Does your BF know how you feel? Does he make an issue of being taller than you or of your having a bigger dick? I DO think, after reading more of this thread and your additional posts in response to others, that you may be fixating more on this than necessary or than is healthy. Is there something else that you are feeling insecure about--either in your relationship or in some other area of your life--that is the real problem here? At the risk of being too touchy feely, let me suggest that you talk with someone about your struggle with feelings of inadequacy or insecurity. You seem to be in a relationship that is basically positive, yet you get sad over the fact that your partner's legs are longer than yours. This incident at the movies was enough to make you upset for the entire evening and is an example you use here to illustrate your point. I think you are rightly concerned that you view penis size as too big a sense of self. (And yes, the irony of that statement is intentional.) At the very least try talking to your BF about how you are feeling, or maybe try a counselor at your college. You sound like you are feeling vulnerable in some areas, and just reminding yourself that you are well hung only goes so far. I think you should explore what those other areas of self doubt may be.
Honestly, your physical height is not a barrier in relationships or sex, and you know that. I remember being with a guy once who was 6'5" while I am only 5'7" at most. It was a bit intimidating standing in the shower with him, but it was sexy, too. I was the more "assertive" one, and I will admit that the physical difference in height was actually a turn on for both of us, although we did have some limited options on positions. But my height or his, my cock size or his, did not determine the interaction.
I suggest discussing your feelings with either your BF or someone who can give you some insight as to how to address them more healthily overall. Just my two cents. I wish you well.
well i think maybe ive made this sound like all too dire of a problem. Im usually perfectly happy, but being short theres this little voice in my head that just reminds me of being short in any possible moment. I went through a lot of intolerance at my school and was frequently reminded to being short; mainly by the REALLY tall guys. it just comes in waves, sometimes im just really brought down by it, and then there are periods of months where it might not cross my mind.
right now just happens to be a period of time that i cant get it out of my head, the more you dont want to think about something the more you do.
I can relate to you wanting to be dominate in the relationship but if he's submissive and bends over for you who cares if he's taller. I've fucked guys taller then me, never even crossed my mind. lol
its not even the dominate thing, i want to be viewed as 'manly', instead im treated 'cute'. and its not really his fault in the relationship, its mine for thinking about it too much. but i still do feel really bad when he does the step-back-bend-down hug thing; hes not trying to send a message but he CAN hug me without doing that so obviously...
Just being older, and my position in the relationship i feel almost like a big brother in terms of protection. hes fairly shy, and ill get in someones face if anyones talking to him in a way hes uncomfortable with.
i just dont feel right at this height
To the OP: people like you make me sick. I'm seriously gonna go throw up. You know how many small or average dicked guys would kill to have your cock? Who gives a fuck about your height? Gay guys LOVE short guys. I think they almost prefer them! Especially with a big cock. So I have absolutely no sympathy for you. Enjoy what you have since us small guys don't get to. Otherwise your big dick is just a waste. And a big dick is a TERRIBLE thing to waste.
well thanks. We are all dealt a hand of cards, and im just trying to make sense of mine. i realize that there are many people living in worse situations than me; but after years of questioning the fairness of being born in america VS. a third world country, ive concluded that everyone just does the best they can with what they have. And despite feeling bad for certain peoples situations, all i can do is the best i can with what i have-There are hero's in the world but i need to focus on my own problems. im not trying to offend anyone with my request for advice, i am simply a human, with human organs, trying to decipher what my human emotions are telling me. just the same in how i dont blame anyone for being taller then me, but its inappropriate for them to hold it against me- i dont walk around putting down others for their penis size.
I am an appreciator of all things human, and lover of all things cock. i would never be as shallow to judge anyone else by their physical features, but the voice in the back of my head is really harsh on myself.
i am sorry if what i said came as inappropriate to you, keep in mind that im trying to apply blunt English to my subconscious thoughts. i not really THIS shallow, but when i try to explain my feelings in detail they seem to be. Im truly a very caring a loving guy, im just having a patch of insecurity. i thought i would speak up finally to the community and see if discussing this would make my thoughts any clearer. I thank you for your criticism though, i am not looking for a thread of people giving me sympathy. over all, i am searching for inspiration to change, i am not happy in my current state of mind. and through suggestions and criticism im collecting more points of view to analyze the true depth of my problems.
i realize that if a tall man is happy from his height, then a short man can be as equally proud of his body- i just want to become that theoretical sort man.
