I'm sorta confused

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by jnp, Dec 8, 2007.

  1. jnp

    jnp New Member

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    Hello smart LPSG members-

    I need some advice....well, I just started dating this girl like 5 days ago, and I need to know how long would y'all wait to have sex? I'm not in this just for the sex, I want to make it last into a real relationship, so I don't want to rush anything....She keeps saying ALOT of things about wanting to have sex, but I just dont want to rush into things and then mess it up...IDK, maybe I'm just weird...any advice?
     
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    No you are not weird. It is good and very mature of you to not want sex to mess it up, because all too often it does. And it should be a huge red flag that she is pushing you into sex this soon into the the relationship. In my opinion, I don't think she is a long term candidate.
     
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    I hope she is...I need a long term gf for a change.
     
  4. D_Landrocke DeLonguepiece III

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    :suspect:Not to throw cold water on your hopes, but there is often an underlying reason why girl want sex so soon in a relationship, or have sex with multiple men. And usually those reasons are not very good. Just watch out and approach with caution.
     
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    Could always just discuss it with her and if she is level headed and a keeper she will understand.
     
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