I'm proud I'm handsome

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Doesn't that sound odd? Why would I be proud of something I was born with and really had no control over? I can see being proud of my physique or my educational level because I had to put in some effort. But it seems odd to say you are proud of how big your dick is. Just as no one should be ashamed of their dick. But I hear that phrase here quite often. Well endowed, gifted in the pants, won the dick size lottery all seem to make more sense than pride. Thoughts as to why people use the word proud relating to being big?
 

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Doesn't make any sense to me, maybe they feel inadequate in other ways and that's how they try and make up for it?

But then again, pride isn't exactly a virtue...
 

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I don't think you read that properly auzpos.

He's using irony to make a point ...

Yes, pride in penis size is slightly odd, as would be pride in eye colour or height. Or blood type.

I'm going to start a website for people with type O Rhesus positive blood. See if people feel pride in that. Or pity for the type As ... :wink:
 

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Doesn't that sound odd? Why would I be proud of something I was born with and really had no control over? I can see being proud of my physique or my educational level because I had to put in some effort. But it seems odd to say you are proud of how big your dick is. Just as no one should be ashamed of their dick. But I hear that phrase here quite often. Well endowed, gifted in the pants, won the dick size lottery all seem to make more sense than pride. Thoughts as to why people use the word proud relating to being big?

It's assuming ownership deserved or not.
 

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I just find it odd that the allegedly handsome OP doesn't have a single photo in his profile.

It was just a provocative title displaying the irony of being proud of anything that one may have simply inherited. I wasn't literally stating that I personally was handsome! :) That being said, I think I was well endowed with a nice set of eyes and smile. Will send you a photo if you like...like to maintain some anonymity here. Thanks!
 

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I don't think you read that properly auzpos.

He's using irony to make a point ...

Yes, pride in penis size is slightly odd, as would be pride in eye colour or height. Or blood type.

I'm going to start a website for people with type O Rhesus positive blood. See if people feel pride in that. Or pity for the type As ... :wink:

Thanks for clarifying and providing some context and reading comprehension support! I think they just didn't read the whole post! LOL
 

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I agree with Exbiker - the irony in the OP's initial post went completely over the previous poster's head.

I thought the premise was obvious, but then again I am pretty smart. :wink:

You're correct, a guy with a giant dick doesn't necessarily have anything to be "proud" about. But then again when is the last time you heard a woman say how proud she was of having big (natural) tits? I have natural DD's but have never in my life ever felt any sense of pride. Ever.

I think men are naturally more inclined towards chest thumping and posturing.
 

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I personally think
'happy' is more what people mean when they sya they are 'proud' of what you had no hand in accomplishing
I happy I'm tall and reasonable looking
I''m really happy I am hung and well bodied
I am proud of the shape I am in and my achievements
 

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I personally think
'happy' is more what people mean when they sya they are 'proud' of what you had no hand in accomplishing
I happy I'm tall and reasonable looking
I''m really happy I am hung and well bodied
I am proud of the shape I am in and my achievements

Exactly.

"I'm proud of my big dick"---"Why? You never had to work for it"

"I'm proud of my small dick"--- "Good for you. That's great."
 

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… I'm proud of how I look! I got my genetics from my parents, who are from different sides of the globe. I'm proud of that! It's a genetic coat of arms that I'm proud of.Being proud of being the medias portrayal if beautiful is a different story.

I'm also proud that I have a more than average equipment. But I don't look down on guys for being smaller, like I don't discriminate people for not not being "beautiful". Though I do look down on people who don't take pride in themselves and their appearance.

It might just be that I was raised in SoCal that appearance is something that I'm proud of, but we've dawned on the fucking age if 'selfies'. Who isn't proud of how they look? They took narcissistic personality out of the DSM V, because we are all fucking egocentric. That's human nature though.

It's ok to be proud of something given to you. I'm proud to be an American from California. I'm proud that I got to go to pretty good schools. I'm proud if my family. Proud of being mixed race, being brown, having slanted eyes. Sorry but I'm proud of things that were given to me.
 
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I thought the premise was obvious, but then again I am pretty smart. :wink:

You're correct, a guy with a giant dick doesn't necessarily have anything to be "proud" about. But then again when is the last time you heard a woman say how proud she was of having big (natural) tits? I have natural DD's but have never in my life ever felt any sense of pride. Ever.

I think men are naturally more inclined towards chest thumping and posturing.

Ohhhhhh i've heard a few women not only proclaim how awesome and sexy their boobs and/or butt were but also how their milkshake tentatively leads all the boys to the yard. Thats right. :biggrin1: (yeah i know, that last joke doesn't really apply) In all seriousness though, it isn't just us dudes.

I never understood it either, but i guess its the mistaken assumption that a big penis will automatically equate to great sex, some sort of male dominion over those less endowed/not endowed at all (womanz folk) or that its a symbol of something that most strive to be.

Then again, pancake.:wink:
 

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I thought the premise was obvious, but then again I am pretty smart. :wink:

You're correct, a guy with a giant dick doesn't necessarily have anything to be "proud" about. But then again when is the last time you heard a woman say how proud she was of having big (natural) tits? I have natural DD's but have never in my life ever felt any sense of pride. Ever.

I think men are naturally more inclined towards chest thumping and posturing.

I thought we agreed never to compare breasts and penises (penii).
 

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Ohhhhhh i've heard a few women not only proclaim how awesome and sexy their boobs and/or butt were but also how their milkshake tentatively leads all the boys to the yard. Thats right. :biggrin1: (yeah i know, that last joke doesn't really apply) In all seriousness though, it isn't just us dudes.

I never understood it either, but i guess its the mistaken assumption that a big penis will automatically equate to great sex, some sort of male dominion over those less endowed/not endowed at all (womanz folk) or that its a symbol of something that most strive to be.

Then again, pancake.:wink:

OK you got me there :wink: