I'm such a loser

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by marwan80, Dec 9, 2008.

  1. marwan80

    marwan80 New Member

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    Yes. I'm admitting it. I'm a loser.

    I hook up with this gorgeous guy while in NYC whom I met through work. (I wrote about this here: http://www.lpsg.org/104489-my-first-one-night-stand.html)

    We stayed in touch since then and kept texting or chating together. I decided to spend my new year's and christmas in the City just because I love it, and partly because of him. I got a place and all that crap and paid shit ton of money (I'm a grad student) and now... now, he tells me he's not gonna be in town.

    I feel like a jackass. I'm going to make sure I make most of my time in the City, but I know I am loser because I've been just obsessive.

    Why am I writing this. Just because I feel like an idiot, and want to say it out loud.
     
  2. nudeyorker

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    You are not a looser. Maybe you should have communicated your plans with him before you made the reservations. But listen, you may have a better time you never know. If all else fails I do great coffee dates with visiting out of town LPSG members!
     
  3. D_Jared Padalicki

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    Don't feel like that, such things can happen man. Everyone has such a story, but that doesn't mean you are a loser. You just make a mistake and meybe expected too much, but don't feel bad, it can happen too everyone, and happens too everyone!

    Cheer up man, enjoy NY when you are there, it is a beautiful city!
     
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    Sometimes things have a way of working out even better than planned
     
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    Hey, there are plenty of fish in the city.
     
  6. edmouse

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    what nudeyorker said. I too like to greet a NY visitor from out of town. I like seeing the city in their eyes. After the coffee, of course.

    Enjoy it.
     
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