Im short- BUT I have a big dick; Healthy mindset?

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I'm 5'4 too, just and i'm just short of 8". It's really thick too. A few people have told me it looks out of place, a couple of guys have pulled me thinking i'd be about 4" and easy to take and been disappointed when we got back home. I like what I got - there's a pic of it btw ;) Be who you are :D
 

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Like the OP I have always been short and I guess picked on and stuff in school but eventually I just forgot that I was short because eventually when people got to knew me they liked me and I didn't feel I was different from them. I forget many times that I am much shorter than others unless I see a photo of myself standing next to others I know and then I realize it.

My confidence grew when I started working out and over time created a very above average physique, and I look even more muscular because I am short. Again, I don't see myself as muscular, I still see myself (even if looking in the mirror at times) as a slim short guy but realize that yes indeed, I am very muscular when I see photos of myself next to others. Now instead of being picked on and looked down upon I have found that my muscularity has people looking "up" to me in a different way.

As far as cock size, I always felt I was average even though all of my sexual partners told me I was big. I thought they were just trying to be nice. It was when I started reading more on this site that I realized that my 6" girth is above average even though my 6.5" length is just a bit above average.

Would I like to be taller? It really doesn't matter that much to me anymore... although I would like a couple of more inches on length on my cock.

I've written this before in similar threads:
I found a magic genie and he granted me one wish. I said I wanted my cock to reach halfway to the floor... so he made my legs half as long as they were before.
 

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My whole life i have been a fairly short guy, reached 5,4" in high school and stopped. Being short used to really eat at me, but i kept my ego up by telling myself i was special for having an 8" dick.
I have always wondered that if i had the option, would it better to be tall or be well hung? being hung has sexual advantages, but height is visible to everyone. i have always believed that my large dick was a fair compromise for lack of height, but it struck me more recently that nobody else thinks im special, only seeing my height.

so my question is this, is it a healthy mentality to realize and hate being short, but mentally accepting it MERELY because i see my penis size as a balancing attribute?
or am i just inflating a false ego? any experiences?

Well at least you have a big cock. I'm around 5'6"-5'7" and my cock can barely hit the 6-inch mark. It's only my bonepressed erect length that can hit 6 inches. Otherwise it's between 5.5 and 6 inches with a 5.3 inch girth. Now that's a pathetic size.
What makes it even worse if that fact that I'm 100% straight and we all know that the vast majority of women are heightists and/or size-queens.
I'd rather be 5'4" if it meant that I had an 8-inch cock too. Sure, I'm successful when it comes to university and my job, but I'm still unattractive to the vast majority of women solely because of my height and looks. And most of them would be disappointed when they saw my cock.

About your question I would say; yes it is. I know you're gay but most seem expect short men to compensate in other ways - like being extremely handsome, having a huge cock, being rich etc., so I can't blame you for thinking that way.
 

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Hey buddy, I think I know what you are on about.
I was always the tallest in class until it got to around 2nd grade, and I just stopped, I reached 5´7" and then that was it, all my mates just got taller and taller and I dident.

I have all the atributes of a guy much taller, size 13 feet and big hands, but just not the height.

It leaves you frustrated and all you keep on thinking is, well at least I am better endowed than you, if nothing else.

I put it down to the fact that taller guys are thought of as bigger in all departments but the truth is that is completely not the case, but you cant really just go and prove it! I think its a loose loose situation really, but at least we have the last laugh in the locker room ;-p
 

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I'm 5'4 too, just and i'm just short of 8". It's really thick too. A few people have told me it looks out of place, a couple of guys have pulled me thinking i'd be about 4" and easy to take and been disappointed when we got back home. I like what I got - there's a pic of it btw ;) Be who you are :D

You're very blessed. I'm also short and I don't have a big dick. What makes it worse is that I'm straight, and we all know how incredibly important height and penis size are to women.
 

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I'm 5'4 too, just and i'm just short of 8". It's really thick too. A few people have told me it looks out of place, a couple of guys have pulled me thinking i'd be about 4" and easy to take and been disappointed when we got back home. I like what I got - there's a pic of it btw ;) Be who you are :D

Huh. As a guy who has the opposite of this problem (I'm 6'2" with a 4" erection) and the attending looks of disappointment when they see I don't measure up, this would never have occurred to me. You learn something new every day.
 

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You are more than your height and your cock size. I'm 5ft 8 (close to 6ft in my heels and I LOVE big shoes!) and have been out with many men shorter than I am. Some had small cocks, some had big cocks. It's the total package that counts!

If you think you are unlucky with women because you aren't tall and don't have a big cock, I'd suggest you are seeking partners in the wrong places (online, for example). On the internet, we are all reduced to simple statistics; age, size (height, body, boob, cock) and level of attractivenes. Thankfully, 'real life' introduces other dimensions, such as personality :smile:

...... but I'm still unattractive to the vast majority of women solely because of my height and looks. And most of them would be disappointed when they saw my cock.
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You are more than your height and your cock size. I'm 5ft 8 (close to 6ft in my heels and I LOVE big shoes!) and have been out with many men shorter than I am. Some had small cocks, some had big cocks. It's the total package that counts!

If you think you are unlucky with women because you aren't tall and don't have a big cock, I'd suggest you are seeking partners in the wrong places (online, for example). On the internet, we are all reduced to simple statistics; age, size (height, body, boob, cock) and level of attractivenes. Thankfully, 'real life' introduces other dimensions, such as personality :smile:

Yet you're still a size-queen like most other women. And who loves "drooling over pics of cocks that are as big (or bigger?) than Redbull cans!".

And most women don't seem to think that men are more than their height and their penis size.
 
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I'm 6'1" and I'd happily add a few inches more height and take away a few cock inches.
 

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My whole life i have been a fairly short guy, reached 5,4" in high school and stopped. Being short used to really eat at me, but i kept my ego up by telling myself i was special for having an 8" dick.
I have always wondered that if i had the option, would it better to be tall or be well hung? being hung has sexual advantages, but height is visible to everyone. i have always believed that my large dick was a fair compromise for lack of height, but it struck me more recently that nobody else thinks im special, only seeing my height.

so my question is this, is it a healthy mentality to realize and hate being short, but mentally accepting it MERELY because i see my penis size as a balancing attribute?
or am i just inflating a false ego? any experiences?

I'm 6'0" tall. I've never been disinterested in a man because of his height. That's the LAST thing I consider important. Cock size is much more important to me. So is character, sense of humor, and thoughtfulness. A nice man is always better than a tall, beautiful, hung man. Do you understand where I'm going with this? Try to be a great guy. Be the best person you can be. Then you're a great guy, fun to be around, and you've got a big dick. Win win win. Got it? Plus, being a well hung shorty is a "type" for a lot of guys. Especially, for me, it's a real turn on. Love 'em ;) When a cute short guy has the moxy and balls to hit on me, I melt. Then to find a big dick in his pants, I turn to butter, a hard, slippery, stick of warm butter. Nnnnfff. ;-)
 
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You need to accept yourself, body and all. There is nothing you can do about your physical form (shut up everyone), you are stuck with it so you might as well learn to live with it. Assigning worth to your body because of a specific feature is dangerous because if someone tears that confidence away you will have nothing. The best thing you can do is to accept yourself as you are. It does not matter what others think of your body, they only see it for a limited time. Its with you every day, so in the end you have the last word.

Once you find respect in yourself everyone's negative comments would be like pebbles against a fortress, ineffective.
 

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A good friend of mine is about 5'4 and has a giant cock over 8 and thick. Over time everyone that knows him likes him. He gets very cocky and too angry when he has too much to drink, which is quite often. I would say that all types of people like him for who he is. Would he like to be taller? I am sure he would. Does the big cock compensate? Not at all. If he had a better personality, i am sure he would be much more popular. It's his drinking that is the problem and not his height.
 

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Yet you're still a size-queen like most other women. And who loves "drooling over pics of cocks that are as big (or bigger?) than Redbull cans!".

And most women don't seem to think that men are more than their height and their penis size.

Your ill-informed generalisations about women in this thread and others are extremely tedious and paint you in a very bitter light.

If you are experiencing a lack of success with the opposite sex, perhaps it is less to do with your perceived deficiencies in the character of 'most women' and more to do with the anti-woman sentiment that appears to be oozing out of every pore? If 'most women' thought this way then the majority of average/small guys would be unable to find a partner, which is blatantly not the case.