I'm possibly the horniest woman on earth: help!

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

being a man would make it worse petite, because we have to make an effort to have sex while you guys just have to accept offers

 

[petite]

being a man would make it worse petite, because we have to make an effort to have sex while you guys just have to accept offers

True, I hadn't considered that. A woman just has to stop playing defense for a moment and whoops, she's got a cock in her.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I don't want to make light of people who suffer, and this is why I want access to that forum so badly, but I am of the philosophy that too much of a good thing is great!

It's all too tempting to make light of it, considering the way we think. I had to try pretty hard to think of some downsides :redface:.

Ok, that makes sense when put into the context of something that taken to excess can be unenjoyable.

Sometimes when my back or my knees bother me from the workout (especially if it's at high altitude and I've smoked pot), it's difficult to stay erect. That's when my body fails me. I'm plenty horny in my head, but when I'm sore and MrsR is sore, taking a 30 minute break can be really frustrating after 3 hours of sex.

Ahh . . . that's what's called blowjob time :tongue:

Yeah, we're called Passionate.

Or appreciative :biggrin1:

Women have a nearly unlimited capacity for orgasms and orgasm doesn't necessarily kill or deaden the desire for sex in women (depending on who you are). I can orgasm a dozen times and an hour after my last orgasm, I want to do it all again. I can masturbate for 12 hours straight and orgasm over and over again until I'm totally raw.

I'm a little different to you. I can orgasm a dozen times in the first 5 or 10 minutes, and never actually have a time when I'm totally satisfied. However, that's only with a partner.

With a toy I only get to cum once, maybe twice if I'm lucky (I have no idea why, it's just the way my body works). I try to make it take as long as possible so I at least have time to enjoy it, but I'm lucky if I can delay my orgasm by 5 minutes. If I keep going post-orgasm it's just frustrating.

im going to refrain from making any jokes because i suffer from addictions too and while i can laugh at them, i also know that they can wreck tremendous amounts of havoc on a life. im going to go out on a limb and say that it is better to be addicted to sex than say heroin, but if it is interferring with your work and your day to day life, your relationships, etc, you might want to seek professional help. there is no shame in this. you are not alone: Sexual Addiction Causes, Symptoms, Diagnosis and Treatment on MedicineNet.com

if you need to, maybe you can go to a sex addiction anonymous meeting. if they cant helo you at least you can meet a man your speed. ok, so that was kind of a joke.

Luckily I've never gotten quite bad enough to qualify for this. Although I think my psychologist was worried at one point (she should have seen me in my early twenties :biggrin1.

True, I hadn't considered that. A woman just has to stop playing defense for a moment and whoops, she's got a cock in her.

I think that's true for some women, in some circumstances, but not for all women. At this point in my life I don't find it that easy and I think there are other women on here who are in a similar position (if for different reasons).

 

[latinluva]

This is me. Except I think that I am a pervert. :biggrin1:

I've never successfully abstained from sex for any length of time. My longest period of time without sex since I turned 18 was 3 months and I'm quite a bit older than you. You may be cursed for life!

Of course, I was actually more horny when I was your age (I think). I seem to remember being a lot hornier. (Or maybe I just made worse decisions? How much does being horny affect one's ability to think clearly in the moment and make us act foolishly?)

Taking oral birth control (hormonal birth control) toned down my libido a lot. It didn't kill it, but I definitely thought about sex less often and I desired it a lot less, too. I've called it "chemical castration" before because the effects were so dramatic in me. If I were ever truly serious about abstaining from sex for a time period, I might consider returning to hormonal birth control to make it easier.




I don't understand why being a man would make it worse.

Women have a nearly unlimited capacity for orgasms and orgasm doesn't necessarily kill or deaden the desire for sex in women (depending on who you are). I can orgasm a dozen times and an hour after my last orgasm, I want to do it all again. I can masturbate for 12 hours straight and orgasm over and over again until I'm totally raw.

Petite- You made my point for me. You see women can cum anytime and as many times as she wants. Just imagine being in class or at work, and your clit starts (because it's full of cum *hypothtically*) throbbing when you don't want it to. Mainly because you're busy and you need to focus. But no, it is telling you to have an orgasm now. And you start thinking about it, and you keep saying,"Not now!" But it wont stop, and you know it won't stop til you get it all out (in a mans case all meaning the cum). So you head to the bathroom and squeeze one out. Now you know you're good for another three hours or so, before the sperm builds up again. It's crazy and annoying, but that's what being a guy is all about.

 

[petite]

I'm a little different to you. I can orgasm a dozen times in the first 5 or 10 minutes, and never actually have a time when I'm totally satisfied. However, that's only with a partner.

With a toy I only get to cum once, maybe twice if I'm lucky (I have no idea why, it's just the way my body works). I try to make it take as long as possible so I at least have time to enjoy it, but I'm lucky if I can delay my orgasm by 5 minutes. If I keep going post-orgasm it's just frustrating.

Oh, I can and have cum over and over again for hours on end with a toy and with a penis as long as I have a few minutes after each orgasm. I'm different from you, too because I don't think I could orgasm a dozen times in 5-10 minutes, but as long as I have recovery time after each orgasm, I can keep having them until I'm too sore to be touched (which took about 13 hours the last time that limit was tested!)

I the prefer penis of a hot man who knows how to use it, but toys bring me to many pleasurable orgasms, too. I don't feel totally satisfied when I masturbate either, but I don't think that's because of the quality of the orgasm, which can be absolutely incredible, but because I want TheBF's with me, I want him there and he's not, so playing with myself while I imagine or watch porn doesn't hit all my pleasure spots. I don't just lust after his cock and the nice things he does to my pussy, I want his mouth, his smell, his sweat, his weight on top of me, his hands on my ass... Mmmmmmm....

I think that's true for some women, in some circumstances, but not for all women. At this point in my life I don't find it that easy and I think there are other women on here who are in a similar position (if for different reasons).

Yikes! I'd think that there would be tons of guys from CollarMe or FetLife who would be dying to explore your fetishes with you.

Petite- You made my point for me. You see women can cum anytime and as many times as she wants. Just imagine being in class or at work, and your clit starts (because it's full of cum *hypothtically*) throbbing when you don't want it to. Mainly because you're busy and you need to focus. But no, it is telling you to have an orgasm now. And you start thinking about it, and you keep saying,"Not now!" But it wont stop, and you know it won't stop til you get it all out (in a mans case all meaning the cum). So you head to the bathroom and squeeze one out. Now you know you're good for another three hours or so, before the sperm builds up again. It's crazy and annoying, but that's what being a guy is all about.

See, you just made MY point about why it would be harder for a woman. You're good for 3 hours or so. That's three whole hours! Sometimes a woman is "good" for maybe 5-10 minutes before she's ready to go again. Imagine if your balls filled up almost immediately after you came, and then you could cum again even faster than last time, maybe even harder, but your balls filled up again in just a few minutes a while you were recovering from your last orgasm. And that goes on, over and over again. You'd never end up leaving the bathroom! This has happened to me (except I wasn't in the bathroom).

 

[HazelGod]

A woman just has to stop playing defense for a moment and whoops, she's got a cock in her.

That's the funniest line I've read in a long time. :tongue:

 

[B_subgirrl]

Oh, I can and have cum over and over again for hours on end with a toy and with a penis as long as I have a few minutes after each orgasm. I'm different from you, too because I don't think I could orgasm a dozen times in 5-10 minutes, but as long as I have recovery time after each orgasm, I can keep having them until I'm too sore to be touched (which took about 13 hours the last time that limit was tested!)

13 hours is quite impressive!

I the prefer penis of a hot man who knows how to use it, but toys bring me to many pleasurable orgasms, too. I don't feel totally satisfied when I masturbate either, but I don't think that's because of the quality of the orgasm, which can be absolutely incredible, but because I want TheBF's with me, I want him there and he's not, so playing with myself while I imagine or watch porn doesn't hit all my pleasure spots. I don't just lust after his cock and the nice things he does to my pussy, I want his mouth, his smell, his sweat, his weight on top of me, his hands on my ass... Mmmmmmm....

Funny isn't it. You'd think the toys would be sufficient, but with humans it's 1000 times better. I find that with a toy it's like I'm just getting rid of something that needs to be done. With a person it's real.

Yikes! I'd think that there would be tons of guys from CollarMe or FetLife who would be dying to explore your fetishes with you.

Gosh, I'd be too scared to try :redface:. I have gone to CollarMe and browsed, but I'm way too nervous to do anything more than that. I just keep hoping a new FB will knock on my doorstep out of the blue. Unlikely as that is . . .

 

[RawDog]

It's all too tempting to make light of it, considering the way we think. I had to try pretty hard to think of some downsides :redface:.

After thinking about this, I do believe it's about reframing the reality around the problem... if the problem is a positive kind. Drugs, gambling, alcohol etc. I'd consider non-productive addictions. Sex (PGAD included), working out, workaholism (is that a word?), are a few examples in my mind of addictions/obsessions that can be negative or positive depending on the reality surrounding it.

Ahh . . . that's what's called blowjob time :tongue:

Good idea, no, great idea, but usually we're too pooped for even pacifier sex.

Or appreciative :biggrin1:

I likes that one.

 

[D_Delbert Dingleberry]

As much as I enjoy being a very horny girl, sometimes it gets extremely frustrating because I am never NOT horny!:frown1:

It gets in the way of things, like if I've got so much work to do I get stressed out and my horniness persists.

Instead of counting the times I'm horny in a day, it would actually be a whole lot easier to count the times when I'm not horny (if ever).

I spent last year staying away from sex. Yes, believe it or not I successfully remained sexless all year last year.

I thought it would help my 'problem' but now that I've started having sex again, I'm finding myself more and more addicted to it.

I'm not a narrow minded individual nor am I a pervert. I can hang out with guys and not think of jumping on them. But my clitoris always feels like it's swollen and ready to burst. That tingly feeling almost never leaves me.

I'm convinced I'm either as horny as guys or even hornier. Ok, I'm actually convinced that I'm hornier.

Is there something wrong with me? Or better yet, is there a way to control this? Also is there a chance someone else is going through pretty much the same thing?:frown1:

I find this almost unbelievable. Assuming the symptoms are as you described:

1. You are no where close to being as horny as me. But I respect your sense of the magnificent. I'll claim you as a resident on the mountaintop of horniness, but "look ye upward" to see me.

2. If your problem statement is that it gets in the way of getting things done I'd say not only are you normal, you're probably one of the least horny people. I can tell you about important work blithely interupted and hijacked by a HARD cock. Of mine. I didn't need LPSG. I needed HPSG. So hard. As a male, it was more difficult to do something about it. But I coped. And still do. Whether it's hormones or otherwise, high libido costs the United States and other economies billions of dollars in lost productivity.

Thank God.

3. You said nothing about your diet; what supplements or drugs you take; your exercise habits; and your general health. I'm not sure it's appropriate for you to do so, but these need to be well managed, horniness symptoms or not. If it is TRULY a case of being horny, the feeling should be a good one -- not discomforting or painful. If you are feeling discomfort please have yourself checked out. Your energy level sounds like it is also very high. To me, horniness is not just a physical manifestation, it's also having the thoughts of wanting to fuck someone. As a respectful forum member I hope that you are examining these areas honestly.

4. If you're healthy, consider yourself a lucky woman. Fuck. Masturbate. ENJOY. Instead of looking at it as a problem, tune into some folks complaining about low sex drive who are pill-popping and needling themselves to experience what you have.

I'm sure everything I've said is obvious. Here's another one. Don't let your pussy get you into a fucked up relationship.

 

[B_subgirrl]

After thinking about this, I do believe it's about reframing the reality around the problem... if the problem is a positive kind. Drugs, gambling, alcohol etc. I'd consider non-productive addictions. Sex (PGAD included), working out, workaholism (is that a word?), are a few examples in my mind of addictions/obsessions that can be negative or positive depending on the reality surrounding it.

I totally agree that some addictive behaviours can be positive depending on the context. Take sex for example. For someone who is 'addicted' to sex (for lack of another word - not necessarily talking about a 'sex addiction' here) it could be a positive or a negative thing. Given the right partner it could be amazing for both of them. Given the wrong partner, or no partner at all, things could spiral downwards pretty quickly.

Good idea, no, great idea, but usually we're too pooped for even pacifier sex.

Pacifier sex - I like it! That's exactly what it is for me - to start off with anyway. I just want to lie down and snuggle with them, but I can't help putting it in my mouth. Only total exhaustion stops it from turning into blowjob sex at that point :redface:.

I likes that one.

Thought you might :tongue:

 

[RawDog]

I totally agree that some addictive behaviours can be positive depending on the context. Take sex for example. For someone who is 'addicted' to sex (for lack of another word - not necessarily talking about a 'sex addiction' here) it could be a positive or a negative thing. Given the right partner it could be amazing for both of them. Given the wrong partner, or no partner at all, things could spiral downwards pretty quickly.

Bingo! Our thoughts and ideas seem to fit together nicely.

Pacifier sex - I like it! That's exactly what it is for me - to start off with anyway. I just want to lie down and snuggle with them, but I can't help putting it in my mouth. Only total exhaustion stops it from turning into blowjob sex at that point :redface:.

MrsR couldn't sleep one night when we were out of town and she just asked me if she could suck my dick. No sex, just suck my dick. She curled up next to my groin and in a fetal position just started sucking. About 5 mintes pass and she smiles at me, says thanks and rolls over and falls fast asleep. That's when "pacifier sex" was born.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Bingo! Our thoughts and ideas seem to fit together nicely.

As usual :smile:

MrsR couldn't sleep one night when we were out of town and she just asked me if she could suck my dick. No sex, just suck my dick. She curled up next to my groin and in a fetal position just started sucking. About 5 mintes pass and she smiles at me, says thanks and rolls over and falls fast asleep. That's when "pacifier sex" was born.

Loving it! That's exactly the sort of thing I was talking about! I would be perfectly happy at that point to just suck their dick (all curled up in a fetal position) and go to sleep. Except they get hard . . . and I don't mind that either. Glad to see another woman out there shares my enjoyment of pacifier sex :tongue:

 

[RawDog]

Loving it! That's exactly the sort of thing I was talking about! I would be perfectly happy at that point to just suck their dick (all curled up in a fetal position) and go to sleep. Except they get hard . . . and I don't mind that either. Glad to see another woman out there shares my enjoyment of pacifier sex :tongue:

She says it's from years of being in a lesbian relationship. Ste's more in tune with oral sex and how being on the giving end is just as fulfilling as being on the receiving end.

 

[Chaotica]

Good idea, no, great idea, but usually we're too pooped for even pacifier sex.

OMG! Ha, I had to scroll down and see the other comments before I finally "got" what it meant.

I'm right there with you on this! I have a problem with persistant state of arousal too (though mine is only on one side which the Dr. is perplexed by).

Wow, that is interesting that you can actually SEE it and that it's only on one side?

It actually is distracting to a point of being maddening and gets in the way of accomplishing what I need to be doing because I can't get my mind off of it.

I have this problem, too, and was thinking of joining a Sex Addicts Anonymous group. Has anyone tried a group like that and do you think it would help?

 

[RawDog]

OMG! Ha, I had to scroll down and see the other comments before I finally "got" what it meant.

Glad you liked it. I thought it was self explanatory. Maybe we should think up a new term?

I have this problem, too, and was thinking of joining a Sex Addicts Anonymous group. Has anyone tried a group like that and do you think it would help?

Luckily my town didn't have one when my first wife insisted I go to one for this same problem. Turns out her being a frigid bitch was the problem to begin with.

If I had "fixed" my problem, I wouldn't be having the marathon fuckapalooza weekend fuckfests I'm having with my current (and hopefully last) wife.

Seriously though, if it is interfering with your day to day life, I do recommend going to some kind of 12 step group to cope with the situation. Sometimes knowing your not an isolated case is a start on the road to recovery.

 

[D_Reuben Stallpisser]

MrsR couldn't sleep one night when we were out of town and she just asked me if she could suck my dick. No sex, just suck my dick. She curled up next to my groin and in a fetal position just started sucking. About 5 mintes pass and she smiles at me, says thanks and rolls over and falls fast asleep. That's when "pacifier sex" was born.

YIKES! Sounds like a setup for blue balls, to me. If she's not going to finish, I don't want her to start.

 

[B_subgirrl]

She says it's from years of being in a lesbian relationship. Ste's more in tune with oral sex and how being on the giving end is just as fulfilling as being on the receiving end.

For me it's MORE fulfilling :tongue:. It's not just the sensations that I love. I love being able to please them so much. I want to say I love doing something that's just for them, but I get as much pleasure out of it as they do (there goes that answer).

OMG! Ha, I had to scroll down and see the other comments before I finally "got" what it meant.

It made sense to me straight away. Does that make me too orally focused? :tongue:

I have this problem, too, and was thinking of joining a Sex Addicts Anonymous group. Has anyone tried a group like that and do you think it would help?

Do you actually WANT to change anything? If you do, then I expect it can help.

Glad you liked it. I thought it was self explanatory. Maybe we should think up a new term?

Don't change it! Pacifier sex is a brilliant term. It describes it perfectly.

Luckily my town didn't have one when my first wife insisted I go to one for this same problem. Turns out her being a frigid bitch was the problem to begin with.

Ouch! They're the strongest words I've ever heard you use! (I agree though, from what I've heard of her).

If I had "fixed" my problem, I wouldn't be having the marathon fuckapalooza weekend fuckfests I'm having with my current (and hopefully last) wife.

Exactly. If people are doing risky stuff because of it (eg. unsafe sex) or it's seriously interfering with their life in some way, it's probably a problem. If not, they just haven't found the right partner yet. One person's problem, is another person's fantasy.

 

[RawDog]

For me it's MORE fulfilling :tongue:. It's not just the sensations that I love. I love being able to please them so much. I want to say I love doing something that's just for them, but I get as much pleasure out of it as they do (there goes that answer).

You are the dream girlfriend. How common is this? I thought my wife was the only one (although it is *as* fulfilling, not more).

Don't change it! Pacifier sex is a brilliant term. It describes it perfectly.

Yes'm. No change then.

Ouch! They're the strongest words I've ever heard you use! (I agree though, from what I've heard of her).

I pissed away quite a few years trying to "fix" her only to find out it's not my job. Yeah, I'm a bit bitter. I still feel like I have the words "ADDICT" tattooed on my forehead sometimes.

Exactly. If people are doing risky stuff because of it (eg. unsafe sex) or it's seriously interfering with their life in some way, it's probably a problem. If not, they just haven't found the right partner yet. One person's problem, is another person's fantasy.

Amen, sistah.

 

[B_subgirrl]

You are the dream girlfriend.

Thank you. I'm very flattered :smile::redface:.

How common is this? I thought my wife was the only one (although it is *as* fulfilling, not more).

Several of my partners (basically, all those with experience) have told me I'm the only one they've come across who gets as much out of it as they do. So either they're lying, or it isn't terribly common. It does seem to be a bit more common amongst the women on here. Think yourself lucky you have MrsR :smile:.

I pissed away quite a few years trying to "fix" her only to find out it's not my job. Yeah, I'm a bit bitter.

I spent years thinking it was my fault my ex didn't want sex and feeling bad every time he rejected me. I think people should come with a sign around their neck saying how high their sex drive is.

I still feel like I have the words "ADDICT" tattooed on my forehead sometimes.

You and me both!

 

[Empathizer]

RawDog:

There are a lot more women out there than you know who do things for the pleasure of others that way. Remember that the return on the investment may come from someone other than the actual man with whom the woman has invested.

Talk is a form of foreplay and a form of debt collection for us verbose women.