I'm Straight/can self-suck, but

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A fantasy is usually not something you construct with any thoughts about right or wrong or even if it makes "sense." There are plenty of things that turn me on that many may consider to be outside the norm, but I don't give it a second thought.

I was definitely in the same boat as the OP when I was in college. I could suck my own cock and did so whenever I could, and that contributed to me wanting to try to perform oral sex on someone else. And, like the OP, I only wanted to try it on a really big dick. I figured it might only be a one-time deal, so I wanted to make sure it all happened exactly how I fantasized. I really didn't want to walk away from the experience wishing I had done something different.

Once I was not in a committed relationship. I decided to make an effort to try and live out my fantasy. Again, like the OP, I didn't really consider myself attracted to men, but I just wanted to worship a big cock. It took about six months of searching online to find the right guy, and probably another six months of chatting and camming before I got the courage to meet.

And thankfully, it was absolutely everything I wanted, and more. I set my guidelines up front, and he was totally into it, which is not surprising since it was basically just me pleasuring his enormous schlong :)

As I thought, it did wind up being a one-time thing, and I haven't been with another man since. I don't let that experience define me, but rather think of it as one of many parts of my character.

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A lot of judgementals on this thread. I was in this same state of mind in high school. I considered myself 100% straight, even though I got bj's from guys. The first time I reciprocated, it was as much out of curiosity, as it was sheer horniness.
Over time, I came to realize that having sex with guys was as pleasureable as with women, and I concluded that I wa truly bisexual. I too do not like to "cuddle" or kiss a guy, and not sure why. I know its totally illogical that I would not have a problem putting a dick in my mouth, but have a hangup about a guy putting his tongue in my mouth, but I do.
 

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hi str8 here too i use to self suck alo when younger and more flexible i do give myself facials its so hot . I have meet a few big hung guys on craigs list and sucked them it breings back great memories. I don/t do it often just when a urge hits me and that helps
 
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Sexuality tends to cross borders and though the gay/straight dicotomy almost always is referred to in terms of sexuality, there is also a romantic side to it. I believe a man can be curious about stereotypically gay things without being gay in the romantic sense. You might be one of them and as it seems in good company. Quite a few straight men on here have said they would like to suck my cock. ;)
Like you, I can selfsuck and have done it since my teens. To me that is no more gay than using your hand. :)
 
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