I'm such a loser

marwan80

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Yes. I'm admitting it. I'm a loser.

I hook up with this gorgeous guy while in NYC whom I met through work. (I wrote about this here: http://www.lpsg.org/104489-my-first-one-night-stand.html)

We stayed in touch since then and kept texting or chating together. I decided to spend my new year's and christmas in the City just because I love it, and partly because of him. I got a place and all that crap and paid shit ton of money (I'm a grad student) and now... now, he tells me he's not gonna be in town.

I feel like a jackass. I'm going to make sure I make most of my time in the City, but I know I am loser because I've been just obsessive.

Why am I writing this. Just because I feel like an idiot, and want to say it out loud.
 

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You are not a looser. Maybe you should have communicated your plans with him before you made the reservations. But listen, you may have a better time you never know. If all else fails I do great coffee dates with visiting out of town LPSG members!
 

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Don't feel like that, such things can happen man. Everyone has such a story, but that doesn't mean you are a loser. You just make a mistake and meybe expected too much, but don't feel bad, it can happen too everyone, and happens too everyone!

Cheer up man, enjoy NY when you are there, it is a beautiful city!
 

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what nudeyorker said. I too like to greet a NY visitor from out of town. I like seeing the city in their eyes. After the coffee, of course.

Enjoy it.