot sweaty sex) then give it a try and let us all know how it truns out:cool:
     
  10. F_Man

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    Thanks for your continuous curiosity about my avatar:) Light and shadow create a space, right between my legs :smile: Not everything has to be instantly obvious to all:)

    FM
     
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    I've wondered if people who are %100 gay find sex/intimacy with a women do be a repulsive thing, as do many straight men think being with a man would be. or is it different?
     
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    I've been baited into threesomes (or more), but still remain a virgin.

    Though I wouldn't do it with prim and proper friends (assuming they stay that way), I must say it seems an intriguing concept.
     
  13. F_Man

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    Men who are 100% gay are just about as rare as men who are 100% hetero. Being gay does not necessarily mean finding women repulsive. I think that "male bonding" on a certain level can be "the glue" to fix an interiesting woman and two horny men happily together, if for at least an interesting experience:)

    Cheers,

    FM
     
  14. Mr. Snakey

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    Yes or Im not gay but i woke up with a dick in my mouth...............:tongue:
     
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    I think sex of all stripes is great -- with a man; with a woman; or with both.
     
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    Gay guys should have sex with girls more often... because its fun... personal experiance, don't take offence :p
     
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